New nanny starts today. FX she and C hit it off!! I'm missing him extra this morning. He was in such a great mood all day yesterday. He's usually a pretty cheerful guy but he was even more so. He woke up from his last nap all smiles and was touching my face and pulling me to him and giggling. It was just so sweet.
I'm having a bad hair day and it's affecting my mood.
Post by thatgirlrachel on Sept 12, 2016 8:12:53 GMT -5
I know you're tired of hearing it, but still stick. Since I haven't gotten any better I feel like I wasted a sick day on Friday and should have worked anyway. Oh well.
EG was extra fussy yesterday and last night I finally felt her mouth and sure enough, a top tooth is cutting through. I can't see it yet but I can definitely feel it.
Iz hadn't pooped since thursday, she was up 4 times last night and finally pooped this morning, I'm so happy for her.
H will hopefully (finally) hear from the job he interviewed for more than a month ago early this week. I'm trying to hard not to get my hopes up, but he so deserves this.
I'm trying to stay focused at work, deadlines are stacking up.
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Post by obscurereference on Sept 12, 2016 9:09:03 GMT -5
My H has been going to work before the kids get up and it's working out really well. The baby slept in until 7:30! It's pretty great. It's much more relaxed getting up when H isn't here running around and making everyone sad that he's leaving lol.
obscurereference, isn't sad how that works sometimes? thatgirlrachel, did they do a step test? I would think you'd be feeling better if it was strep and you've been on antibiotics this long. geners, FX good luck! Unknown how are you feeling?
Daycare is closed for Eid so DH and I are splitting the day with Margs. I have to jet back home soon. Also had OT this morning. She thinks we are quickly approaching being out of the scope of EI and will need to refer us to an actual medical feeding clinic. That is not what I wanted to hear.
Also, I have to find a way to decline the wedding I am supposed to be a bridesmaid in- that is now two ceremonies/reception across the country the week before Christmas. My parents told me yesterday they wanted to come out to us for Christmas with my sisters, on the condition that their baby sitting services weren't needed for the wedding. This solves ALL of my problems related to the wedding, money, time off in December, child care, day care closings, food concerns, and more money concerns. I don't know how we not take them up on this. Her shower is this weekend. Should I tell before or after? I am so sad I will not be there to celebrate with her (and I know she is going to be devastated), but a lot has happened to my family since I agreed in February.
Post by thatgirlrachel on Sept 12, 2016 10:25:48 GMT -5
byjove, No, she said she could see it so she didn't do a swab. I thought that was strange, but I specifically asked about a swab and she deemed it not necessary. My niece, an RN, said that wasn't uncommon because if it is an infection at all then she would likely treat it the same, with antibiotics. My fear is that since that one spot hasn't healed at all in 4 days, that it is something more serious. I am going to give it a few more days and then decide if I should go back to the same clinic and let her know she was wrong or go somewhere else for a second opinion -- leaning toward the latter.
Also hugs to you and Mr Margs. I hate you guys are having to go through this. I pray you get some (helpful) answers soon.
Also, I have to find a way to decline the wedding I am supposed to be a bridesmaid in- that is now two ceremonies/reception across the country the week before Christmas. My parents told me yesterday they wanted to come out to us for Christmas with my sisters, on the condition that their baby sitting services weren't needed for the wedding. This solves ALL of my problems related to the wedding, money, time off in December, child care, day care closings, food concerns, and more money concerns. I don't know how we not take them up on this. Her shower is this weekend. Should I tell before or after? I am so sad I will not be there to celebrate with her (and I know she is going to be devastated), but a lot has happened to my family since I agreed in February.
That's tough, but I would just be honest and let her know that it's just not feasible for your family for a number of reasons. I'm sure she will be sad, but given everything you guys have been through, I'm sure she will understand. And, maybe send her a card, small gift, or even a text the night before/morning of the wedding to let her know you're thinking of her and wish you could have been there. That would mean the world to me, if I were in her shoes.
Also, I have to find a way to decline the wedding I am supposed to be a bridesmaid in- that is now two ceremonies/reception across the country the week before Christmas. My parents told me yesterday they wanted to come out to us for Christmas with my sisters, on the condition that their baby sitting services weren't needed for the wedding. This solves ALL of my problems related to the wedding, money, time off in December, child care, day care closings, food concerns, and more money concerns. I don't know how we not take them up on this. Her shower is this weekend. Should I tell before or after? I am so sad I will not be there to celebrate with her (and I know she is going to be devastated), but a lot has happened to my family since I agreed in February.
