I am planning on launching mine this summer, but come fall with school I might be wanting guest posts if there is a particularly busy time and I thought you ladies might be a good option for that if something that might interest you as long as things go like I hope.
Me: 30 DH: 29; Married: September, 2010 TTC #1: April 2013 Benched: May 2013 Cancer(DH) Off the Bench: September 2014 July 2015 ER low sperm count and motility(radiation side effect). FET September 1,2015. BFP 9/9/15.- 3 on the way.
I am planning on launching mine this summer, but come fall with school I might be wanting guest posts if there is a particularly busy time and I thought you ladies might be a good option for that if something that might interest you as long as things go like I hope.
nerdykitten, I don't blog but people tell me I'm funny when I write Facebook statuses and that I should blog. Not sure what that means. But I could maybe play if you needed some material!
DH just told me he wishes we would have been happy with just one kid. Read: he regrets our twins. This makes me incredibly sad. We're in a rough place with their sleep (I was up 1a-6a last night) so I'm tired and probably not the wife he knows. Also he said he can't see himself ever doing anything fun again on his own or with his friends because he'll feel bad leaving me with all 3 kids. (You know, like he does every weekday when he goes to work). He fully admitted it's a lot of just venting so I'm not sure how much there is to this but dang.
@feegan Shared the photos with MH. He also said that the part about the entryway makes him feel downright competent, and he's not at all mechanically inclined. 😂
nerdykitten, I've considered it but am not great at being self directed... I'm good for a piece or teo with deadlines though! I was a corporate trainer, so instructional design is a passion of mine and I have been meaning to get going on it. @feegan, gimme that blog addy, I'm nosey as hell
@feegan Shared the photos with MH. He also said that the part about the entryway makes him feel downright competent, and he's not at all mechanically inclined. 😂
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Post by dukegirlsc on May 19, 2017 22:52:17 GMT -5
DVMmomma I'm so sorry your husband said those things to you. I can relate to the lack of sleep and feeling like you are not your normal self. I'm sure given some time he will think about what he said and tell you how very wrong he was.
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Post by dukegirlsc on May 19, 2017 23:05:20 GMT -5
I'm wondering if I'm a horrible mother if I let baby girl sleep in the swing tonight. She won't settle in her RnP only on me or in the swing. I'm thinking of putting the swing next to my bed and just rolling with it. I've basically been up from 2a-8a the last 2 nights or sleeping in a recliner, I'm ready to do whatever to sleep in my bed.
IUI#1 12-02-15 BFP 12-17-15 CP 12-20-14 IUI#2 01-08-15 BFP 01-23-15, MMC 2-24-15, D&C 2-27-15, MC trisomy 20 IVF#1 with ICSI 5-15 16R/12M/12F/4 b PGS-all abnormal IVF#2 with ICSI 8-15 26R/24M/24F/7 b PGS - all abnormal IVF#3 with ICSI 2-17 13 R/12M/7F/5 b PGS all abnormal IVF#4 DE with IMSI 5-14 30R/25M/22F/14B PGS 10 normals! FET 7/15 2 PGS normal embies!
nerdykitten I did, once upon a time, but stopped when we were struggling to get pregnant. I've been wanting to pick it up again, so definitely let me know when you need guest posters. I can PM you my old blog address if you want to screen my writing.
DVMmomma The pissy reply us "which one do you not want?" Could just be talking out his ass because of a big life change? I know you're going through it too, but he may be handling it differently. Not a excuse for saying something like that.
Post by nerdykitten on May 19, 2017 23:37:43 GMT -5
DVMmomma all the hugs to you girl. I mean we have had conversations about things we would be doing if we hadn't had the kids, but there is never any regrets.
@feegan I would love to check out your old blog!
Once I get mine up and running, hopefully in two or so weeks I will post a link for everyone.
Me: 30 DH: 29; Married: September, 2010 TTC #1: April 2013 Benched: May 2013 Cancer(DH) Off the Bench: September 2014 July 2015 ER low sperm count and motility(radiation side effect). FET September 1,2015. BFP 9/9/15.- 3 on the way.
@feegan it looks great!! Boring or not it's definitely an improvement! RIP brass TP holder. I agree with you on MH. I wish he would have kept that thought to himself. I asked why he seemed down/grumpy but didn't expect that answer. The girls were incredible fussy so I guess that's what prompted it. I'm telling myself it was just a vent and nothing more
dukegirlsc, I see you're enjoying the MOTN fun too! No question about letting baby girl sleep in the swing. Whatever gets you back to bed lady. My SIL always used to say you can have your morals or you can have your sleep and sanity. I choose the latter for sure. Definitely doesn't make you a horrible mother! Also I think you're right about MH. He was venting and the newborn phase is not really his gig. He's a great father to DD1 but doesn't really get babies (I suppose most men don't).
nomnom I love the pissy reply. I should have used that because DD1 has been no freaking cake walk either lately. He has anxiety so I hope he was indeed talking out his ass. Knock on wood the girls are thinking about being kind to me tonight and seem like they might be considering going back to sleep in less than 2 hours so hopefully I get more sleep and tomorrow is a better day.
DVMmomma, I'm sorry about that comment, I'm sure it is just the anxiety and changes talking - six weeks seems to be a tough time for everyone. I hope the girls allow you some sleep tonight - I give you all of the credit for EBF.
I'm going through hormone hell, and happy to have my PP appointment Monday. I don't know where baby blues crosses to PPD/A and want to keep that conversation open.
These two have had a rough go during the day, and I keep putting them down drowsy (or out), only to have them wake a few minutes later.
river that's so hard when you feel like your whole day is spent consoling crying babies. Good for you for keeping the PPD/A discussion open. Let us know if you ever need a day of funny memes!
I'm wondering if I'm a horrible mother if I let baby girl sleep in the swing tonight. She won't settle in her RnP only on me or in the swing. I'm thinking of putting the swing next to my bed and just rolling with it. I've basically been up from 2a-8a the last 2 nights or sleeping in a recliner, I'm ready to do whatever to sleep in my bed.
river that's so hard when you feel like your whole day is spent consoling crying babies. Good for you for keeping the PPD/A discussion open. Let us know if you ever need a day of funny memes!
This exactly. Glad you're keeping the conversation open and taking care of yourself! It's so important for everyone!
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