I love my H but he drives me crazy. Without fail, I'll ask him if he wants to sign up for some baby class, he agrees, I sign us up, send him a calendar invite, start reminding him about the class about a week before, then the day of the class he starts complaining about how stupid it's going to be and how he doesn't want to go like it's the first he's hearing about it. Incidentally, we have an infant CPR class tonight, I'm not sure if it will help or hurt my anxiety that I'm having a baby in two weeks, but I'm sure it will be good to know just in case
I hope it doesn't make you too anxious. Infant CPR is a great class for anyone, with or without baby exposure, to take.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
I love my H but he drives me crazy. Without fail, I'll ask him if he wants to sign up for some baby class, he agrees, I sign us up, send him a calendar invite, start reminding him about the class about a week before, then the day of the class he starts complaining about how stupid it's going to be and how he doesn't want to go like it's the first he's hearing about it. Incidentally, we have an infant CPR class tonight, I'm not sure if it will help or hurt my anxiety that I'm having a baby in two weeks, but I'm sure it will be good to know just in case
This will be MH...he's a champion at saying he will do something or participate in something. And then acting like I sprung it on him and asking if he really has something to go.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
Post by ladytiffany24 on Feb 20, 2017 11:02:19 GMT -5
Speaking of husbands, I'm about to lose it on mine!
He told me to slow down on spending for baby (specifically, on Amazon) for the next couple of weeks. I do just that, even though there are a couple of needs we still have. What does he tell me today?! That he "went ahead and bought the TV and TV mount for the basement." WTAF?! It's okay for you to buy a TV and shit we don't NEED but I'm supposed to hold off on a couple of the things we still need for this baby that could be here in less than a month! Someone hold me back!
Speaking of husbands, I'm about to lose it on mine!
He told me to slow down on spending for baby (specifically, on Amazon) for the next couple of weeks. I do just that, even though there are a couple of needs we still have. What does he tell me today?! That he "went ahead and bought the TV and TV mount for the basement." WTAF?! It's okay for you to buy a TV and shit we don't NEED but I'm supposed to hold off on a couple of the things we still need for this baby that could be here in less than a month! Someone hold me back!
Ugh, my husband has been going on about a new TV, too. And out current stand won't fit it, so that's going to be needed, too. Thankfully, he's a reasonable man (at the moment) and won't buy it because he knows we have to spend that money on a bunch of upcoming important baby things.
Speaking of husbands, I'm about to lose it on mine!
He told me to slow down on spending for baby (specifically, on Amazon) for the next couple of weeks. I do just that, even though there are a couple of needs we still have. What does he tell me today?! That he "went ahead and bought the TV and TV mount for the basement." WTAF?! It's okay for you to buy a TV and shit we don't NEED but I'm supposed to hold off on a couple of the things we still need for this baby that could be here in less than a month! Someone hold me back!
Nope.Nope.Nope.
MH told me that my trip was an unnecessary spend because we need to buy more baby stuff (he doesn't care about the baby stuff, just didn't want me to come here) Now all of a sudden - the pressure tank is losing pressure, he wants new light fixtures in the bathrooms, we need a new garage door because there have been break ins in the area. Not to mention he needs to finish the trim on the new wall.
I hate sharing money with MH. I want my freedom back.
I love my H but he drives me crazy. Without fail, I'll ask him if he wants to sign up for some baby class, he agrees, I sign us up, send him a calendar invite, start reminding him about the class about a week before, then the day of the class he starts complaining about how stupid it's going to be and how he doesn't want to go like it's the first he's hearing about it. Incidentally, we have an infant CPR class tonight, I'm not sure if it will help or hurt my anxiety that I'm having a baby in two weeks, but I'm sure it will be good to know just in case
Our classes are required by the birthing center, so I just blame them and tell MH that we literally don't have a choice. He might as well just suck it up and not complain about it.
Speaking of husbands, I'm about to lose it on mine!
He told me to slow down on spending for baby (specifically, on Amazon) for the next couple of weeks. I do just that, even though there are a couple of needs we still have. What does he tell me today?! That he "went ahead and bought the TV and TV mount for the basement." WTAF?! It's okay for you to buy a TV and shit we don't NEED but I'm supposed to hold off on a couple of the things we still need for this baby that could be here in less than a month! Someone hold me back!
Oooh this would drive me batty! MH is the same way...he has his "racecar money" that I don't touch, but you'd think he'd step up and hand some of it over for the big expenses we have for the baby. Nope. He bought a golf cart last weekend "for his race team" to ride around the racetrack. But the glider for the baby's room? Went on the credit card.
Speaking of husbands, I'm about to lose it on mine!
