Lady was talking on the phone while using the bathroom. So now I not only know way more about her personal life than I should, but her friend got to listen to me pee.
no patient portal skinandbones. I guess it's going to be like either Santa comes early with good results/news or the grinch comes with bad results/news.
Anyways, I just need to accept the fact I am 99% sure I am going to have surgery. I say this because after speaking with my sister, who was like omg, that's huge! she said even if not cancerous they would probably opt to remove. And i didn't have time to ask if she meant the mass itself or the thyroid as a whole. i would think just the mass.
Post by skinandbones on Dec 8, 2016 15:41:41 GMT -5
Guys, I feel awful. It started as tummy troubles this morning and exhaustion. Now I'm cold, achy, and feel like shit.
DS1 has a Christmas pageant tonight and I am hosting our regional company Christmas party. Remember I work with the disabled? Several have compromised immune systems.
Post by skinandbones on Dec 8, 2016 16:05:03 GMT -5
@janetheconquerer, I was smart. I actually delegated the planning of the party. It's being held at my neighborhood clubhouse. Really the only thing I need to do is pick up the key, open it, and then return the key.
There are plenty of hands on deck for this but I was really looking forward to it.
H and MIL are really eating crackers for new right now.
MIL wants to get together for Christmas at 7 pm. That so doesn't work for M's schedule. I feel like I shouldn't have to keep repeating this over and over, but I do every time we're trying to plan something. I would love it if he stayed up later and I didn't have to worry about getting home so early, but that's when he goes to sleep. It's what works for the time we have to get him up in the mornings.
H said we should stay until 8 and then leave. He didn't like it when I pointed out that if we do that I'll be the one dealing with the overtired kid because I'm always the one who fucking does it. He also told me to stop trying to figure out timing for several things that need to be planned between now and Christmas. Of course he doesn't worry about it because I'm the one who figures it out and makes sure everything gets done! So fuck off with telling me to not worry about timing!
Tl;Dr in the default parent and MIL never listens to me apparently.
ampaints, stand your ground and say no but 4 works better with m schedule and gives us more time to visit.
Apparently we're not having dinner, only dessert. Of course I don't know if this is extended family our only get together. If MIL discussed this she never talked to us. I told H to call her and figure it out. If it's at 7 I'll send H and tell her we cam come over the next day.
ampaints I feel you. My kids have "early" (normal!!!) Bedtimes and family is always complaining that our sleep schedule is a pain. This is what works for you guys, don't let mil bully you. Your H can go by himself if it's so important to them to not start till 7pm.
So H talked to his mom. For the first time in years we aren't getting together before hand on Christmas day. After having a chance to think about it H agreed that we're not going to arrive somewhere when it's M's bedtime. I'm going to message her and offer that we can either come a little earlier and stay as long as M will allow, or we can visit the next day since we're off.
I just sent MIL a message, but only after I read it to H to get his approval. I think there's a strong chance that MIL will be upset with me, but I don't give a fuck. I've got to keep what's best for my child first.
I can't help comparing how my dad is to how MIL is. My dad scheduled or gathering (Christmas Eve) to start at 4 since he knows what time M goes to bed. My dad who is s retired veteran living in disability and retirement (and his retirement is about to get reduced) helped us so much these past two months. He tried to give me the money for M's orthotics, asked about our bills, and several other things that he honestly can't afford. But mostly he asked how we were doing.
My MIL said she'd watch M if I needed to go to an interview or would take him to any appointments street I went back to work. Yeah, except she can't watch M by herself because of her mobility, so no way she'd be able to handle taking him to the doctor.
Sorry for the rambling vent, just really over my MIL only thinking about what's best/easiest for her.
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
ampaints sorry about your MIL holiday drama. I hate when people can't see past themselves and consider other people. I'm sure it will all be fine. BTW your dad sounds amazing! Reminds me of my mom.
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
@janetheconquerer sorry for the continued stress of the medical unknowns. I hope you find ways to distract yourself while you wait for answers. Hugs and wine for you!
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
MIL totally changed her story between talking to H and my message this evening 🙄 But it's worked out, although we might not see much if the extended family. Whatever.
@janetheconquerer yes I watched this week's too. I was so shocked! I can't wait for the return in January to find out what happened. I had to catch up on 3 episodes, so basically I bawled for 2 hours!
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
I'm home today with a sick baby. He has a nasty cold, runny nose, cough, sneezing. Poor guy. At least he slept fairly well. I have a couple meetings this afternoon that I really don't want to miss, but I'm sure I can get caught up another time.
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
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