Weekly All-CAR check-in 3/19/2017

[therealbug]

Weekly All-CAR check-in

Happy Sunday! Welcome to the weekly All-CAR check in! I hope you all had a great week!

Due dates:

sfazar 4/10/17
LaRomana 4/18/17
downtheshore 4/21/17
shandorfml2 4/21/17 (scheduled c-section)
kath16 5/2/17
chknma 5/7/17
grneyes 5/25/17
km380 6/1/17
leloyd 6/2/17
MissSally 7/3/17
AmazingTulip 7/7/17
akraus2015 7/18/17
addymac 8/19/17
@xamountofwords 8/16/17
muscari 8/17/17
therealbug 8/24/17
cali 8/24/17
elliecat17 8/25/17
holdingouthope 9/22/17
luciddreamer 9/30/17
bootsorhearts 10/18/17
Rama 10/23/17
peggels24 11/09/17
cnf2013 11/18/17
@jj32 11/18/2017


If you're new to the check in or want to be added to the due date list, tag me with your due date so I can add you.



How far along are you? Week/baby size?

How are you feeling (physically and/or emotionally)?

Other updates? Thoughts, vents, baby preparations, etc?

Upcoming milestones or appointments?

Do you need any thoughts or prayers?

[grneyes]

Hi therealbug, thanks for the check-in, how are you doing?


How far along are you? 30+3, motorcycle helmet

How are you feeling (physically and/or emotionally)? Physically pretty good besides not being able to reach over the belly too easily. Emotionally I go back and forth sometimes when she's quiet if everything is okay, but then she'll have a dance party later that day. I think it's starting to hit me now that it's getting closer that I just want her here safely.

Other updates? Thoughts, vents, baby preparations, etc? Finished my hypnobirthing class this weekend! We also met with a pediatrician this past week who we both loved, so that's nice to get that checked off the list.

Upcoming milestones or appointments? Fundal height measured a week behind at Friday's apt but OB isn't concerned at all. It measured a week behind 6 weeks ago, but 2 weeks ago it was on track so hopefully all is fine. I'm petite and baby is a girl, so I'm guessing she's not going to be giant. Next apt in two weeks.

Do you need any thoughts or prayers? I'm good, thanks.

[therealbug]

How far along are you? Week/baby size?

17w3d/large order of fries or the Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch (extra points to those who get that reference)

How are you feeling (physically and/or emotionally)?

Still pretty good but I've developed a new love of naps and am getting my low back pain when I stand too long or sit in the wrong position.

Other updates? Thoughts, vents, baby preparations, etc?

This is going to be a bit of a vent: we had a pretty in depth u/s on Tuesday with the MFM. Baby A and Baby B both have estimated weights of 5 ounces which seems to be right on track to what Dr. Google is showing me. They did a lot of measurements with Baby A being pretty uncooperative overall and the tech had an incredibly hard time getting measurements. Baby A came out as being in the 16th percentile and B in the 19th percentile. Our MFM was pulled out for an emergency so we were not able to discuss the u/s findings with her. We saw the OB the next day. She expressed some concern about their sizes but also pushed it off as "they will watch this" and did not really discuss it with us. We both picked up that she was concerned about them being under the 50th percentile and left the appointment with vague worries and vaguer assurances that it was just one u/s and that she would wait for the next one before being concerned.

They ended up giving us the copy of the u/s report we had brought with us (in a sealed envelope) because the MFM had sent one over to them. I looked at the report when I got home - here's the venting part - the reason Baby A measured so small overall was because the head measurements where in the 4th percentile. This would be concerning except we were at the u/s and that was the main measurement the tech could not get! She had switched to B and then went back to A, had an angle of the top of the head and made the comment "fine, good enough" because the baby never did get in the right position! She knew it was a bad angle/image that she used for the measurement. It really was a better-than-nothing measurement. Grrrr. If we had been asked about how the u/s was, we could have told the OB that the tech had problems with getting certain measurements. Same with Baby B - all of those measurements were great except for the femur length. Do you want to guess the one measurement that the tech had problems getting from Baby B? Yep, femur length.

