My OB appointment went well today. I asked her about some IUD options afterwords and she strongly recommend the mirena for me and gave me a big pamphlet to read. I had it out and laying on the couch to read and when I came back from going to the bathroom DS had ripped and crumpled up several pages. I think that's a sign!!
Post by ArgyleEnigma on Jun 1, 2016 10:15:21 GMT -5
June! June! June!
I addressed my thank you note to the lab. There are only five people plus me, but as much as I love them, I know three of them only showed up and were served lunch. Individual thank yous went to the two I know perfectly well actually planned the lunch and picked, paid for and wrapped the present. Those would be the boss and the "lab mom."
Post by frecklesnbrains on Jun 1, 2016 10:15:49 GMT -5
Thanks shoogars! I'm hoping the cluster feeding is temporary. He just has so much growing to do! Born at only 5.5 lbs... My mama instinct wants to feed, feed, feed.
We have a newborn class tonight. DH doesn't even know how to change a diaper, so it should be good for him :-) They go over a bunch of other stuff too. We still have to watch the birthing class I signed us up for. I'm supposed to go to my appointment on Monday having watched it.
Still dealing with terrible engorgement and in so much pain. I told DH that I woke up with porn star boobs yesterday morning. They are seriously ridiculous. I emailed the lactation consultant and she helped me a bit because I pretty much want to scream every time she latches on, it hurts so bad. This never happened with DS. The nurses all said her latch was "perfect" at the hospital, so I don't know what's going on.
DH is at the doctor right now with DS, probably going to confirm a HFM diagnosis. I pretty much didn't sleep last night worrying about how to keep DD away from DS and safe. I'm also so sad because I can hear DS crying, "Where's mommy?! Where's Mommy?!" DH sent me a picture of them at breakfast this morning and it made me cry. I miss him, oh how life can change just a few days!
DD has her pediatrician appointment today, I am excited to find out her weight! She pretty much decided she only wants to sleep in the Rock N' Play, which I really wanted to avoid. At this point though, I also just want sleep.
Sorry for the long ramble. I actually opened a computer for the first time in a week so I can type much faster!
DS was very upset last night that we went to Cheesecake Factory for dinner as he really wanted Boston Market. We told him it was our anniversary to celebrate us getting married, so we were going to go where we wanted. He was very upset about this until we got to the parking lot and then said, "it's okay, we can go where you want" like he was the authority on the matter. Then, we asked him if he knew what an anniversary was and why we were celebrating and he said, "It's when you get to choose where we go for dinner!". Clearly, that was the part that mattered most to him.
I was more swollen than ever last night and my feet/ankels/legs seriously looked like marshmallows. It's still bad this morning, but not as bad. Thankfully no headaches yet and only 2 more days of work until my leave starts. My mom flies in tomorrow and we've made it to June!!! My next goal is to make it to Sunday so DH can race this weekend.
Thanks shoogars! I'm hoping the cluster feeding is temporary. He just has so much growing to do! Born at only 5.5 lbs... My mama instinct wants to feed, feed, feed.
I feel exactly the same way! I think that in a "normal" situation she would still be inside, and so she needs me to hold her and feed her constantly so she can grow!
Thanks shoogars! I'm hoping the cluster feeding is temporary. He just has so much growing to do! Born at only 5.5 lbs... My mama instinct wants to feed, feed, feed.
I feel exactly the same way! I think that in a "normal" situation she would still be inside, and so she needs me to hold her and feed her constantly so she can grow!
That's kind of what happiest baby on the block is based on. If I remember correctly Dr. Karp believes that babies have a fourth trimester...the first three months outside of mom. And these 5 S's basically recreate the womb, and keep babies happy.
Thanks shoogars ! I'm hoping the cluster feeding is temporary. He just has so much growing to do! Born at only 5.5 lbs... My mama instinct wants to feed, feed, feed.
Not sure what it's worth - but i've heard from a couple older women who SWEAR that smaller babies are harder in the beginning because all they do is nurse and nurse and eat and nurse.
My DD was 7.2 at birth and nursed every two hours around the clock for the first 3 months, but I definitely didn't have the cluster feedings.
I know some of the BF pros definitely nix a pacifier this early - but have you tried one? They won't take a pacifier if they're hungry and want to nurse. I didn't use a bink until like 8 weeks, but my SIL used a pacifier in the hospital and she successfully nursed as well.
Off to my weekly NST in a few. I had one really painful contraction when I went to bed and it freaked me out so I couldn't fall asleep. Very tired. I'm working from home today but really I will be watching Netflix and doing baby prep.
I woke up to what I thought was one painful contraction last night. And I thought omg is this what this is?! Am I going to be able to do this!
Thanks shoogars ! I'm hoping the cluster feeding is temporary. He just has so much growing to do! Born at only 5.5 lbs... My mama instinct wants to feed, feed, feed.
Not sure what it's worth - but i've heard from a couple older women who SWEAR that smaller babies are harder in the beginning because all they do is nurse and nurse and eat and nurse.
My DD was 7.2 at birth and nursed every two hours around the clock for the first 3 months, but I definitely didn't have the cluster feedings.
I know some of the BF pros definitely nix a pacifier this early - but have you tried one? They won't take a pacifier if they're hungry and want to nurse. I didn't use a bink until like 8 weeks, but my SIL used a pacifier in the hospital and she successfully nursed as well.
I have used a pacifier, to a limited extent, since being home from the hospital. This baby feeds like a champ, so I'm not too worried about it. But it doesn't help when he's cluster feeding - it's clear he wants the breast and nothing else.
Post by greysonsmom on Jun 1, 2016 14:13:45 GMT -5
frecklesnbrains I'm sorry about the cluster feedings, you must be exhausted. Are you able to take some naps during the day? He will space out his feedings eventually, he is a little guy and once he packs on a little more weight it will be easier. Hang in there.
Post by littleducky on Jun 1, 2016 14:22:11 GMT -5
Apparently this baby is going to be huge. Had a growth ultrsound yesterday and baby measured 7 lb 2 oz yesterday at 36 weeks (87th percentile overall), with an abdominal circumference measurement in the 97th percentile. She was only measuring in the 69th percentile a month ago, so she is growing pretty darn quick.
I was checked today when I got my GBS test and my cervix hasn't changed at all yet, so I'm hoping that my body gets the memo to kick things into gear sooner rather than later... I'd really rather not end up needing a c-section because baby gets stuck. As of now the plan is to induce at 39 weeks due to my history of BP issues as well as baby's size. DS was 8lb 14 oz, so I guess I just make big babies. And no, I do not have GD. Slow down with the growing, baby girl!
All thoughts and prayers needed here. DS got diagnosed with a terrible case of HFM disease. They recommended we not even stay in the same house, so we are sending him away for s few days. He is sad and crying and keeps asking for me and to see his baby sister. I also just found tons of spots in my mouth. Im freaking out and don't know what to do. My MIL sanitized our entire house for us. I've washed everything. We are removing DS but now it looks like I may be infected and I can't be away from her. On top of that, my nipples are bleeding and I'm really struggling with postpartum pains in general.
Post by frecklesnbrains on Jun 1, 2016 15:32:01 GMT -5
txmommy14, so many hugs!!! Definitely call your OB for advice, and let the pediatrician know you think you're infected too. Chances are very good that your little girl will be fine, but increased vigilance is important, and they may have specific suggestions for you. You're in my thoughts!
Oh txmommy14 I was hoping your diagnoses was wrong. I'm so sorry that's awful on so many counts. I hope everyone heals quickly. How long did they say ds needs to be away?
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