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[sidneywhite]

Sorry to hear about your lose. As far as i know, IVF success rate is very low. The process is complicated as well as time consuming. IVF is also expensive. I have seen many cases of failed IVF. That's why i am not in favor of IVF. I will prefer surrogacy over IVF. As surrogacy is simple and 100% guaranteed process. I am also an infertile. I can't have my own baby because of my disease. My husband and i decided to go for surrogacy. A friend of mine recommended us Ukraine clinics for it. We moved to Ukraine. Indeed, my friend's suggestion is best. The found a surrogate for us within no time. I also suggest you to visit Ukraine for the treatment. Good luck.

[rihannadennis]

Hello there! Very much sorry to hear your failed attempts. Sometimes, that happens. So, yeah! I know stuff. Secondly, yes! It happens that way. I've also had an IVF in July, but my case is ideal for it. So, yeah! Just because of it I'm undergoing it. Otherwise, I'd have directly undergone surrogacy. It's more good with results directly. You should also seek your chances. Don't lose hope. You can still get what you want and deserve.

[lucia]

Hey. I'm sorry to hear about your struggles. IVF is a tough procedure. It takes luck. And of course a lot of patience. I hope it works out for you, this time. Good luck!

[alicedy]

Hey. So sorry to hear. I am not in favour of IVF because it is some sort of risky and painful. Why dont you go for surrogacy? IVF is less successful than surrogacy. I am a mother of a baby who was given birth by a surrogate. I was so depressed that I cannot be a mother again when I found me infertile. I had a Crervix incompetence disease. I spent 7 years in treatment but I faced failure. When I was blessed with a baby I was so happy. I have not given birth to her but I am a mother just because of Surrogacy. I hope it would be helpful to you too.

[lindajames998]

Hey there. How are you doing? I hope its all good. I am really sorry that you have to go for IVF. I know it must be really hard. I know this because I have been on this. I know infertility is really harsh. I hope more people deal with it like you. IVF is a blessing not an easy choice to make. I know you are positive too. I wish you good luck. Take care. Love and support. I will wait to hear more. I hope good news comes soon.

[monika]

Hey, welcome to the group. It is good that you decided to post. Just by writing sometimes you start feeling a lot better. I am sorry to hear about your loss. It must have been heartbreaking. IVF can be extremely unpredictable. For some, it works instantly while for others it takes time. So don't give up. For IVF to work there are few things that are really important. Firstly, you should visit a doctor who has a high success rate. This is something that is really important. Doctors should be fully aware of what they are doing. Other than that good diet is also essential. Eat healthily. Don't take too much stress I am sure things will soon work out.

[mindykeller]

I think this is a personal decision. Most people would go for IVF. Because they wish to carry the baby themselves. A woman not only wants a baby. She wants to feel it. She wants to feel the mood swings. She wants to give birth. She wants to feel the labor pain. All this is only possible IVF. If you are infertile. Though if you cannot nourish the baby. I would recommend going for surrogacy. There is no point in doing IVF then. Good luck everyone. May every woman gets the happiness of having a baby.

[karsynne]

Hi there. How are you doing? I hope you are doing fine. We are doing good. I read your post. I think IVF is a risk for a woman above 33. Surrogacy would be a good option for them. Surrogacy guarantees success. It is a blessing for infertile couples. It helped me become a mother. I think it will be fruitful for her too. I think she should go for surrogacy. I hope all goes well for her. Take care. God bless.

[zella44]

Jun 7, 2018 13:50:08 GMT -5 sidneywhite said:

Sorry to hear about your lose. As far as i know, IVF success rate is very low. The process is complicated as well as time consuming. IVF is also expensive. I have seen many cases of failed IVF. That's why i am not in favor of IVF. I will prefer surrogacy over IVF. As surrogacy is simple and 100% guaranteed process. I am also an infertile. I can't have my own baby because of my disease. My husband and i decided to go for surrogacy. A friend of mine recommended us Ukraine clinics for it. We moved to Ukraine. Indeed, my friend's suggestion is best. The found a surrogate for us within no time. I also suggest you to visit Ukraine for the treatment. Good luck.

Hello Sydney! You're right. But, there are thousands of patients get pregnant via IVF yearly. It works for some. I'd prefer it over surrogacy but my condition isn't favorable for IVF. Because by IVF you can still have the child of your own. Anyway! Best of luck to you. I'm glad that things are working out for you. Ukraine is pretty popular and favorable spot for surrogacy these days. It's even better than U.S centers. So, yeah! Keep going!

[scarlett9999]

hello. I'm so sorry for your loss. but it is not the end of the world. do not lose hope. I'm sure there were some reasons. keep trying. you can go for surrogacy too. it is a sure shot. a healthy surrogate mom will believer your baby. ukraine has man Good clinics. you should search it up. ill pray for you. stay sane. do not rush things. all will be well.

