I'm sort of pissed at H. Right now we are both experiencing the busiest times of our careers and it's really wearing on both of us. I wouldn't have been able to go to the g2g last night anyway because he had to be at the plant at 7:30 and didn't get home until midnight.
This morning was a total cluster due to road closures so it took forever for me to drop the kids off. I called h after and told him to call me back when he has a break because I'm pissed at him and his mom and I deserve to tell him why and not just stew about it myself. So now he is pissed and hasn't called me. But I'm so pissed at his mom about the whole childcare situation this week and I'm pissed at him that his version of "taking care of it" involved me last minute dropping the kids off at our old DCPs house (who I adore) and getting to work at 9:30 when I told him I have a huge amount of work and no idea how I'll do it all. The least he can do is listen while I tell him how fucking pissed I am at how he managed this situation.
Okay rant over. Now I'm just going to stew until he calls me so I can flip out at him.
I'm sure he knows it's coming. I cannot even imagine if my mom was flaking on childcare. What the hell is going on with that? How can she even look at you all?
I gave H a list of all the days daycare is closed so he can take off with me. I had them both all day like 3 times and was so overwhelmed. Idk how people do that regularly. Especially when the big is in mad big brother mode and not pottying like he should without constant monitoring and then nursing too. It's literal insanity.
It's also interesting when you need to go to or you need to take the toddler to the bathroom and you're trying to keep them from touching everything because they are mobile.
We had a rough night. Babe was up like six times screaming and crying, and was only ok if one of us was holding him. Like he was an infant again. I don't even know what time we finally threw in the towel and put him in my bed. Surprise, surprise, that solved the problem. But I'm worried he's getting too used to sleeping with me and I don't want that habit at all.
Post by mominthemaking14 on Jun 2, 2017 9:08:07 GMT -5
When dc calls to say A threw up all over the table and they haven't feed her. They just called to me ... do i pick her up or see how she does before nap... ugh
When dc calls to say A threw up all over the table and they haven't feed her. They just called to me ... do i pick her up or see how she does before nap... ugh
chrispy1122 - I thought your MIL was done working and was already taking the kids. This situation seems like it really hasn't worked out as planned at all. I know she's his mom and usually I would say, H's deal with their own families while I deal with mine, but clearly he's not being clear with her or setting the appropriate expectations for her and maybe you need to step in and say something.
No she is starting on Monday so we had a two day gap. H was going to take off those days but was able to work something out with our DCP to watch 1/2 yesterday and our old DCP to watch today. It's probably premature for me to get too worked up about MIL, but I'm so pissed at H for not dealing with any of this until the last minute and then it ends up only working if I go out of my way.
Oh and the other part of the story? MIL's plan is to get stuff wrapped up at her other job by going in during the evenings next week. After watching our kids for 9 hours every day. Let's predict how great this is going to work out...
Wth. I hope next week is smooth and that its a good transition for you. I hate to ask but do you have a plan c? Just in case MIL is not 100%
No she is starting on Monday so we had a two day gap. H was going to take off those days but was able to work something out with our DCP to watch 1/2 yesterday and our old DCP to watch today. It's probably premature for me to get too worked up about MIL, but I'm so pissed at H for not dealing with any of this until the last minute and then it ends up only working if I go out of my way.
Oh and the other part of the story? MIL's plan is to get stuff wrapped up at her other job by going in during the evenings next week. After watching our kids for 9 hours every day. Let's predict how great this is going to work out...
Wth. I hope next week is smooth and that its a good transition for you. I hate to ask but do you have a plan c? Just in case MIL is not 100%
When dc calls to say A threw up all over the table and they haven't feed her. They just called to me ... do i pick her up or see how she does before nap... ugh
Ugh I'd pick up for vomit
Teacher said they had to call and if we want to wait its ok ... but i just feel bad. I wonder if its her teeth. She excited about water day. Has no other symptoms and nurses line says unless she shows some other symptoms could just be a bad moment ....
When dc calls to say A threw up all over the table and they haven't feed her. They just called to me ... do i pick her up or see how she does before nap... ugh
I'd pick up. hope she feels better. How do these things always happen right before the weekend?!
Wth. I hope next week is smooth and that its a good transition for you. I hate to ask but do you have a plan c? Just in case MIL is not 100%
Plan C: strangle H.
