Re-Intro from TTGP

[nachobutt]

i don't see an option for that

[ttcminicofer]

I did one too so it can just die away. But I am happy we can QFP here

[beyondblessed14]

Jan 19, 2015 1:28:01 GMT -5 W said:

Here beyondblessed14, read this... it'll explain why I was mad. 

"Many think the new "rules" or "guidelines" are the base of why over 3,000 of us left to create a new community. That's not true. We left because on January 12th you announced there would be a new system for modding and within one day you banned and de-modded our mods that we trusted.

One mod in particular has been a HUGE influence in my journey. Her resilience and knowledge helped guide me. Her devotion to the "Bumpies" was unbelievable. Her friendship on The Bump and outside of The Bump has been wonderful. When I found that she was banned I knew that something terrible would happen. Without her, the many boards that she modded would fall apart.

Soon after you banned these men and women, I was banned. After being banned I reviewed the TOU, which still stated that if one was warned 3 times within 6 months that they had broken the "rules" then they would be banned. Up to that point I had never received a warning from a mod."


That is just it. A lot of people didn't and still don't know the full reason for so many leaving the 24 hour silence post are posted so often the last few days that wherever the post are that explain the REAL reason for everyone being upset are overlooked otherwise it would take forever to click post by post to find. I wasnt aware of it all being over the fact that all someone did was mention new TOU coming. I am sure that the person who gave out that information is probably someone who has given the most helpful information that I have read over the last few months. I would have made the switch a lot sooner. I can understand where each of you are coming from and would be just as angry. I have reached out to the newbies and apologized they came at such crazy times because I was a new person not too long ago and appreciated all the welcomes and those that reached out to me. Some of the first responses that they received were "F*CK OFF and BE SILENT" while they were completely unaware. I mentioned "weeding out" because so many on the board were only posting "silence" to gain the attention of their account being deleted and that was my reference was that eventually they will be deleted as they wished and more normalcy would return to the board (pertaining to people asking/answering questions. 


If there is no room for forgiveness of an honest mistake, I can have my account on here deleted and move on to try to find another message board to join. 

[kawaiikitsune]

[dovahfel]

Jan 19, 2015 1:20:37 GMT -5 beyondblessed14 said:

No problem with anyone knowing who I was previously. I am honest which is what many of the other women in the group were. I *personally* didn't have a problem following TB's new TOU or guidelines but I know some felt that they were in rightful. After spending a few days of seeing that none of the Admins were doing as people were asking by deleting their personal information and refusing to answer any questions being asked by those who were upset, I have decided I do not want to be a member of a message board that does not respect others the way they are asking others to respect each other. I said *SOME* post I would have considered cyberbullying not all. I can understand that many were rightfully angry as I'm sure I would have been if I had been around longer than just a few months. Again, I am sorry to those who were wrongfully blocked and have been disrespected when all you are doing is sharing information to help others. You have every right to be angry.

I have only been looking to learn from those with knowledge and share the knowledge that I have in return.
That is all that I can say and just as I have given the women on this group another chance, I would hoe the same could be given to me. I want to give/receive encouragement and advice from women in the same situation I am in.

Wow.  I'm going to NOT waste my time trying to tell you how much you totally missed the point and how big of a jerk you came across as on TB during one of the biggest upheavals I have EVER seen on a forum....and go right for this gif.  I'd like to think I was saving it for you. It's simple enough it should be clear.

[nachobutt]

Forgiveness? I never saw an apology.

[whatsit]

Jan 19, 2015 1:44:33 GMT -5 beyondblessed14 said:

Jan 19, 2015 1:28:01 GMT -5 W said:

Here beyondblessed14, read this... it'll explain why I was mad. 

"Many think the new "rules" or "guidelines" are the base of why over 3,000 of us left to create a new community. That's not true. We left because on January 12th you announced there would be a new system for modding and within one day you banned and de-modded our mods that we trusted.

One mod in particular has been a HUGE influence in my journey. Her resilience and knowledge helped guide me. Her devotion to the "Bumpies" was unbelievable. Her friendship on The Bump and outside of The Bump has been wonderful. When I found that she was banned I knew that something terrible would happen. Without her, the many boards that she modded would fall apart.

Soon after you banned these men and women, I was banned. After being banned I reviewed the TOU, which still stated that if one was warned 3 times within 6 months that they had broken the "rules" then they would be banned. Up to that point I had never received a warning from a mod."


That is just it. A lot of people didn't and still don't know the full reason for so many leaving the 24 hour silence post are posted so often the last few days that wherever the post are that explain the REAL reason for everyone being upset are overlooked otherwise it would take forever to click post by post to find. I wasnt aware of it all being over the fact that all someone did was mention new TOU coming. I am sure that the person who gave out that information is probably someone who has given the most helpful information that I have read over the last few months. I would have made the switch a lot sooner. I can understand where each of you are coming from and would be just as angry. I have reached out to the newbies and apologized they came at such crazy times because I was a new person not too long ago and appreciated all the welcomes and those that reached out to me. Some of the first responses that they received were "F*CK OFF and BE SILENT" while they were completely unaware. I mentioned "weeding out" because so many on the board were only posting "silence" to gain the attention of their account being deleted and that was my reference was that eventually they will be deleted as they wished and more normalcy would return to the board (pertaining to people asking/answering questions. 


