Well I'm new here so I'm going to go with the diplomatic answer and say whatever the other posters decide.
Andplusalso due to health problems, H and I decided tonight to bench TTC for who knows exactly how long, so I guess I don't really go here anymore.
I was on the bench multiple times in my time here and still hung out. The AL boards get loss and even on the bench you go through grief, you may need hugs and this is a great place to get those.
** Grad warning ** (and on tapa so cant disable my siggy as far as I am aware of - tis spoileres tho)
Apologies for the fact i havent been able to read all posts here yet before commenting - I just wanted to leave a quick response incase TCF ends up imploding before I can get back online properly.
The AL community is my home, you all are ny family. Without you I don't know how I would have made it thru the previous years. So thank you for that and I hope we can continue to get and give support to eachother for a long time to come ine way or another.
Also I am amazed at and just love the fact we can discuss this and have different opinions yet still are a family. I am appalled at how some threads elsewhere have derailed. Much love to you all.
Hi ladies. I'm a grad. The first thing I worried about when TCF imploded was that the loss community would be gone. You guys are so, so important. You change lives, you definitely changed mine. I hope wherever everyone lands, people who need this kind of community can still find it, because I really think it is unique. If grads are needed to keep this board (or a similar one on a different site) alive, I hope you can find a system that works for you. I downloaded my post history yesterday due to all the drama and I ended up reading through a lot of my time here. First of all, any grad who comes here and talks repeatedly about their LO without warnings, let alone complains, is an asshole. Genuinely confused as to how anyone who has lived on this board could do this. Second, this board not only helped me so much emotionally, you all gave me incredibly important advice that kept me healthy and saved me from making bad decisions. My OB offered to just hand me Clomid and I thought that was great, until people here gave me the information my doctor didn't and saved me from making a potentially huge mistake. Third, this board taught me not just about being a loss mom, but how to talk to loss moms. I am currently my SIL's sounding board after a difficult loss. I'm so glad I have the tools and language to help her grieve and heal because of how people talked to me here. Fourth: TW, LO mentioned.
I have my rainbow because of what I learned here. I was told to ask for an RE instead of just taking Clomid from my OB. I was taught about temping, OPKs, and so much more. I credit this board for that.
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