Lol ok Plan D. You MIL works in education right? I mean when will she be 100% done. There's enough on a day to day to make us/you strangle H i hope next week is smooth
When dc calls to say A threw up all over the table and they haven't feed her. They just called to me ... do i pick her up or see how she does before nap... ugh
I'd pick up. hope she feels better. How do these things always happen right before the weekend?!
Right. I need to get dressed dont judge. I don't want to waste time at pedi guess we will monitor at home
mominthemaking14 I'd probably pick up, seems weird that she would vomit out of nowhere with no food. I can't imagine teeth would cause vomiting. I'm actually surprised they didn't tell you to come get her.
mominthemaking14 I'd probably pick up, seems weird that she would vomit out of nowhere with no food. I can't imagine teeth would cause vomiting. I'm actually surprised they didn't tell you to come get her.
Confirmed H gave her a breakfast and milk so thats probably it.
mominthemaking14 I'd probably pick up, seems weird that she would vomit out of nowhere with no food. I can't imagine teeth would cause vomiting. I'm actually surprised they didn't tell you to come get her.
Ours will only send home if they have 2 symptoms. So one throw up is ok. If they do it again or another symptom is added (fever, etc.) we have to go get them and they stay out for 24 hours.
mominthemaking14 I'd probably pick up, seems weird that she would vomit out of nowhere with no food. I can't imagine teeth would cause vomiting. I'm actually surprised they didn't tell you to come get her.
Confirmed H gave her a breakfast and milk so thats probably it.
I think I would leave her, but be prepared to go get her quickly if needed. Might just be a one-off.
So sorry chrispy1122. I'd be pissed too. You have every right to get on H about stepping up and dealing with this shit. And if they don't get that effing roadwork done today, I'm going to strangle them all!!! 45 mins to get to DCP house this morning... then I got to turn around and drive back. I was so ragey. Last two nights were an hour and 15 round trip. 😡
mominthemaking14 I'd probably pick up, seems weird that she would vomit out of nowhere with no food. I can't imagine teeth would cause vomiting. I'm actually surprised they didn't tell you to come get her.
Confirmed H gave her a breakfast and milk so thats probably it.
I'd definitely wait and see if that's the case. Especially if she's not bothered. The big has done that a few times. I think he drinks milk too fast and it doesn't sit well. Once it's out, he's good to go!
mominthemaking14 I'd probably pick up, seems weird that she would vomit out of nowhere with no food. I can't imagine teeth would cause vomiting. I'm actually surprised they didn't tell you to come get her.
Ours will only send home if they have 2 symptoms. So one throw up is ok. If they do it again or another symptom is added (fever, etc.) we have to go get them and they stay out for 24 hours.
Ok checked with our friend she on the admin team. She told me to leave her. One time with no other issues is ok apparently shes signing and dancing now. Thanks for listening to my dilemma lol.
We had a rough night. Babe was up like six times screaming and crying, and was only ok if one of us was holding him. Like he was an infant again. I don't even know what time we finally threw in the towel and put him in my bed. Surprise, surprise, that solved the problem. But I'm worried he's getting too used to sleeping with me and I don't want that habit at all.
Motrin?
It doesn't seem like he needs it because he sleeps perfectly fine with me.
Post by sstwinklinglites on Jun 2, 2017 10:44:06 GMT -5
chrispy1122 - I really hope she steps up next week and going forward. Didn't you have reservations about her doing this? It just seems a little like she's taking advantage that y'all are family.
Post by mrscatfarmer13 on Jun 2, 2017 12:03:38 GMT -5
AFM, melting pot was not kind to me this morning. Ugh. I ended up calling off work because I was doubles over from stomach cramps and made 4 trips to the bathroom before 930. I seem to be doing better now though.
I need to get out of bed so I can run to Costco and then clean.
AFM, melting pot was not kind to me this morning. Ugh. I ended up calling off work because I was doubles over from stomach cramps and made 4 trips to the bathroom before 930. I seem to be doing better now though.
I need to get out of bed so I can run to Costco and then clean.
+1 I threw it all up last night. But I'm inclined to blame it more on pregnancy than TMP.
AFM, melting pot was not kind to me this morning. Ugh. I ended up calling off work because I was doubles over from stomach cramps and made 4 trips to the bathroom before 930. I seem to be doing better now though.
I need to get out of bed so I can run to Costco and then clean.
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