That's tough, but I would just be honest and let her know that it's just not feasible for your family for a number of reasons. I'm sure she will be sad, but given everything you guys have been through, I'm sure she will understand. And, maybe send her a card, small gift, or even a text the night before/morning of the wedding to let her know you're thinking of her and wish you could have been there. That would mean the world to me, if I were in her shoes.
That's a nice idea. You think I need to tell her before Saturday? Probably?
That's tough, but I would just be honest and let her know that it's just not feasible for your family for a number of reasons. I'm sure she will be sad, but given everything you guys have been through, I'm sure she will understand. And, maybe send her a card, small gift, or even a text the night before/morning of the wedding to let her know you're thinking of her and wish you could have been there. That would mean the world to me, if I were in her shoes.
That's a nice idea. You think I need to tell her before Saturday? Probably?
I would say yes, so you don't have to do it at the shower.
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Post by COCO on Sept 12, 2016 12:31:55 GMT -5
byjove I agree with @thatgirlrachel. I'm sure your friend will understand. Send something nice (my parents sent a bottle of fancy champagne) and let her know you're thinking about her. Tell her before shower so she's not disappointed day of.
Here's to a nice, relaxing holiday for the byjove family!
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Post by RoLoMa on Sept 12, 2016 12:39:41 GMT -5
We had an awesome day yesterday going to the big zoo with our whole family. It was a perfect grandparents day. But it was also a crazy busy day with basically a couple of short naps. M was overtired by the time we finally got home and fought bedtime like crazy. He didn't go to sleep until almost an hour later than normal. I woke up exhausted this morning so I decided to get back and bed and both of us would just stay hime from work/daycare today.
It was a good call because M decided to have a complete meltdown while I was in the shower and trying to dry my hair. He is now snoring on my lap. I am hoping he is better when he wakes up and we can run a couple of errands.
geners , I can't wait to hear how the new nanny does today. Please report back!
MH said it went great (she was only there for the morning)! He said C seemed comfortable with her right away - he took a bottle from her no problem, and even fell asleep while she was holding him. She's got 3 young kids of her own, so she has that experience in addition to her nanny experience and can help with things like consolidating naps and potty training down the line. And she just seems super nice and friendly. I'm really optimistic!
PS I hope you start to feel better soon I'm sorry this has gone on so long!!
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Post by crinita on Sept 12, 2016 16:17:31 GMT -5
Post and run for now, but so far we've done the library storytime, a little trip to the German market, diaper laundry, vacuuming, mopping, lurking on Jan 17 (I guess I was trying to reminisce!?), and washing of dishes. DS has taken an interrupted nap in his crib (woke up once, nursed, then fell back asleep) and I am keeping my fingers crossed that DD will fall asleep soon. She gets so disagreeable if she doesn't nap, it is really not fun.
byjove I'm sorry you didn't get better news today. geners so glad you like your new nanny so far! thatgirlrachel I'm still sick too! Hopefully we both feel better soon. gdaisy09 I hope your H hears back soon!!
Took my parents to the airport this morning. Next visitor is my gf who I haven't seen in 3 years. So excited to see her next week.
I've been staying pretty busy which has been good. Definitely nice to have things to do and happy to have some new friends.
Also really enjoying taking Cam to Little Gym. It is really helping him handle being around other babies. He doesn't get upset like he used to over them crying or squealing.
expatmama11 there are a lot of reasons kids hit, it's not ideal, but it happens. Did the other mom do anything? I don't think I would have put Clara in time out for several minutes, but there would definitely have been something like that is not ok, we don't hit, how do you feel when you get hit, some kind of acknowledgment- and I would be apologizing to you and your kid. At the playground if someone hits my kids and I don't know them, I will say something like it is not ok to hit to them.
A lot can happen between a few months Til 3 and age 3. I would handle it differently now that Clara is older. Clara intentionally scratched Margaret's leg (she was hysterical) a couple of weeks ago and that was handled a bit more aggressively.
