I heard the heartbeat on my doppler last Thursday. Hadn't found it since Monday. Went to the OB and confirmed my baby girl passed away on Monday. She measured 11W5D (would have been 12 weeks Tuesday) and our genetic testing looked great. No bleeding or cramping. I have no idea what happened and I'm absolutely heartbroken. Having a D&C tomorrow or Saturday.
Thank you for letting me cry here. I wish you all the best.
Post by AmazingTulip on Jan 5, 2017 16:33:34 GMT -5
I'm so sorry for your loss. I think one of the hardest things for me following my losses was feeling like I wasn't a good mom. Don't put any pressure on yourself during this time and just feel what you need to feel when you need to feel it.
Here's a piece I connected with most after my first loss. When you're up for it, give it a read, maybe you'll connect to it to. A Bed for My Heart
TTC #1 starting July 2013, RE last 2014 First Angel baby lost July 11, 2014 IUI #1 with injections successful: EDD 11/24/15 Rainbow baby DD born 11/14/15 TTC#2 October 2016 Second Angel baby lost Jan 5, 2017
Me: 31 Wife: 30. Legally married 2008, thanks CA! TTC #1 since 11/14 using donor sperm. IUIs Jan-Aug 2015 BFN Sept & OCT 2015 added Femara. BFN Saw RE December 2015. IUI with Clomid & Trigger Jan 2016 BFN IUI #13 with Follistim April 2016 BFFN IVF #1 July 2016. 14R, 10F, 6 Day 5 embryos. 4 PGS normal embabies!
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