Needing to vent *FINAL update*

[comicSans]

So he accidentally took a seat that does not look like theirs, nor is it the same brand, has toys attached, is in the infant room, though his child is not, is set to fit a smaller baby, and presuming they have a base, doesn't fit properly on their base? Guy must be a real moron. How many more times did they use your seat over the weekend?

[sarcaztic10]

Dec 6, 2016 9:35:51 GMT -5 melody330 said:

I'm not sure that's even a solution sarcaztic10! Do you have your seat back? I don't think I would even use it, they must have smashed it into their base. What the actual hell.

Yes we have our car seat back but the fuckers didn't bring our toys back! So they just decided to keep our toys... we bought 2 new convertible car seats because we can't even trust that our infant car seat is safe anymore. I am still so angry about the situation. Personally I could never see my husband making a similar mistake but I have talked to a few other mothers who say that their husbands would probably make the same mistake but would have brought it right back. This dad was clearly just completely ignorant and oblivious... I still don't really get it.

[housecarder]

Dec 6, 2016 11:49:00 GMT -5 sarcaztic10 said:

Dec 6, 2016 9:35:51 GMT -5 melody330 said:

I'm not sure that's even a solution sarcaztic10 ! Do you have your seat back? I don't think I would even use it, they must have smashed it into their base. What the actual hell.

Yes we have our car seat back but the fuckers didn't bring our toys back! So they just decided to keep our toys... we bought 2 new convertible car seats because we can't even trust that our infant car seat is safe anymore. I am still so angry about the situation. Personally I could never see my husband making a similar mistake but I have talked to a few other mothers who say that their husbands would probably make the same mistake but would have brought it right back. This dad was clearly just completely ignorant and oblivious... I still don't really get it.

The only way my husband might not bring it back immediately when he realized was because he panicked and was too anxious to do anything. But if the daycare called and told him to bring it back he would. And then to keep the toys is ridiculous.

[icaughtfire]

WHAT. THE. ACTUAL. FUCK.

I would sit in the parking lot of the DC on my day off & wait for this parent to show up so I could confront them myself but I'm also crazy & petty AF.

[cabbagecabbage]

Final update is good. I fully expected the awful people to remain awful and they did, so good for them I guess. They remain shitty. I'm really glad your DC is being decent. They basically allowed people to steal your stuff by not having a good system in place or not monitoring enough. I just feel bad for the poor kid being driven around in god knows what seat by thieving assholes.

[ellebelle]

This is insane. These people are crazy! Sorry she emailed you personally like that - how rude! Glad the daycare coordinator is on your side. I think if these people are like this they will eventually get kicked out anyway, since I'm sure something else will come up.

[cavewmn]

I can't believe how they don't care what they did to their child was very dangerous and then wanted you to do the same!

Glad overall it got resolved overall.

[ginabini]

Wow. I can't even believe the audacity of these people. It amazes me how many people don't understand how careful you need to be with carseats. So glad you're being reimbursed by the daycare!

[katelou]

I'm sorry they continue to be crappy people. I'm glad the director is on your side. I hope you showed them the sorry/not sorry email that mom sent.

[sarcaztic10]

Dec 9, 2016 10:39:23 GMT -5 katelou said:

I'm sorry they continue to be crappy people. I'm glad the director is on your side. I hope you showed them the sorry/not sorry email that mom sent.

I sure did! I immediately forwarded the email on to the director and told her that I refuse to respond to these people and that I would appreciate it if they would keep all of their communications either to themselves or go through the proper channels. 

[tikoberry99]

Omfg sarcaztic10 I can't believe these people. What assholes! Just admit you were wrong crazy people! Hugs

[littlesthobo]

I am so glad that the daycare is on your side and taking this seriously as well! I can't believe how shitty those other parents are acting. Doesn't surprise me though, considering how they refused to do the decent thing and return the car seat once the mistake was realized. I'm glad you're getting reimbursed.

[lostinfaith225]

Those people are so crazy!!!!

[TnT10]

So I was lurking a couple of weeks ago and saw this, I was SO pissed for you sarcaztic10. I can imagine how fuming you had to have been. I am glad that it is resolved financially at least, but it is kind of rediculous that they are still being assholes about it. How don't they get that what they did is SUCH a big deal?! Ugh!