Sometimes I hate the weekends. Specifically nap times. I can never get R to leave H alone so she refuses to nurse or even lay down because OMG WHAT IS HE DOING WITHOUT ME?!?! 😓
Sometimes I hate the weekends. Specifically nap times. I can never get R to leave H alone so she refuses to nurse or even lay down because OMG WHAT IS HE DOING WITHOUT ME?!?! 😓
I hate weekends because H thinks I need to do other things while caring for our daughter. No dude, you mop the floors - I didn't sleep last night.
Sometimes I hate the weekends. Specifically nap times. I can never get R to leave H alone so she refuses to nurse or even lay down because OMG WHAT IS HE DOING WITHOUT ME?!?! 😓
I hate weekends because H thinks I need to do other things while caring for our daughter. No dude, you mop the floors - I didn't sleep last night.
Yeah, hell no. H either helped out or it didn't get done those first 3 months. Hope you can get him to realize he needs to step up.
Post by wanderingheart on Apr 23, 2017 14:33:30 GMT -5
Let me know when this is no longer the "I hate MH" thread. K, thx.
Also, no pp hair loss here. *flips hair* #unicorn I did get lots of baby hairs which are annoying. I chopped my hair off to help disguise them though, so now they're not as noticeable.
Post by ourcrazynavylife on Apr 23, 2017 14:35:35 GMT -5
After posting earlier in the week I started using my milkies milksaver yesterday. I'm freaking obsessed with that thing. I think it might be my favorite baby purchase this go around.
Also, no pp hair loss here. *flips hair* #unicorn I did get lots of baby hairs which are annoying. I chopped my hair off to help disguise them though, so now they're not as noticeable.
Yeah, hell no. H either helped out or it didn't get done those first 3 months. Hope you can get him to realize he needs to step up.
He is doing a lot but I am not contributing to the house if he isn't contributing to the baby.
Yeah, not to be harsh, but you're just setting yourself up for disappointment and resentment with a hard line attitude like that. Good luck with it, I guess.
He is doing a lot but I am not contributing to the house if he isn't contributing to the baby.
Yeah, not to be harsh, but you're just setting yourself up for disappointment and resentment with a hard line attitude like that. Good luck with it, I guess.
It's really not as hard line as that comes off. I am doing a lot of other things around the house and do not need to be told what to do like a child. I honestly feel like I'm married to my father and all it causes is resentment between us. I've done laundry, dishes, and made lunch and a ton of other things today but he can mop and do the stairs if he wants them done. It's just an on going issue that I have tried to resolve over and over again.
It's really not as hard line as that comes off. I am doing a lot of other things around the house and do not need to be told what to do like a child. I honestly feel like I'm married to my father and all it causes is resentment between us. I've done laundry, dishes, and made lunch and a ton of other things today but he can mop and do the stairs if he wants them done. It's just an on going issue that I have tried to resolve over and over again.
So when emotions aren't running high, tell him that. "I appreciate that you want to keep the house looking nice (or whatever), but please don't talk to me like I'm a child. I also need you to help more with M" etc etc
It's not easy. I totally get it. I've had my fair share of meltdowns but it's definitely better received when you're not screaming it at him. Not that I think you are. I just mean from my experience. 😬
Not screaming. I'm actually silent which is way worse.
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