I'll feel better after we get through our series of anatomy scans (we have already been warned it will take at least two to get all of the measurements).

The tech did give a pretty solid guess that Baby B is a girl. A, who was not being cooperative and whose cord kept getting in the way, gave us one angle that made the tech lean towards boy, but, I'm waiting for the next scan to see if we can get a confirming view that everyone is a little more comfortable with.

Upcoming milestones or appointments?

Appointment on Tuesday for a P17 shot. Working towards our 20 week milestone.

Do you need any thoughts or prayers?

That our next scan shows two healthy babies that are developmentally on track.

[therealbug]

grneyes, a motorcycle helmet just seems so big! It sounds like you are showing continued growth and fundal measurements are not an exact science - I think its more of a tool to gauge fetal growth. Your OB is not worried about it which is important.

When did you start consulting pediatricians? I was just thinking about that and wondering when we should start.

[grneyes]

therealbug, Ugh, I'm sorry about the ultrasound measurements. That is incredibly frustrating. The overall weight sounds normal to me, especially with twins. I would have to go back and look it up, but I think baby girl weighed 7-8 oz when she measured 18 weeks at my anatomy scan and all the percentages were normal/the geneticist OB (who my a/s was with) was happy with everything. It sounds like that one measurement threw off the percentages for each of your babies. I hope you're able to talk to the MFM for some reassurance. When do you go back for the anatomy scan?

Haha yeah, the motorcycle helmet size doesn't seem accurate, but that's what the Ovia app says! I had my apt in week 30 with the pediatrician - I only had to wait one week from when I called to schedule it. My dentist actually goes to the same OB practice and she recommended the pediatrician that she uses to us, so I probably would have started searching earlier than that if I had to find one on my own. I would probably ask for some names from the MFM/OB and start researching them after the anatomy scan. For me, I wasn't able to concentrate on things like that until I knew all was okay with baby.

[cali]

grneyes, I'm sure your final height will be back on track by your next check. Those measurements can be pretty imprecise.

therealbug, sorry for the difficulties with your u/s measurements. So frustrating! Fwiw, the weights you gave sounded normal to me especially for twins. I had a scan at 16w5d and they estimated baby's weight at 6 oz and said that was good.

[cali]

How far along are you? Week/baby size?

17w3d, chipmunk

How are you feeling (physically and/or emotionally)?

Ok this week.

Other updates? Thoughts, vents, baby preparations, etc?

Had my mfm appointment and u/s on Tuesday. MFM wasn't overly concerned with my BP yet, he didn't think my readings were that high. But he still wants to keep a close eye on it and has me continuing to monitor at home 3x a day. U/s went well and baby girl's measurements were all appropriate.


Upcoming milestones or appointments?

Do you need any thoughts or prayers?

No at the moment, thanks.

[MissSally]

Hi everyone! I'm gonna try and come back later to tag when I have more time/energy.

How far along are you? Week/baby size? 25 weeks tomorrow/bottle of wine!

How are you feeling (physically and/or emotionally)? Physically much better than last week. I still have a little cramping on and off if I overdo it, but nothing like before. I think I might have experienced Braxton hicks for the first time yesterday but I don't really know what they're supposed to feel like? Emotionally I just feel really anxious to start getting things done now. My shower is in about 6 weeks and I'm starting to get really anxious for it to be here so that I will know what I do and don't have, and can really get his room ready. And after the scare last Friday I feel more than ever that he will be here early. Ahhh!

Other updates? Thoughts, vents, baby preparations, etc? Not really. I did go to Gymboree today and buy a bunch of outfits. They have a whole line of dinosaur clothing and I bought all of it, because why not? Also the whole store was 50% off, and the lady gave me another coupon, so I ended up spending $60 on more than $150 worth of clothes! Woo! Well and I used a gift card. So I guess I didn't actually spend a dime. But still. Love me a good bargain.

Upcoming milestones or appointments? I'm going to take my glucose test this week, joy.