If there is no room for forgiveness of an honest mistake, I can have my account on here deleted and move on to try to find another message board to join. 

umm what? did you read what she posted for you?

[beyondblessed14]

Jan 19, 2015 1:33:14 GMT -5 yummybunny said:

What I would like to know is why did you choose to come here? Since previously you stated that you "did not appreciate the foul language and cyber bullying" that was on TTGP, why would you decide to seek out that exact community, when there are multiple other forums that you could have gone to instead?


Foul language is just not my choice of wording when I am trying to get a point across to someone through anger or not. My personal preference is to not use it myself. I can ignore it when I understand that sometimes people ask stupid questions. Just as many have stated before, there aren't many other message boards with honest people that have real knowledge and don't make you think that "everyone ovulates based on a 28 day cycle" and by "telling me you are late, I can confirm you are pregnant"

[nachobutt]

I wonder if people can get their account deleted faster here, than on TB? OP..why don't you try and see?

[SpraggleFrock]

Jan 19, 2015 1:51:43 GMT -5 W said:

I really need you to quote the right way.

Word. It's giving me a headache.

[notlindsrockies]

OMG STUCK IN THE BOX I cannot tell where one conversation ends and the reply starts.

Beyond- please use the bbcode tab when posting if you see you're stuck in the previous poster's box (giggity).

[notlindsrockies]

JINX I'll buy you guys Cokes tomorrow. Or something.

[beyondblessed14]

Jan 19, 2015 1:49:25 GMT -5 whatsit said:

Jan 19, 2015 1:44:33 GMT -5 beyondblessed14 said:

umm what? did you read what she posted for you?

I did incorrectly write. What I meant was that I was unaware of the whole situation being that people were just deleted without reason and then any questioning as to why resulted in others being deleted.

[beyondblessed14]

Sorry for the incorrect quoting.

[whatsit]

Jan 19, 2015 1:59:37 GMT -5 beyondblessed14 said:

Sorry for the incorrect quoting.

well looky there... she does know how to apologize

[nachobutt]

Jan 19, 2015 2:04:00 GMT -5 whatsit said:

Jan 19, 2015 1:59:37 GMT -5 beyondblessed14 said:

Sorry for the incorrect quoting.

well looky there... she does know how to apologize

just not for the right reasons.

[WVaRN]

Jan 19, 2015 2:06:41 GMT -5 @iliketurtles said:

I'm still not really sure why you think it's okay to bash us and then come onto our forum?

I agree she jumped on the bandwagon of Oh the Bump gods are awesome and they got rid of all the cyperbullies without even knowing WTF was going on. Then just wants to come her and wants everyone to hug her and tell her warm fuzzies.  I think a real apology would go a long way but I'm still. 

[WVaRN]

Oh and posting on TTCAS was a douchetastic move.

[beyondblessed14]

I never intentionally bashed someone. To the new people who had joined and confused and unaware of what was going on, I shared that there were some people who weren't wanting to abide by the new TOU which I have just recently found out was NOT the reason for the deletions though that is what post on the message board were stating. As far as the post on weeding out people who weren't there to be positive, I was referring to the fact that so many were posting only to get the point across about having their information deleted which I have also come to see over time was necessary since the ADMINS on TB have decided it's easier to just ignore people's post then address them and not give people the same respect that they ask for. My "weeding out" meant that they will soon all be deleted and more normalcy post wise would return to the board.

For any false accusations on my behalf, I am sorry.

[whatsit]

Jan 19, 2015 2:19:33 GMT -5 beyondblessed14 said:

I never intentionally bashed someone. To the new people who had joined and confused and unaware of what was going on, I shared that there were some people who weren't wanting to abide by the new TOU which I have just recently found out was NOT the reason for the deletions though that is what post on the message board were stating. As far as the post on weeding out people who weren't there to be positive, I was referring to the fact that so many were posting only to get the point across about having their information deleted which I have also come to see over time was necessary since the ADMINS on TB have decided it's easier to just ignore people's post then address them and not give people the same respect that they ask for. My "weeding out" meant that they will soon all be deleted and more normalcy post wise would return to the board.

For any false accusations on my behalf, I am sorry.

I honestly couldn't understand most of your post. As for the bolded...there will be no "normalcy", people have deleted or were banned... how do you not get that?

ETA --- bolded not deleted

[beyondblessed14]

Jan 19, 2015 2:24:47 GMT -5 whatsit said:

Jan 19, 2015 2:19:33 GMT -5 beyondblessed14 said:

I never intentionally bashed someone. To the new people who had joined and confused and unaware of what was going on, I shared that there were some people who weren't wanting to abide by the new TOU which I have just recently found out was NOT the reason for the deletions though that is what post on the message board were stating. As far as the post on weeding out people who weren't there to be positive, I was referring to the fact that so many were posting only to get the point across about having their information deleted which I have also come to see over time was necessary since the ADMINS on TB have decided it's easier to just ignore people's post then address them and not give people the same respect that they ask for. My "weeding out" meant that they will soon all be deleted and more normalcy post wise would return to the board.