He told me to slow down on spending for baby (specifically, on Amazon) for the next couple of weeks. I do just that, even though there are a couple of needs we still have. What does he tell me today?! That he "went ahead and bought the TV and TV mount for the basement." WTAF?! It's okay for you to buy a TV and shit we don't NEED but I'm supposed to hold off on a couple of the things we still need for this baby that could be here in less than a month! Someone hold me back!
Nope.Nope.Nope.
MH told me that my trip was an unnecessary spend because we need to buy more baby stuff (he doesn't care about the baby stuff, just didn't want me to come here) Now all of a sudden - the pressure tank is losing pressure, he wants new light fixtures in the bathrooms, we need a new garage door because there have been break ins in the area. Not to mention he needs to finish the trim on the new wall. I hate sharing money with MH. I want my freedom back.
Me too. Although he has way more of it than I do, so I probably should stop complaining. I want him to share his, but I don't want to share mine, lol!
Speaking of husbands, I'm about to lose it on mine!
He told me to slow down on spending for baby (specifically, on Amazon) for the next couple of weeks. I do just that, even though there are a couple of needs we still have. What does he tell me today?! That he "went ahead and bought the TV and TV mount for the basement." WTAF?! It's okay for you to buy a TV and shit we don't NEED but I'm supposed to hold off on a couple of the things we still need for this baby that could be here in less than a month! Someone hold me back!
Oooh this would drive me batty! MH is the same way...he has his "racecar money" that I don't touch, but you'd think he'd step up and hand some of it over for the big expenses we have for the baby. Nope. He bought a golf cart last weekend "for his race team" to ride around the racetrack. But the glider for the baby's room? Went on the credit card.
WTF husbands?!
So damn thankful I don't have to worry about a racecar fund. That's M's godfather and H just helps out. The money he spends on going to races on the other hand drives me nuts!
MH told me that my trip was an unnecessary spend because we need to buy more baby stuff (he doesn't care about the baby stuff, just didn't want me to come here) Now all of a sudden - the pressure tank is losing pressure, he wants new light fixtures in the bathrooms, we need a new garage door because there have been break ins in the area. Not to mention he needs to finish the trim on the new wall. I hate sharing money with MH. I want my freedom back.
Me too. Although he has way more of it than I do, so I probably should stop complaining. I want him to share his, but I don't want to share mine, lol!
I make more money than MH now so I think I should have all the control.
Oooh this would drive me batty! MH is the same way...he has his "racecar money" that I don't touch, but you'd think he'd step up and hand some of it over for the big expenses we have for the baby. Nope. He bought a golf cart last weekend "for his race team" to ride around the racetrack. But the glider for the baby's room? Went on the credit card.
WTF husbands?!
So damn thankful I don't have to worry about a racecar fund. That's M's godfather and H just helps out. The money he spends on going to races on the other hand drives me nuts!
Honestly I'm glad he keeps that money separate and I don't have to know about or think about it. I have no idea how much he spends on building his car or registering for races, or buying trailers and traveling, etc., and I probably don't want to know. I'm thankful that he keeps it all separate and that he doesn't use "our money" to fund his hobby. I'd probably be a much angrier wife if I knew details.
When Ollie comes, however, that might be a different story. I've heard the phrase "I have less than 4 years to buy a Jr. dragster" come out of his mouth like 40382982 times since I got pregnant.
MH did this for me once when we were dating...they were horrendous. I would much rather pay someone to massage me and paint them.
He actually didn't do too bad. I mean it's no professional pedicure quality but it means I can wear sandals without yucky unpainted nails. I give him major points for the attempt.
So damn thankful I don't have to worry about a racecar fund. That's M's godfather and H just helps out. The money he spends on going to races on the other hand drives me nuts!
Honestly I'm glad he keeps that money separate and I don't have to know about or think about it. I have no idea how much he spends on building his car or registering for races, or buying trailers and traveling, etc., and I probably don't want to know. I'm thankful that he keeps it all separate and that he doesn't use "our money" to fund his hobby. I'd probably be a much angrier wife if I knew details.
When Ollie comes, however, that might be a different story. I've heard the phrase "I have less than 4 years to buy a Jr. dragster" come out of his mouth like 40382982 times since I got pregnant.
H always feels the need to bring up what new toy he has to have. If he asks me one more time if he can buy a snowmobile I'm going to losing my shit. He is still making payments on a snowmobile he had before we met. Soooo no ! I was happy to sell the boat but I wish we didn't add 10K to that payment with our travel trailer.
wannabmama do you plan on shopping at all before or after dinner? I was thinking of heading down early....
Hmmm, if I can get stuff done around the house, I might head up early. I don't know that mall at all...but I can always do some shopping I'll let you know how things are going!
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
MH did this for me once when we were dating...they were horrendous. I would much rather pay someone to massage me and paint them.
He actually didn't do too bad. I mean it's no professional pedicure quality but it means I can wear sandals without yucky unpainted nails. I give him major points for the attempt.
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