Do you need any thoughts or prayers? Not this week, I really appreciate all the love last week though. It means so much to have support!!

[sarcaztic10]

therealbug that's so frustrating! The U/S techs always had a problem getting S's measurements as well and I was in there every week to 2x a week after 24 weeks! They could never get his head circumference well enough and usually had to give up after the 40 minute BPP appointment. At one point they were concerned about his growth and thought I had low amniotic fluid which all turned out to be ok. So, I know hearing news like that can be frustrating and scary but ultrasounds are pretty inaccurate.

[grneyes]

cali, I'm glad the MFM wasn't overly concerned about the BP readings.

MissSally, Hope you pass the glucose test!

@jj32, Congrats lady, how did I miss this??!! Can you ask the OB for an earlier ultrasound?

[cnf2013]

grneyes, congrats on checking things off your to do list!

therealbug, I'm so sorry about your ultrasound. I would definitely be upset too and I would have nothing nice to say to that tech, to the point where I might even call and complain and asked not to be scheduled with that particular tech again. I'll keep everything crossed for you that your next scan goes well. Big hugs.

cali, glad you had a good appointment. Hopefully your BP keeps staying where it needs to be.

@jj32, I'm fighting the urge to call for an earlier ultrasound too. Mine is 4/10, so I'm right there with you on the long wait. Did you at least gets betas or anything to help ease your mind?

MissSally, my husband is obsessed with the dinosaur stuff. Maybe we'll take a trip to Gymboree this week and pick some up.

[cnf2013]

How far along are you? Week/baby size? 5+2 today

How are you feeling (physically and/or emotionally)? Physically I'm having symptoms, which is great. Emotionally, this is my loss milestone this week, so I'm struggling. I was a serious bitch yesterday but I could not help myself. I just need this week to pass so I can feel okay again, hopefully.

Other updates? Thoughts, vents, baby preparations, etc? Nothing really. I accidentally slipped up to one of H's co-workers, but she's done working in his department this week and moving out of state, so whatever. I did find out my across the street neighbor is also pregnant and due about two months before me, so I need to make better friends with her so I can have a preggo buddy.

Upcoming milestones or appointments? Loss milestone this week. Just trying to muscle through.

Do you need any thoughts or prayers? Just that I can survive this week emotionally intact.

[cnf2013]

Good thoughts for your anatomy scan @xamountofwords!

[holdingouthope]

Hi everyone! therealbug ~ so sorry for the ultrasound fiasco and the slight worry that you certainly didn't need! That's so frustrating.

How far along are you? Week/baby size? 13w4d - scoop of ice cream

How are you feeling (physically and/or emotionally)? Physically, I am regaining some energy which is great! Headaches are slowly getting better. However, my hips ACHE constantly. It's making sleep a real challenge. My back is also hurting quite a bit. Last time, my OB had to put me on muscle relaxers and I might be getting to that point again here soon.

Other updates? Thoughts, vents, baby preparations, etc? We announced on St. Patrick's Day. I was nervous to do it, but I can't hide my little bump any longer so it was time. I also needed to let my boss know because baby boy is due during our absolute busiest month of the year, so I need to line up a consultant to step in for me while I'm on maternity leave.

Upcoming milestones or appointments? Nothing until next OB appt on 4/10. Level 2 u/s with MFM is scheduled for 4/28.

Do you need any thoughts or prayers? Not at the moment, thank you

[peggels24]

How far along are you? Week/baby size? 6w5d – sweet pea

How are you feeling (physically and/or emotionally)? Physically – I am super queasy and tired or maybe I’m tired because I’m queasy – I don’t know but this weekend was not fun. It’s also strange because I have to pee so often and my appetite is so small (like maybe 5 bites and I’m done but then I’m hungry 45 minutes later) – both of which I had way later in my pregnancy with DD.
Emotionally – I’m not doing well and I feel like I’m not allowed to voice my concerns to anyone. Only DH and my sister know and both are trying to force me to have a positive outlook but I’m petrified.

