I'm adding this here... I just got this text from H... Just lost 100% of my bonus and maybe my job. Stay tuned.
WTF?
You guys really need to have a talk about what you're doing, the 2 of you, as a family, what. Do you have any backup plans just in case? Separate money, anywhere?
We've gone through our savings- this money was supposed to replenish that. After taxes it would be less than $10K- but right now we have nothing. He texted again- sounds like he'll keep his job. No bonus- not sure exactly what's going on, but he leads the P&P group and it has something to do with P&P.
I do think you guys need to talk soon. It's unfair for him to string you along and he can decide to let it end/continue whenever he wants. I'm sorry this is all happening.
I do think you guys need to talk soon. It's unfair for him to string you along and he can decide to let it end/continue whenever he wants. I'm sorry this is all happening.
This is where I am. Unfair to her and the family.
We just want the best for you mrspiatt, and it isn't fair to just be sitting around waiting for answers at HIS will.
tuscanlatte @betweenthelines This is partly why I'm going to my sister's. I need to be away from him so I can clear my head and figure out what's best for me and the kids (mainly Allison since the others are older). He's nice to me when he wants to be, even sent a text saying he missed me the other day- then when he got home he was ice cold. Whether it's intentional or not (I really hope it's not) he's completely tearing me down and killing any sort of self worth I may have had.
Post by tuscanlatte on Jan 27, 2017 10:21:07 GMT -5
mrspiatt, aw that is terrible. I think going to your sister's is a good idea. Don't wait for him to make a decision, you can go clear your head, and really decide what you want. Even if what you want is to keep trying, you need to decide that on your own and act on it. Come up with some boundaries that will protect you. I am really sorry you are going through this.
mrspiatt try to get some time to yourself when you go to your sisters. Time to be able to think and get your thoughts and feelings together so you have a clear mind! Do what is best for you and the kids. Hope you get to enjoy your time and de-stress a bit!
Post by th3stryck3r on Jan 27, 2017 14:09:35 GMT -5
mrspiatt, I'm so sorry for everything you're going through. Try to enjoy the time at your sisters and get some time just for you while you're there. You need that.
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