For any false accusations on my behalf, I am sorry.

I honestly couldn'y understand most of your post. As for the deleted...there will be no "normalcy" people have deleted or were banned... how do you not get that?

Normalcy, meaning that over the course of time, admins will delete the accounts of those asking for their information to be deleted which will decrease the silence post. I am aware of the fact that most if not all of those that have advice worth something have left TB and gone elsewhere.

[beyondblessed14]

For anyone that would take the time, other than the 2 post I keep getting called out on, you would see that I have never bad mouthed anyone. I am not as knowledgeable as many out there as I am new and just getting started with reading TCOYF and temping. I do hope with time, those that have gotten the wrong impression of me based on my quick actions will see that I am not the person that my actions portrayed me to be.

ETA- "reading" not "ready"

[notlindsrockies]

Jan 19, 2015 2:37:10 GMT -5 @kemye13 said:

Jan 19, 2015 2:33:05 GMT -5 beyondblessed14 said:

For anyone that would take the time, other than the 2 post I keep getting called out on, you would see that I have never bad mouthed anyone. I am not as knowledgeable as many out there as I am new and just getting started with ready TCOYF and temping. I do hope with time, those that have gotten the wrong impression of me based on my quick actions will see that I am not the person that my actions portrayed me to be.

The best way to do this is so as W suggested. Hang around and lurk. Sit back and read threads. Slowly start to participate. Unfortunately you were extremely vocal/present about a situation you didn't have a lot of information about and now you are wanting to join the group that you were speaking out against. Just take your time but know you'll be on quite a few post-it's.

::bravo::

[longlivetheevilqueen]

I don't buy your backpedaling. I think you realized how dead TB was after the mass exodus so you followed us to Proboards. Lurk for a very long time and get a good feel of this community before you call it "home".

[beyondblessed14]

I appreciate the honesty. I'm not begging anyone to buy what I said. I'm being honest as I have been since my first post. You are correct there were posts about mods being deleted and I was under the impression that it was over rules not being met. Which was was many more posts were saying. This is a large forum and I am one who left my name the same. I didnt have anything to hide. Do you not think there are a few here who have come and just hid behind a new username and being new, not voicing anything about being a prior member of TB? Just a though. Again, Im sorry for anyone who felt bashed. I can't change what happened I can only apologize and change what happens from here on out.

[traversity]

Jan 19, 2015 8:42:09 GMT -5 beyondblessed14 said:

I appreciate the honesty. I'm not begging anyone to buy what I said. I'm being honest as I have been since my first post. You are correct there were posts about mods being deleted and I was under the impression that it was over rules not being met. Which was was many more posts were saying. This is a large forum and I am one who left my name the same. I didnt have anything to hide. Do you not think there are a few here who have come and just hid behind a new username and being new, not voicing anything about being a prior member of TB? Just a though. Again, Im sorry for anyone who felt bashed. I can't change what happened I can only apologize and change what happens from here on out.

for you, it might have been a good move to come in under a new name. BUT, people change their names. The asshole/crazy ALWAYS comes out. trust me when I say that. SO if gingersnatch is here under a different name, her crazy will eventually show.

lurk, know you are on peoples post its, and see if you can eventually overcome. But don't come acting like we should be all like "cool, you didn't even lurk a little to know what what going on before calling us out, but alls forgiven"

[chad5285]

Jan 19, 2015 8:42:09 GMT -5 beyondblessed14 said:

I appreciate the honesty. I'm not begging anyone to buy what I said. I'm being honest as I have been since my first post. You are correct there were posts about mods being deleted and I was under the impression that it was over rules not being met. Which was was many more posts were saying. This is a large forum and I am one who left my name the same. I didnt have anything to hide. Do you not think there are a few here who have come and just hid behind a new username and being new, not voicing anything about being a prior member of TB? Just a though. Again, Im sorry for anyone who felt bashed. I can't change what happened I can only apologize and change what happens from here on out.

Yeah you've missed the point of every post you've ever made. Starting from "they are cyber bullies" to "I apologize if you felt bashed" instead of saying that you apologize for bashing all of us. No amount of lurking can fix your tenuous grasp of social etiquette so I would be extremely pleased if you never posted again on PB. 

I hope you enjoy the world that people like you created on TB. Good luck with that.

[getzystark]

Important question! Has OP ever love-titted gingersnatch? Didn't she intro on TFAS?

[LadyNymeria]

Jan 19, 2015 10:32:36 GMT -5 getzystark said:

Important question! Has OP ever love-titted gingersnatch? Didn't she intro on TFAS?

What was ginger's real username? I can't remember with all the creative versions we have around here. I can try to check it out.

[ttcminicofer]

Jan 19, 2015 10:40:02 GMT -5 LadyNymeria said:

Jan 19, 2015 10:32:36 GMT -5 getzystark said:

Important question! Has OP ever love-titted gingersnatch? Didn't she intro on TFAS?

What was ginger's real username? I can't remember with all the creative versions we have around here. I can try to check it out.

gingerlady03 I believe