Other updates? Thoughts, vents, baby preparations, etc? Not much going on. We are trying to plan a trip to Orlando – I really want to wait until after first tri and after we have the Panorama results. I think I would be able to relax a lot more.

Upcoming milestones or appointments? My first dr appointment is Thursday – fx that he agrees to an u/s. I’m pretty sure if I tell him how nervous I am, he will agree.

Do you need any thoughts or prayers? Maybe just some good thoughts for my appointment on Thursday?

[peggels24]

grneyes Yay for finding a pediatrician that you liked!
therealbug Well that u/s certainly sounds frustrating. I wish that you would have been able to discuss it some more with the MFM but I guess the upside is that at least you know she had some trouble with the measurements so you are not needlessly worried.
cali Fx that your BP doesn’t get too high.
@jj32 Are you doing anything exciting with your time off or just vegging? I wound up literally sleeping almost all of yesterday away.
MissSally Good luck on your glucose test!
@xamountofwords Good luck at the a/s!
cnf2013 ((hugs)) loss milestones suck.
holdingouthope Yay for announcing!!!
km380 Yay for passing the gtt!!!

[chknma]

thoughts and hugs to everyone that needs them this week :-)

How far along are you? Week/baby size? 33W, pineapple

Feeling/Appointments/Updates:

physically-more tired, sore...I need to get back to the chiro

emotionally just frustrated after my MFM appointment last week. baby is measuring about 3 weeks ahead by u/s so the MFM dropped the c/s bomb....overall healthy baby/mom is what matters the most. I've been working so hard to control my GD in hopes of not being medicated therefore not needing induction....induction sounds good now. I don't go back until 36 weeks unless I need to go on meds for my GD. I will discuss with my MW on Wednesday........I get easily frustrated with having another thing taken out of my control... I know u/s can be significantly off but DH was a big baby 9+ lbs and our girls probably would have been pushing 9 lbs if I wasn't induced early. I did find our local ICan FB group and hope to make a meeting to be more informed.

I'm also working on going dairy/soy free this week so am annoyed about that. I don't want to cook and I'm hungry = grumpypants

We also need to get on top of baby prep...I bought a second carseat base and a woven baby wrap and in a fit of insanity signed up for a mini photo session with our photographer...when I'll be 38 weeks....eek...I'm waiting for my completion codes from my secret registries to purchase some small things we need :-)



HAPPY SPRING!!!!!

[shandorfml2]

How far along are you? Week/baby size? 32w4d scooter board (the awesome ones from gym class!)

How are you feeling (physically and/or emotionally)? ugh physically very uncomfortable. I've reached the point I can't walk much, makes it hard to go shopping, as well as chase my toddler. we are also house hunting. I get a lot of BH and cramping if I move to much. Also, little girl get off my pubic bone please. xoxo mommy

Other updates? Thoughts, vents, baby preparations, etc? just some final things...clean /install car seat, set up PNP, pack bags.

Upcoming milestones or appointments? weekly U/S and OB appointments w/NSTs now. I live there. T-Minus 31 days until baby!

Do you need any thoughts or prayers? nope thanks

[Rama]

Hugs, hopes, and handholds to everyone feeling nervous and needing them this week. <3

How far along are you? Week/baby size? 9w tomorrow, Tator Tot/Lugnut/The One Ring

How are you feeling (physically and/or emotionally)? Physically, still really tired all the time. But I can eat now. I can eat so much. Emotionally, I'm so anxious to see that everything is alright. I have an appointment with the OB on Friday, but since it's the first one, I don't know what to expect. Will there be a doppler? Ultrasound? If she doesn't offer one, I'm going to ask. Because it's mentally killing me to wonder.

Other updates? Thoughts, vents, baby preparations, etc? We've finally told everyone we really wanted to tell, so the gag order on everyone has been lifted. It's kind of a weight off to not have to avoid talking about it anymore.

Upcoming milestones or appointments? First OB appt on Friday

Do you need any thoughts or prayers? Just some crossed fingers that I'm not sitting on a MMC.