Took my own advice and ordered some more wondfos. 10 weeks and counting since my last period. I really don't think I'm KU, but I'll be assured to know I'm not. If I make it to 12 weeks, do you think I should contact my MW or chalk it up to BFing and let it go? It's not like I'm missing it
expatmama11 there are a lot of reasons kids hit, it's not ideal, but it happens. Did the other mom do anything? I don't think I would have put Clara in time out for several minutes, but there would definitely have been something like that is not ok, we don't hit, how do you feel when you get hit, some kind of acknowledgment- and I would be apologizing to you and your kid. At the playground if someone hits my kids and I don't know them, I will say something like it is not ok to hit to them.
A lot can happen between a few months Til 3 and age 3. I would handle it differently now that Clara is older. Clara intentionally scratched Margaret's leg (she was hysterical) a couple of weeks ago and that was handled a bit more aggressively.
I absolutely agree that kids hit, which is why my concern was more in the handling of it. I guess I just expected something besides an apology to us. Cam was perfectly fine so I really wasn't worried about him being hurt. Just looking for parenting advice really for myself in the future. I would have put Cam in a timeout for a few minutes for it.
Post by physiomeg on Sept 12, 2016 20:19:00 GMT -5
expatmama11, we have a little gym by us, but it was hard for me to really understand the concept from the website. I see they have classes, but do they also have open gym or something similar? The class times offered here don't really work with my job schedule, unfortunately.
expatmama11, we have a little gym by us, but it was hard for me to really understand the concept from the website. I see they have classes, but do they also have open gym or something similar? The class times offered here don't really work with my job schedule, unfortunately.
At our gym they are able to go to the open gym times starting at 10 months old. I have also found that the 10month group has more times to choose from. I believe they have some late afternoons as well as weekends available.
With that said, if we had more activities to get him social interaction I wouldn't necessarily spend the money on little gym. The things they do are a little silly but I like Cam being able to crawl around in a safe environment and being around other babies/kids.
obscurereference, isn't sad how that works sometimes? thatgirlrachel, did they do a step test? I would think you'd be feeling better if it was strep and you've been on antibiotics this long. geners, FX good luck! Unknown how are you feeling?
Daycare is closed for Eid so DH and I are splitting the day with Margs. I have to jet back home soon. Also had OT this morning. She thinks we are quickly approaching being out of the scope of EI and will need to refer us to an actual medical feeding clinic. That is not what I wanted to hear.
Well, CRAP. I'm so sorry. Did she give reasoning? Does she think the clinic can help? What do they do that she can't? Ugh. Ugh ugh
salemkitty I think she feels in over her head with all of the allergy issues- maybe issues are more medical? I'm not exactly sure. She hasn't had much advice for us except to keep doing what we are doing. :/
Took my own advice and ordered some more wondfos. 10 weeks and counting since my last period. I really don't think I'm KU, but I'll be assured to know I'm not. If I make it to 12 weeks, do you think I should contact my MW or chalk it up to BFing and let it go? It's not like I'm missing it
Are YOU going to be our first BFP? If you think there is any chance at all that you are, I would take a wondfo when they come in and go from there. If I had to guess, it is probably the BFing though.
Took my own advice and ordered some more wondfos. 10 weeks and counting since my last period. I really don't think I'm KU, but I'll be assured to know I'm not. If I make it to 12 weeks, do you think I should contact my MW or chalk it up to BFing and let it go? It's not like I'm missing it
Are YOU going to be our first BFP? If you think there is any chance at all that you are, I would take a wondfo when they come in and go from there. If I had to guess, it is probably the BFing though.
I am pretty sure it will be negative (heck if it is positive, I'll almost be in 2nd tri ), but no worries, I'll update you guys promptly
Took my own advice and ordered some more wondfos. 10 weeks and counting since my last period. I really don't think I'm KU, but I'll be assured to know I'm not. If I make it to 12 weeks, do you think I should contact my MW or chalk it up to BFing and let it go? It's not like I'm missing it
It's probably BFing and from my experience with really long cycles they may not do much other than tell you to take a pregnacy test and offer provora if it's negative.
Took my own advice and ordered some more wondfos. 10 weeks and counting since my last period. I really don't think I'm KU, but I'll be assured to know I'm not. If I make it to 12 weeks, do you think I should contact my MW or chalk it up to BFing and let it go? It's not like I'm missing it
It's probably BFing and from my experience with really long cycles they may not do much other than tell you to take a pregnacy test and offer provora if it's negative.
That's kind of what I was thinking- I guess I might start to worry there is a cyst or something? It's not like I need my period back I told DH this was motivation to get his V scheduled.
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