[ezabel]

That's very well said. Yes, this is a case often. Even I prefer surrogacy more than IVF. Maybe my failures would be the reason. Anyhow this is the most preferable thing to adopt. I am glad that you have found your good in this. I have heard this from many women that they had a perfect time having surrogacy. But yes the place must be good. But you have to be very sure that the clinic is right and would work on your expectations. Have a good life. XX

[rosiejames]

Well, it's your personal decision. Those who wish to deliver their themselves definitely go for IVF. Having babies is the biggest desire of any lady. Keeping a baby in your womb would be such a wonderful experience. No doubt children are a great blessing of God. That beautiful pain would be unforgettable for any lady. Well, this is only possible through IVF treatment. Well, if you think you are not so much healthy or fit for this, you can go for surrogacy. Surrogacy treatment is common and most practiced among the individuals. The cause behind your infertility is your weak womb. Before making any decision, must consult your doctor. There are many clinics in Europe offering surrogacy treatment. The difference is between their quality of treatment. Although clinics there are providing their best facilities but beware of some frauds. Clinics like Lotus and Adonis are looting people nowadays. Well, it doesn't mean Ukraine is not a suitable place for surrogacy. Wishing you a blast of luck!

[sarahlietzo]

I am also infertile. I guess surrogacy is the last option for me now to have baby of our own.
I have contacted many surrogacy related clinics and had gathered quite good info about surrogacy.
I also contacted some surrogates who are willing to cary our child in their womb.
I was pregnant thrice but had miscarriages every time.
I had many complications while getting pregnant.
During my first marriage i had no luck with having children although i conceived for 3 times.
I know today surrogacy is a common thing but i am worried about many aspects of having a baby via surrogacy.
I guess we will find a surrogate wth the help of clinic we are consulting.
I am married for second time i want to have baby of my own to live with.
But regarding and having a look at my previous pregnancy period i know its not a good idea to be pregnant again.
So i talked to my husband and have agreed him to go for surrogacy option.

[cerys]

Sorry for your huge loss. I know how painful it is. If alternative ways also do not work. It feels like the end of the world. But have patience. There are always some conditions for the success of ivf. I think your doctor didn't aware you well. But you should not stop trying. Try another clinic. But this time try surrogacy. It works for everybody. I am sure you will also have a happy family soon. It will be your biological child. So don't worry about it. Don't take the stress. Don't lose hope. There are many people who are infertile. And science has given us such advancements through which one can overcome these issues. Good luck dear. Take care.

[hallen1218]

I am really sorry for your issues. I think IVF rate of success is very low. I can understand your situation. It was really difficult for you. My Freind was in the same situation. Her IVF was not successful. Doctors recommend her surrogacy. She moved to Europe for surrogacy. They are best in dealing with surrogacy. Their services are less expensive compared to others. It was successful. She had a daughter now. So you must go there. Please don't visit Adonis and Lotus clinic in Europe. They are worst in dealing with such issues. Till then I wish you a very good luck.

[alice99]

Hello there. How are you? I hope you are well. IVF success rate is very low. The process is complicated as well as time consuming. IVF is also expensive. I have seen many cases of failed IVF. That's why i am not in favor of IVF. I will prefer surrogacy over IVF. As surrogacy is simple and 100% guaranteed process. I am also an infertile. I can't have my own baby because of my disease. My husband and i decided to go for surrogacy. I am still very scared. But I will go for it. Good luck to you. Take care.

[Eric Watson]

Dear Sidney! Hope so you are doing good. I just read your post. I do not totally agree with your opinion. IVF is also helping people in their fight against infertility. But clinic also matters. Some clinics have high success rates that are situated in Ukraine. I heard many success stories. You are right that surrogacy has high success rates as compared to IVF. But both the methods have their own plus points. One of my friends was suffering from PCOS. She was also declared infertile. She wanted to be pregnant or hold the child in her womb. So IVF was the only option left for her. And she adopted it and now she has a beautiful baby girl. So be positive and try to avail hat suits you better

[karla45]

"Hi there how are you? Hope you are fine. Well, dear, I had faced this time and this situation.
I decided to go for Surrogacy because I was not that much healthy at that time. It was a high risk for me so I decided surrogacy and it really works for me. Well, we all wanted to give birth in our womb but sometimes it doesn't work for us.
Surrogacy treatment is best and it is not that much risky so as it works in my situation so I will suggest you to go for it. Well for going for these treatments the thing which we need is to choose a good clinic. Ukraine is good for these treatments. As it is legal there but it doesn't mean that every clinic there is of good quality. There are clinics too who are just playing with the feelings of people.
So keep your eyes open while choosing a clinic. Don't go to fake ones. Be aware of the black sheep like Lotus"

[emily123]

Hi Sidney! How are you? Hope you are in good health. IVF has a better chance of success for women with PCOS but I did not find it to be helpful for me. I have had 2 failed IVF. I am also infertile and the only way I was able to start my family was through surrogacy. I went to Ukraine for my surrogacy procedure and It was the best decision of my life. I am now mother of a baby girl that I had through surrogacy.