[grneyes]

Rama, The doppler might be hit or miss that early. My first OB apt was an intake with the nurse around 9 weeks where they just ordered a bunch of blood work, urine sample, and talked about general pregnancy stuff. I saw the actual OB at 10+4, they did a pelvic exam and checked for the HB with the doppler. Every office is different, but for mine in order to have an ultrasound it has to be scheduled ahead of time with the tech. Definitely ask for what you need for peace of mind. I would also ask for a referral to see a MFM as well as the OB since it's a twin pregnancy. Hope the apt goes well!

[Rama]

Mar 20, 2017 13:52:07 GMT -5 grneyes said:

Rama , The doppler might be hit or miss that early. My first OB apt was an intake with the nurse around 9 weeks where they just ordered a bunch of blood work, urine sample, and talked about general pregnancy stuff. I saw the actual OB at 10+4, they did a pelvic exam and checked for the HB with the doppler. Every office is different, but for mine in order to have an ultrasound it has to be scheduled ahead of time with the tech. Definitely ask for what you need for peace of mind. I would also ask for a referral to see a MFM as well as the OB since it's a twin pregnancy. Hope the apt goes well!

I'm fairly sure this will be with my actual OB.  I've already done intake with a nurse (nearly a month ago at this point) and during scheduling they actually were looking at my OB's availability.  So hopefully it's actually with her.  My next appointment after that isn't until the end of April (UGH), so I'm hoping that I'll get more info on Friday.  All the info and appointments I have now were based on a singleton pregnancy, I have literally not talked to a medical professional in person since that confirmation u/s at 6w, so I feel really out of the loop and that's where my anxiety is coming in.

I assumed a referral to a MFM would happen naturally if she thought that was necessary, but now that you mention it, I'm wondering if Kaiser has MFMs at all.  I don't remember seeing those as an option when looking for a prenatal provider earlier and their listings can get pretty specific.  I can, and probably should, definitely ask, though.  Thanks for bringing it up!

[cnf2013]

Mar 20, 2017 12:14:20 GMT -5 @jj32 said:

Mar 20, 2017 7:18:10 GMT -5 cnf2013 said:

@jj32 , I'm fighting the urge to call for an earlier ultrasound too. Mine is 4/10, so I'm right there with you on the long wait. Did you at least gets betas or anything to help ease your mind?

cnf2013, no early betas either.  

Oh boo. I at least got betas, by request of course since they don't normally run those. Could you ask for those at least? Might be easier than getting in for an ultrasound and still bring some peace of mind.

[sfazar]

Hi friends,

Sorry for being a little late. And sorry therealbug for the measurement issues. I recall our baby having a head in the 13th percentile or something like that at the NT scan but then it was up to about 60 by the anatomy scan--I think these metrics can be problematic--Fx that is what is going on but do call your doc with concerns .

Afm

How far along? 37 weeks Swiss chard

How are you feeling? Physically--oy, very sore. The baby dropped on Friday and I have been struggling to walk but spent much of the weekend cleaning the house and tackling laundry mountain. I really feel close but at my doc appt today I was only half a centimeter dilated. We'll see...
Emotionally ready. I am happy I made it through the weekend. My husband was on call for work and I have no family nearby but tomorrow my mother in law will come and now my husband is available should something happen . I am glad she can take care of dd.

Upcoming appointments? Another check q week from today if I make it that long.

Other updates?
Just waiting...

No need for prayers thank you. Thinking of Rama and those of you who need prayers.

[grneyes]

Mar 20, 2017 13:57:50 GMT -5 Rama said:

Mar 20, 2017 13:52:07 GMT -5 grneyes said:

Rama , The doppler might be hit or miss that early. My first OB apt was an intake with the nurse around 9 weeks where they just ordered a bunch of blood work, urine sample, and talked about general pregnancy stuff. I saw the actual OB at 10+4, they did a pelvic exam and checked for the HB with the doppler. Every office is different, but for mine in order to have an ultrasound it has to be scheduled ahead of time with the tech. Definitely ask for what you need for peace of mind. I would also ask for a referral to see a MFM as well as the OB since it's a twin pregnancy. Hope the apt goes well!

