I'm out.
Jul 12, 2016 8:57:00 GMT -5
Post by nobb14 on Jul 12, 2016 8:57:00 GMT -5
I'm so sorry.
I'm going to second the advice to seek a second opinion - especially before you jump to surrogate. Your RE is missing something and the game plan is very . . . concerning to me after 4 losses with 2 genetically normal pg'sverified.
Reading what you posted and from what I can remember of your loss history, circulation and implantation issues should be explored. (This lead to an endo scratch as well as neupogen wash pre transfer for me).
Have you had a full Counsyl genetic screen done? This could show a few different things you may have or be a carrier of (that's how we found my MTHFR mutation) which could effect the protocol they give you.
Also, when was the last time your RE checked your TSH? Was it over 2.5? If it was and your RE not address this, move on to a different RE!
More importantly, step back and love on your family and let them love on you. Wait, heal, and then think about what your next steps are.
I basically have a whole bunch of testing in front of me for all sorts of things, and i understand that. Knowing i have so much to test for basically makes me want to pass out from the blood loss, ha. I plan on being tested for ALL the things and at least seeing what my RE has to say about it, since he has been with me for three pregnancies now, and his partner conducted my last d&e... there is some value in that before getting yet another second opinion. i don't think it would hurt to eventually have a second set of eyes look at my results, but we are far from that point right now.
I don't really feel an urgency to get pregnant for the sake of getting pregnant, or getting pregnant without having a better plan. the only reason we went into trying for this pregnancy, was because we felt confident- a second opinion led me to believe it was a progesterone issue, so we went for it thinking suppositories would save us. reflecting now, i should have had all of these tests run again, before blindly trusting an arbitrary prescription. that's on me, and it fucking sucks, and the guilt is strong.