My other UO for the day: I love the smell of beer brewing.
This brought to you by St. Louis, where he majority of the city often smells of hoppy brewery goodness.
OMG you are so wrong. Especially when it's hot out and the whole downtown smells of canned green beans left to boil in a cheap aluminum pot and all the water has evaporated.
Oh I just realized I had a UO today. I am not a fan of the co-sleeping thing. Whether in bed or the same room. Naps are ok I think but it just doesn't seem right to me. When we had MD she slept in her room on her own from day one. I am proud of her. But it also helped us to setup a routine.
Oh sorry let me do this then. My UO is that my daughters sippy cups are a little to sippy. Can they be more, like. less sippy?
Does that work?
LOL I'm kidding. I don't normally have UOs but when I do it was nice that it was on UO day finally and I could type it. But please go back to what your were doing. LOLOLOOLOOLOLOLLOOL
Something I noticed that irks me is like when someone posts something and let's say someone asks them a question about it maybe asking for clarification and you get 2-3 other people responding - "I think she meant...."
Are you in her head? Did you ask her off board? Psychic Sally?
Well sometimes it's obvious AF
Someone's feelings and thoughts are obvious AF? Cause that is what I am speaking about and not a recipe ingredient.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Something I noticed that irks me is like when someone posts something and let's say someone asks them a question about it maybe asking for clarification and you get 2-3 other people responding - "I think she meant...."
Are you in her head? Did you ask her off board? Psychic Sally?
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I think people respond because maybe they are offering their interpretation of what someone meant... I don't get why it is exasperating.
I never said it was exasperating.
If you say something. I ask you to clarify it. I find it odd when other people jump to answer for you.
It wasn't about other interpretations of what you meant. If a question was directed to the one person (again not about something like color of paint, recipes -I am speaking to thoughts and feelings), I find it strange other people jump in to answer.
Didn't happen today but it happens. I mean again, I don't expect anyone to change but it was my post for the UO thread.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Post by Cherhorowitz on Feb 23, 2017 17:36:36 GMT -5
I sometimes say I'm solo Parenting when my H is traveling. Because I'm Parenting, solo. I do cringe when people say they're "single parenting" or "how do single parents do it?" (They do) but solo parenting just represents that I'm parenting alone at the present time, it has no bearing or commentary on single parents.
That being said, sometimes things that are said about pregnancy and/or newborns stings me but I realize it's my experiences and current situation that shape my reaction. I'm not going to remove solo Parenting from my vernacular but I'm also not going to tell someone what they're allowed to be bothered by.
Maybe it just seems brand new because I'll be a FTM and 7 week old babies seem so small and fragile? Like, I'm imagining doing all the things alone for a week and wondering how I'm going to not break him. Not yet through the course of my pregnancy have I had to think about taking care of this kid without my husband right there next to me if I have a question or need to make a judgement call or something. It's scaring me a little bit.
does your husband work outside the home full time? Because if yes, you will be neck deep in doing most daytime things yourself at that point anyway. The nighttime might suck, but you can survive a week.
Also, as far as fragile... you just wait to see how the pediatrician and nurses manhandle the absolute shizz out of the fresh-out-the-oven baby. They are not that fragile.
I mean... don't drop it. But also, don't panic if you do.
I'm behind but I wanted to say I was 110% not prepared for how the pediatrician in the hospital was going to handle my daughter. I audibly gasped when he tests her Moro reflex.
Dear heavenly mother of dildos, Goddess to all below. Please let our friend Jap emerge from her sexual adventures shard free. May the glass of her dildo only be ribbed for her pleasure. May you be kind with temperature changes and the laws of nature. Amen. In the pussy.
Post by Cherhorowitz on Feb 23, 2017 17:39:15 GMT -5
Also, MH went back to work in pretty much 48 hours after the birth of our kid. He started traveling within weeks. I don't have family in the state. It isn't as overwhelming as you think. It allowed me to find a nice rhythm with things and keep my own schedule. It sounds scary now, but I promise it's doable. Just sleep when the baby sleeps and if that's at 2 in the afternoon, there's no shame in that.
Dear heavenly mother of dildos, Goddess to all below. Please let our friend Jap emerge from her sexual adventures shard free. May the glass of her dildo only be ribbed for her pleasure. May you be kind with temperature changes and the laws of nature. Amen. In the pussy.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Dear heavenly mother of dildos, Goddess to all below. Please let our friend Jap emerge from her sexual adventures shard free. May the glass of her dildo only be ribbed for her pleasure. May you be kind with temperature changes and the laws of nature. Amen. In the pussy.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Oh I just realized I had a UO today. I am not a fan of the co-sleeping thing. Whether in bed or the same room. Naps are ok I think but it just doesn't seem right to me. When we had MD she slept in her room on her own from day one. I am proud of her. But it also helped us to setup a routine.
My first kid did too but it turns out sleeping in the same room as your child is recommended for the first 6 months to prevent SIDS. With DS, I did for about 2 months. I do it again, I will 100% cosleep for the recommended time frame.
Oh sorry let me do this then. My UO is that my daughters sippy cups are a little to sippy. Can they be more, like. less sippy?
Does that work?
LOL I'm kidding. I don't normally have UOs but when I do it was nice that it was on UO day finally and I could type it. But please go back to what your were doing. LOLOLOOLOOLOLOLLOOL
Um what? The eyeroll is at the part where you said it "doesn't seem right." That's rather judgey of you, I'd say. I'm sure you know what's right for all babies and families all over the world when it's come to sleeping habits and locations.
Post by Cherhorowitz on Feb 23, 2017 17:46:41 GMT -5
I have also seen people say they don't know how SAHMs do it because their kid is home from school and it's hard. If you're typically a 2 parent household and your partner isn't there that night, you can say it's hard. Because sometimes doing things that aren't your norm is hard.
I'm not a co-sleeper but isn't it one of the tenets (?) of Attachment Parenting and that it actually helps independence in the long run? I also found it odd that your "proud" of a baby for sleeping alone. It just struck me as odd. JukEboXtheTanK
I was too worried about SIDS to attempt co-sleeping. But I also had a non cuddler for a baby.
Dear heavenly mother of dildos, Goddess to all below. Please let our friend Jap emerge from her sexual adventures shard free. May the glass of her dildo only be ribbed for her pleasure. May you be kind with temperature changes and the laws of nature. Amen. In the pussy.
I'm not a co-sleeper but isn't it one of the tenets (?) of Attachment Parenting and that it actually helps independence in the long run? I also found it odd that your "proud" of a baby for sleeping alone. It just struck me as odd. JukEboXtheTanK
I was too worried about SIDS to attempt co-sleeping. But I also had a non cuddler for a baby.
Yeah, I think that's the idea and /anecdote my 3yo slept in our bed for 17 months and has not spent a single night in it since.
Then Comes Family, LLC is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising
program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com.