I'm fairly sure this will be with my actual OB.  I've already done intake with a nurse (nearly a month ago at this point) and during scheduling they actually were looking at my OB's availability.  So hopefully it's actually with her.  My next appointment after that isn't until the end of April (UGH), so I'm hoping that I'll get more info on Friday.  All the info and appointments I have now were based on a singleton pregnancy, I have literally not talked to a medical professional in person since that confirmation u/s at 6w, so I feel really out of the loop and that's where my anxiety is coming in.

I assumed a referral to a MFM would happen naturally if she thought that was necessary, but now that you mention it, I'm wondering if Kaiser has MFMs at all.  I don't remember seeing those as an option when looking for a prenatal provider earlier and their listings can get pretty specific.  I can, and probably should, definitely ask, though.  Thanks for bringing it up!

Glad you'll be seeing the actual OB, I was going to say, they would have made it clear to you during scheduling.  For a twin pregnancy, you should be seen more often, especially as the pregnancy progresses.  I don't have experience with Kaiser, but I don't think it would be possible for them to not have coverage for a MFM if that was needed (that would be like them telling you that you could only see an OB for infertility treatment, not an RE).  I'm sure the ladies on the multiples board have lots of helpful info on whether or not to just stay with an OB.  I think a lot of it depends on how much experience your OB has with twin pregnancies.  If you're going to get a NT scan, your OB may schedule that for you when you see her this week since it needs to be done between 11-14 weeks.  Mine entailed being referred to the genetics department first.  It was my favorite ultrasound I've had, it was basically like a mini anatomy scan without all the stress since they do the neck measurement immediately, and the rest of the time was spent seeing the rest of baby's body parts.  Sorry that was long!  Anyways, I hope you feel better after your apt - it helped me asking about the actual schedule of apts so I knew what to expect for the rest of the pregnancy.

[Rama]

Mar 20, 2017 19:39:55 GMT -5 grneyes said:

Mar 20, 2017 13:57:50 GMT -5 Rama said:

I'm fairly sure this will be with my actual OB.  I've already done intake with a nurse (nearly a month ago at this point) and during scheduling they actually were looking at my OB's availability.  So hopefully it's actually with her.  My next appointment after that isn't until the end of April (UGH), so I'm hoping that I'll get more info on Friday.  All the info and appointments I have now were based on a singleton pregnancy, I have literally not talked to a medical professional in person since that confirmation u/s at 6w, so I feel really out of the loop and that's where my anxiety is coming in.

I assumed a referral to a MFM would happen naturally if she thought that was necessary, but now that you mention it, I'm wondering if Kaiser has MFMs at all.  I don't remember seeing those as an option when looking for a prenatal provider earlier and their listings can get pretty specific.  I can, and probably should, definitely ask, though.  Thanks for bringing it up!

Glad you'll be seeing the actual OB, I was going to say, they would have made it clear to you during scheduling.  For a twin pregnancy, you should be seen more often, especially as the pregnancy progresses.  I don't have experience with Kaiser, but I don't think it would be possible for them to not have coverage for a MFM if that was needed (that would be like them telling you that you could only see an OB for infertility treatment, not an RE).  I'm sure the ladies on the multiples board have lots of helpful info on whether or not to just stay with an OB.  I think a lot of it depends on how much experience your OB has with twin pregnancies.  If you're going to get a NT scan, your OB may schedule that for you when you see her this week since it needs to be done between 11-14 weeks.  Mine entailed being referred to the genetics department first.  It was my favorite ultrasound I've had, it was basically like a mini anatomy scan without all the stress since they do the neck measurement immediately, and the rest of the time was spent seeing the rest of baby's body parts.  Sorry that was long!  Anyways, I hope you feel better after your apt - it helped me asking about the actual schedule of apts so I knew what to expect for the rest of the pregnancy.

