Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
aydee we're staying in a hotel this weekend with the kids for the first time too. It actually hasn't been terrible for them at least, everyone slept last night through all the hotel noise except me :/ Luckily my dad and stepmom are right across the hall so H and I can hang out there after bedtime.
Post by gingerygirl on Jul 17, 2016 16:06:39 GMT -5
So last night my shower curtain fell on me in the middle of my shower. I put it back up and it just now fell again. Inspected it, the rod is broken. Looks like I need to go buy a tension rod.
Post by skinandbones on Jul 17, 2016 17:00:41 GMT -5
DH took the boys to the in laws. I said I needed to work. For far, I've straightened up the house, ate 2 bowels of cereal, and I'm watching My Big Fat American Gypsy Wedding.
Dude! I thought she did!!! But then I thought I was wrong.
Yep i figured since I cut all my hair off it didn't really match anymore. Plus I was on my laptop. The site looks so different on there than on tapatalk. And people's signatures are hilarious.
Post by skinandbones on Jul 17, 2016 17:18:43 GMT -5
@janetheconquerer, Dude by the end of the day, I want no one to touch me. I get it. My cat licks to lick my feet. Prior to kids, I thought it was cute. Now I keep socks next to the bed so I can put them on first thing. It makes my skin crawl.
Post by skinandbones on Jul 17, 2016 17:33:53 GMT -5
Am I an asshole?
So Friday night during DH's gig, a friend I hadn't seen a quite a was there and talked me about all the difficulty she and her husband are having in getting pregnant. I'm really not good with words (especially in person). I asked a couple of questions but at the end I simply said "I hope you find your way." That's not terrible, right?
I also want to tell her about this site. Help me with words.
Happy Saturday! Today is spa day for me! Doing a spin class, getting a hot stone massage and then relaxing in the sauna with one of my best friends— it was a birthday present from MH. So excited— I really need this— the friend time and the relaxing time.
So Friday night during DH's gig, a friend I hadn't seen a quite a was there and talked me about all the difficulty she and her husband are having in getting pregnant. I'm really not good with words (especially in person). I asked a couple of questions but at the end I simply said "I hope you find your way." That's not terrible, right?
I also want to tell her about this site. Help me with words.
So I wanted to say that I feel like I wasn't able to help you when we were discussing the pregnancy issues. But I know of this site that offers great support, advice, and shoulders to lean on. You might want to check it out.
So Friday night during DH's gig, a friend I hadn't seen a quite a was there and talked me about all the difficulty she and her husband are having in getting pregnant. I'm really not good with words (especially in person). I asked a couple of questions but at the end I simply said "I hope you find your way." That's not terrible, right?
I also want to tell her about this site. Help me with words.
I actually think this is ok! It's not a naive "You'll get your bfp soon!!" lol. And it kind of acknowledges that there are a lot of possibilities and outcomes. I'd say def. not asshole.
So Friday night during DH's gig, a friend I hadn't seen a quite a was there and talked me about all the difficulty she and her husband are having in getting pregnant. I'm really not good with words (especially in person). I asked a couple of questions but at the end I simply said "I hope you find your way." That's not terrible, right?
I also want to tell her about this site. Help me with words.
I actually think this is ok! It's not a naive "You'll get your bfp soon!!" lol. And it kind of acknowledges that there are a lot of possibilities and outcomes. I'd say def. not asshole.
I think you were very safe...there are a lot of land mines and I think you avoided them. skinandbones
So Friday night during DH's gig, a friend I hadn't seen a quite a was there and talked me about all the difficulty she and her husband are having in getting pregnant. I'm really not good with words (especially in person). I asked a couple of questions but at the end I simply said "I hope you find your way." That's not terrible, right?
I also want to tell her about this site. Help me with words.
Not an asshole. If you have a way to reach out you could maybe say something like: I was thinking more about what you were sharing with me on Friday about you and YH's challenges with trying to have a baby. I participate on an online forum which I have found helpful with my parenting. There are boards on this forum dedicated to a variety of groups of people, one being for those who are having trouble trying to conceive. I thought I would mention it to you in case you are interested in reaching out to others who are or have experienced the same thing. I know a couple of mom's on my bmb have participated throughout their journey of trying to conceive and now into parenting. The site is called TCF'. Or something along those lines. She can take it or leave it.
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
Post by runningmommy519 on Jul 17, 2016 18:32:08 GMT -5
skinandbones I don't think it's bad at all what you said. tuscanlatte gave a good example of one but another bad I've would have been "you just got to relax and not think about it"
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