So I'm not really sure why yesterday's events have prompted us to think about going private - what's the benefit? I'm not against it, I think I'm just missing the point! Also not a huge fan of another place to login (because lazy).
Post by requiressnacks on Apr 4, 2017 9:27:04 GMT -5
Personally, I don't feel a huge compelling need to go private because what happened with LBonga was totally separate from me. Is there another reason that we should be feeling like our privacy is a concern?
I don't think a private board helps unless we have people who don't want to post pics of their babies or themselves and would do so in a private board. Otherwise, I think if there's crazies on here then we're bringing them along to the private board too. And with respect to lbonga, if we had gone private then her previous posts wouldn't have been visible to others who made the connection, you know?
I guess I just feel weird about the influx of people who just creeped on D16 to get lbongas info. Sometimes I forget how easy it is to search and find out things about people, just trying googling your username. It's hard for me to switch back and forth from my other private BMB where we tend to overshare lots of things. I realize a private board isn't perfect either, but at least it doesn't show up if you google it.
I'm a creep I remember when your other bmb went private. I was sad to see it go. I wanted to stay with my J15 bmb but since Leo was a D14 baby I kept going over to there too.
I'm not sure we really need private since those on the FB group can share whatever there if they don't want it on here. I feel like I didn't have anything to hide since the lurkers were looking for lbonga.
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