Yes, I very much appreciate all the infos! It makes me less crazy.

Kaiser did basically tell me that I'd have to see an OB instead of a RE, just because they cover nothing IF-related. So I was 100% OOP on treatment, which is why we immediately transferred care to the OB after the peestick dried, because money.

I did end up looking, through, and they do have MFMs, I just hasn't looked for perinatologists! There aren't any local to me, so I'd have to travel for it. We'll see how we feel about that after Friday's meeting.

[grneyes]

Rama Oh good, glad they have perinatologists listed! The RE probably wasn't the best analogy on my part - if a specialist is needed for pregnancy, I don't think that could be denied. Anyways, hope the week goes by quickly for you until your apt, the waiting is hard!

[Rama]

Mar 20, 2017 21:36:39 GMT -5 grneyes said:

Rama Oh good, glad they have perinatologists listed! The RE probably wasn't the best analogy on my part - if a specialist is needed for pregnancy, I don't think that could be denied. Anyways, hope the week goes by quickly for you until your apt, the waiting is hard!

Thanks for talking me through this, seriously. It's calmed my mind quite a bit to have some new info. <3

[inaya]

therealbug One thing that stood out to me from what you said is that your OB was concerned about babies being under the 50th percentile - that's literally half of all babies. Combined with what you said about the single measurements throwing things off, I wouldn't necessarily be worried (I mean, I understand that it's hard not to actually worry, but I don't see a good reason for it from what you said!) Plus, some babies are just small but totally healthy. ((Hugs)) and hoping for some good reassurance from your OB soon.

[therealbug]

Rama, if there is a possibility of twins, I would push for an early u/s. They may want to see your more, have you see an MFM also, and your calorie intake will be higher among other things.

Thanks everyone for all the love. We had another u/s today and both looked good. Baby A has continued his perfect streak of being uncooperative. This time, I think he was actually napping. He was curled in a tight little ball with his knee at his forehead. No new measurements but heart rates were good and my cervix looked good. The MFM I saw today wants me back next week for another cervix check. She pushed hard for no P17 injections (apparently she lectures on this topic and cited to a study that showed negative effects in twin pregnancies). She would rather just keep a really close eye on me as we move closer to my lose milestone. I'm trying really hard to trust the doctors. . .

[Rama]

Mar 21, 2017 18:24:32 GMT -5 therealbug said:

Rama , if there is a possibility of twins, I would push for an early u/s. They may want to see your more, have you see an MFM also, and your calorie intake will be higher among other things. 

It's more than a possibility, it is (or at least that's what the 6w u/s said since sac 3 was deemed an undeveloped pregnancy)!

See, this is why I'm a bit anxious.  My care provider has known for three whole weeks that I'm having a multiple pregnancy and all I've gotten is, "Congrats on your twins!  Looking forward to seeing you at your appointment at the end of the month!"  No extra info, no extra ultrasounds, no extra anything.  I don't know what to expect on Friday at all because I keep being told that they'll want to watch me closely and keep tabs on the babies, but I haven't gotten an iota of that.  I know nothing [Jon Snow].

And knowing nothing is making me crazy because, well, what if something went wrong between then and now?  I don't want to get to the NTS and find out I've lost another baby.  It was bad enough having lost one at the confirmation/dating ultrasound.  I want to be breezy, I want to trust that they know what they're doing, but I also want more information.  I'm so lost.  If I don't get enough on Friday (because they will give me something, damnit, and they BETTER give me what I need), then I'm going to find another OB at the practice.  The frustrating thing is that it's motherfreaking Kaiser, so I can't even go somewhere else.  I have to deal with their brand of shittyass doctors.  Or pay for everything OOP, which is a definite no-go.  I'd prefer shitty prenatal care to nothing.

Sorry for the rant.  I'm just frustrated.  I'm hoping that my OB will alleviate some of that on Friday because I really do like her (she was amazing for our ectopic loss in 2015), I just don't like who she practices for and how they carry on their business.