Post by ourcrazynavylife on Mar 13, 2017 18:43:03 GMT -5
@easilyamused that doesn't surprise me. It's really a safety thing for your baby until their blood clots appropriately on their own. Say you declined it then heaven forbid you got into a car accident on your way home or baby was accidentally dropped. They're at much greater risk of hemorrhaging without it.
My friend just texted me that she's going to visit our daycare lady for a tour. She wasn't supposed to have any more openings. I am FREAKING OUT that she's going to give our spot away. I'm having an all the way anxiety attack.
Why are you worried about that? Maybe another child is leaving and she had another opening?
Post by onesweetworld on Mar 13, 2017 19:30:20 GMT -5
On my way in here, I ran into a husband of a woman from my Childbirth class. Her due date was the day after mine and she is being induced due to BP issues. Shit is about to get real.
My friend just texted me that she's going to visit our daycare lady for a tour. She wasn't supposed to have any more openings. I am FREAKING OUT that she's going to give our spot away. I'm having an all the way anxiety attack.
Why are you worried about that? Maybe another child is leaving and she had another opening?
I know...I just have insane, over the top anxiety since becoming pregnant. I stopped taking anxiety meds, so now Im freaking out all the time. It took me awhile to come around to rational thinking, but I'm calmed down now. I'm sure she just had another opening.
Why are you worried about that? Maybe another child is leaving and she had another opening?
I know...I just have insane, over the top anxiety since becoming pregnant. I stopped taking anxiety meds, so now Im freaking out all the time. It took me awhile to come around to rational thinking, but I'm calmed down now. I'm sure she just had another opening.
I'm sorry you had an attack. Anxiety is the worst and if you see yourself having these episodes a lot, maybe you should talking to your doctor about getting back on the meds? You have to take care of yourself too, ya know?
My hospital has a volunteer doula program so I won't meet my doula before I check in to L&D- but it'll be free, so I will take the trade off. I'd like a copy for her, then one for my chart... I remember being asked by eleventy different people last time if I had a birth plan (I didn't, my plan was "epidural immediately, IDGAF what else"). Not sure how many copies they actually needed.
Wow, people were asking for it? I've only heard anecdotes about the opposite - having one ready and no one wanting to see it. Then maybe in your case print 5-10 copies and have them in your hospital bag. If someone asks, have you H hand them out like candy.
The volunteer doula program sounds interesting! Are they in training?
Some are in training, some are semi-retired, and some are just willing to pull the extra shifts for the program. It's a bummer I don't get to meet/interview my doula beforehand or have her there when I labor at home, but I can't argue with the several thousands of dollars in savings!
Well, yes, you technically *can* refuse that and the Vitamin K shot but the fact that she actually said it aloud... 😒
Huh, I think that might be regional, because I've had friends who've said they were not allowed to decline the K shot. Hmmmmm
It is state by state. Some states will call CPS on you if you refuse the eye stuff/vitamin K and some states it is totally up to you. Check your local laws.
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Post by akraus2015 on Mar 13, 2017 21:07:41 GMT -5
So the daycare provider called me back. She forgot about us and was planning to give our spot to my friend. I have to go in and talk to her tomorrow. Now they're saying we may need to pay to hold our spot.
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