My mom is here, all is right, or at least better, with the world. Small victories though. DS1 has been acting completely normal since I picked him up and fever free. He hasn't eaten a ton, but I also wouldn't let him eat sugar/heavy foods. DS2 feels cooler to the touch and was perking up a bit before bed. I don't want to say much more for fear of jinxing it.
I'm such a bitch. H bought me dinner. He didn't ask me what I wanted though and got something that I would never eat. I'm so mad. I was just like "why didn't you ask me?" Now I just ate garlic knots and chips for dinner which will probably lead to me throwing up at some point.
So we've been hearing this weird shuffling noise and thought it was DD at first. But then realized it was late and we hadn't heard her talking so we finally turned the TV off and kept hearing the noise. So my H decided it was in the basement and went to check it out with a steak knife and I called my mom. He didn't find anything and we haven't heard it since. It could have been nothing. It could have been outside. Or it could be a monster to eat us all.
wells2010, you are not a bitch! Never ever buy a pregnant lady food without confirming that it is wanted. I'm on your side. I mean, so nice of him to think of you, but this is the third go around, he should know better.
I'm not sure. It could have been. H thinks it may have been outside or the garage since our garage and basement doors are next to each other. We haven't heard anything since and we're still alive so that's good.
I'm trying to fall asleep but I'm still all nervous.
@feegan, that's tricky and super frustrating. My H can be like that. He either super-cares about something or doesn't care at all. I can see how you would be hesitant because part of you feels like he's going to switch back over into having an opinion on this and then blame you for anything he doesn't like about it. But, at least with my H, when he says he doesn't care, he really doesn't- and that worry about blame and all that is all in my head. I think mostly because I usually let him have more weight in family decisions because it's just easier and I usually don't care, it feels weird for me to make a big decision and it makes me anxious.
So, no clue if that's your situation, but if it is, just have a really serious talk about if he is truly okay with it (although it would be good if he could go see it for just a min) and then go for it if you like it.
Also, your current situation (two flights of stairs with twins, stream, etc) sounds exhausting, and if he was the primary decision maker for that, he probably feels a little guilty and that may be why he's totally delegating to you.
So last night I was trying to install a doorknob in our downstairs bathroom and managed to lock myself in the bathroom. I was on the verge of having a full on panic attack when I realized I couldn't open it because MH is gone and my phone was upstairs and any useful tools were on the other side of the door. I was deliberating whether I could smash the door down but managed to bend the latching mechanism enough to get it out.
New life lesson learned - be very careful when installing doorknobs.
wells2010, you are not a bitch! Never ever buy a pregnant lady food without confirming that it is wanted. I'm on your side. I mean, so nice of him to think of you, but this is the third go around, he should know better.
Post by lonegalathome on Mar 3, 2017 7:19:10 GMT -5
@feegan maybe I'm feeling feisty but if I was the primary home parent and it made my life 100 times easier and I loved it and he said just do it - i probably would. Can you take pics to show him? I agree with @wafflesfriendswork that it's probably residual from the job offer . Hugs lady
ncjulia12 @wafflesfriendswork lonegalathomeamch8 oh we've had the serious talk, he maintains he doesn't care and still absolutely refuses to go see it. It is less than a 6 minute drive from our house. I've shown him the listing pics and the ones I took yesterday when I visited, he barely looked and just waved his hands in the air, "yeah yeah just get it." So, we're getting it because I'm just over it.
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