Post by kristhegirl on Apr 19, 2017 11:42:29 GMT -5
mosdub I had a couple of dizzy moments this time PP, but haven't had one in a few weeks now (I'm 9.5 weeks out.) I didn't lose any blood per se, but your body makes extra during pregnancy and I wonder if it's related to getting back to your normal blood volume.
mosdub extreme fatigue mimics blood loss/low blood sugar for me. I feel dizzy, faint, shaky, etc. Plus out of it and forgetful. It's a fun combo!
I think this might be it. I haven't gotten more than a 2-3 hour stretch of sleep since he as born. I'm cat napping with him on the couch now. I was hoping to go out into the world with him this evening (there's a cool fundraiser thing that I wanted to check out) but don't want to get stuck in public with a baby and being lightheaded
Poppy32617 the lightbulb of my mental state not being fair to my children or H went off last night. I was relying on DH to pull me out of this and I can't expect that of him when he feels like he is walking on eggshells. I was enjoying PP up until 2 weeks ago when things started going like a roller coaster.
It's so hard and at first I thought it was taboo to speak about my mental health and PPA but then I finally figured out that we are not alone and it's okay to experience these feelings as we are all human and going through these real emotions and hormones. I am a raging biotch when I want to be and I'm full of estrogen and I knew I didn't want to experience the feelings I did last time around. Big hugs to you I'm here if you need an ear to listen! We are all in this together 😘
Is a wubanub worth the money? What is it supposed to do?
I *think* it's supposed to make it easier for the pacifier to stay in baby's mouth since the toy part can rest on baby's chest? Also easier for an older baby to find when it's in their crib... other than that, I think it's just something invented to take more of our money because it looks cute. IDK.
Going to the dr at 8:45 in the morning. Potentially with both children.
LT for getting in soon - sorry it's sorry early and you'll have to juggle two kiddos. I'm glad you spoke up and are getting what you need to feel better!!
Operation get DS to sleep in his PnP is in progress. At DC, he'll have to sleep in a crib, so I'm starting at home in hopes he'll sleep at DC. At night, it will be RnP for a while. So far, so good. I've also tried to have as many different people feed him so he is used to other people feeding him.
I just found out that DS is going to be in the same room that DD was at DC. It sounds like it's new staff, but I still think it's cool that he'll be in the same room. All the staff we've encountered there have been great, so I know he'll be in good hands. 2 1/2 weeks until I'm back at work.
Is a wubanub worth the money? What is it supposed to do?
We got a few of these during the baby shower and they are so cute. Unfortunately they only have the "soothie" type paci attached and he was ok with them at first but now much prefers the shaped pacifiers (we use avent now). I miss the attached animal because it does help not touch the floor, not roll around and generally be more manageable (and harder to lose!). So it might be worth it if your kid takes that kind of pacifier
I've had a good last few days. Sleep is ok but both DH and I are struggling despite getting 3-4 hour stretches from the little guy. DH rear ended someone at a stoplight (they had been stopped and he randomly hit the gas) a couple days ago bc he's so tired and has been doing weird little things like forgetting to turn off water/replace diaper genie bag, etc. I'm trying to convince him to take a sick day just to sleep. Seriously, not sure what would happen to him if he was up as often as I am!! But I've had help from the nanny Mon/Tues and MIL came over this morning. It's been so nice because I was able to take Elena to the zoo yesterday and to gymnastics this morning solo. I love having the alone time with her and I can tell she loves it too. She "introduced" me to all of the animals at the zoo and also told them all "baby brother couldn't come". I think she's going to have a tough time when I go back to work because she keeps talking about how her dad is at work and she misses him but mom doesn't have to go to work. She can be a handful, but man I love that girl!
Is a wubanub worth the money? What is it supposed to do?
C got one for Easter, and it helps the pacifier not make it all the way to the floor when he spits it out (it usually gets caught up on his clothes or his carrier). It's also easy to just stick in his carrier when I'm wearing him and I can find it quickly when he wants it. Plus it's cute. It was worth the money for us.
How are you cleaning the paci? I haven't given her hers yet bc I can't figure out how to make sure it's sanitized!
@priss08 If you want to try one for free, PM me. J has roughly 20, and none have been used. We had a large shower and this was a popular add on gift. (I didn't register for them- lol)
Post by moutonrouge on Apr 19, 2017 17:17:36 GMT -5
@justinslovo I find that in the evening DD needs things to be pretty low key, including our engagement with her. For a decent chunk of time I was standing by her changing table with her because she loves the fan/light and the mirror she can see from there. If she's happy, I'm happy. They need some time to decompress, too.
@priss08 If you want to try one for free, PM me. J has roughly 20, and none have been used. We had a large shower and this was a popular add on gift. (I didn't register for them- lol)
Suffering from some crazy stupid mom guilt. Jack hung out in the swing while the girls and I ate. Typically he would fall asleep or start screaming. He has been content for the past 45 minutes. Just staring at the ceiling fan.
I should probably get him out and interact with him on the floor or wherever, but instead I sit here and stare at him, staring at the ceiling fan, in fear of him starting to scream again if I disturb him.
I would have never left the girls awake for that long without giving them some attention and love.
I feel guilty about this a lot, but I can tell DD likes some "alone time" during the day. I basically try to have fun when she's feeling it- she actually has a certain yell when she wants to do something. Yesterday, I put her in the bath and let her float like you said Jack enjoyed! (Otteroo hadn't arrived yet!) She loved it and then just chilled in her swing for awhile. I have no clue what I'm doing, but if she seems content, I try to be content with it. Don't feel bad!
Good news: I cleaned this morning during naptime, and this afternoon I went out with DS for the first time alone. We hit up Kohls, Ulta, and Bath and Body. He slept for most the trip, but we did it and it was nice to get out of the house.
Bad news: I think I overdid it. He was up a little earlier than usual this morning, and I didn't nap. I am freaking exhausted now, and he's awake, a little fussy, and in the middle of the 6-week growth spurt. I'm screwed tonight aren't I?
I've been MIA today. Didn't get the best sleep so I've been so tired all day. Up now after my usual 3 hour sleep while DH does his shift for the night. Really hoping to get some more sleep. 2 nights of sleeping in rnp. I hope DS will settle in his crib tonight.
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