[karsynne]

Hi there. How are you doing? I hope you are doing fine. We are doing good. I read your post. Yes, I agree. IVF is risky. It has many factors involved. Many are not able to conceive with it. That is why I feel so good for people who had success with it. It is so good to hear success stories. Surrogacy is really a blessing. It is really a great way to have kids. I would suggest it to anyone struggling with infertility. God bless.

[rosiejames]

You have faced so much pain dear. But be hopeful dear. This is not the end of the world. Infertility can be cured. As science has suggested surrogacy treatment for it. Success is guaranteed in it as a healthy surrogate delivers the baby. Well, Europe is the best place for having surrogacy.

[debra]

Congratulations dear for reaching the dream destination. Ukraine is a hub of several fertility clinics. Many clinics there are providing a reasonably economical and trustworthy treatment. Hopefully you have reached the safe place and not a scam like Lotus of Adonis. Surrogacy will ultimately give you the desired happiness. Don't forget completing your legal papers before proceeding ahead. I wish you all the best.

[karla45]

Hey there how are you. You had gone through so much hard times. I would say don't gave up.Life is the name of tests. We should be brave to face these hard times. There is a solution of every problem. I would request you to go for surrogacy. It will surely help you.

[lia]

Dear don't worry about such problems. I think in your case surrogacy will be suitable. Your chances of IVF success will be very low. So you must go for surrogacy. There is a good clinic in Europe. They are best in dealing with surrogacy. You must go there. I wish you a very good luck.

[Evie_224]

Hey Sidney! Hope so you will be fine. You are right to some extent. But I think both the methods of helping people a lot in their fight against infertility. I have also adopted IVF to have a baby in my life. I was suffering from PCOS. I was also unable to conceive. I got successful IVF. You are right that surrogacy is a more preferred thing over IVF. But IVF is also a good thing. People go with surrogacy because it has less risk. I think the reputation of the clinic also matters. Perhaps success rates may depend upon the quality of treatment. Different case everywhere. I appreciate both of them

[hansonleslie]

it's great that you found your happiness. Baby via surrogacy really is amazing. Who would've thought something like this would come around? I myself am really into surrogacy. I think it's a very good way for assisted conception. Probably the best. IVF is very good as well. But like you said, it isn't always certain. Thre are many failed attempts before the right one. There are clinics that offer multiple tries till success But it just takes a toll on your mental health in my opinion. That's why surrogacy is better. Anyway. I hope more people are able to get their happiness in the same way!

[amy12]

IVF may give you a chance of carrying your baby yourself. You can feel the baby for 9 months. But yes, it has risks. There are many people that go for IVF. But they fail multiple times. Then they have to opt for surrogacy. I, myself went for it. I would suggest that you go for surrogacy too.

[CharleneMontana]

hi there. Hope you are good. I see you have had a positive experience in Ukraine but mine was a total disaster. I tried to contact a clinic name lotus in Ukraine for surrogacy but they never responded to me. I tried emailing and contact via phone but they were totally unresponsive. It was a frustrating experience. Never going to recommend them to anyone.

[marykaycee]

I am really saddened by your loss. That's why i don't really trust IVF. No doubt every fertility has pros and cons. But still surrogacy is best among all. Because the procedure is simple like normal pregnancy and safer as well. And as compared to surrogacy IVF and IUI both are bit complicated procedures. And they are painful as well. But their rate of success in first attempt is not so high as well. My gut feeling always said surrogacy when i was planning for my fertility treatment. Decision was hard but i went with my gut feeling and chose surrogacy. I then contacted a few clinic in ukraine as ukraine is famous for fertility treatments. And finally we got a satisfactory response by one clinic. And then we moved to ukraine to visit the clinic. Our first visit was beyond words. I had never felt so much positivity before. They built their trust in our hearts in a way that we never even thought like that. they boosted our hopes and confidence. They found a surrogate for us in no time as well. We met our surrogate in our last visit. things are working out finally. So we are so happy and hopeful.

[trisha098]

Hello. Terribly sorry to hear about this. I hope you feel better soon. IVF does not come with a guarantee. It just gives you a few chances of being able to have a baby on your own. It works for some people. Sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes it takes more than a couple of cycles for it to work for people. But now at least you won't regret not going for it. You tried your best. You shouldn't give up now. There are other options that you can consider now. Nothing is impossible. If you need my help I'm here. Good luck with the future.