Welcome! Please read before posting
Mar 9, 2015 19:13:30 GMT -5
Post by therealbug on Mar 9, 2015 19:13:30 GMT -5
Welcome to TTCAL 6+ Months. I'm so sorry for your loss and that you find yourself over here.
TTCAL6+ is a community for women who have been actively TTCAL for 6 months or more, as well as been an active part of the TTCAL/CAL board for at least six months. This is an especially hard part of the journey and the six month mark is often when people recognize that they have been left behind by many of the people that joined the main board at the same time as them and that you no longer seem to fit in or feel comfortable on CAL. If you are wondering if you should post an introduction, here are some tips on what being active on CAL means:
Just because this board is called "6+", please do not feel like you must post as soon as you hit the six month mark. This is not the "cool kids" club. It sucks to find yourself here.
If you are in your 2WW, don't intro. You do not want to be that asshat who intro'd on 6+ only to get a BFP the following week.
Graduates of 6+ are welcome to post on this board without warning. While we still do not talk about LCs or current pregnancies on this board, graduates who were active members of 6+ will chime in on the Bi-Weekly Wine and Cheese and other threads to offer support.
Ellie is our mascot. After you intro and have been welcomed, you can add her to your siggy. If you put Ellie in your siggy prior to becoming a member of this board, you will be called out.
TTCAL6+ is a community for women who have been actively TTCAL for 6 months or more, as well as been an active part of the TTCAL/CAL board for at least six months. This is an especially hard part of the journey and the six month mark is often when people recognize that they have been left behind by many of the people that joined the main board at the same time as them and that you no longer seem to fit in or feel comfortable on CAL. If you are wondering if you should post an introduction, here are some tips on what being active on CAL means:
- You have consistently posted support to other members of CAL (and TTCAL before the migration) for at least six months
- Your activity shows that you have been an active member of CAL for at least six months
- You would be recognized by the majority of the women on this board because you have consistently posted on CAL for at least six months in more than just one or two check-ins.
- Not only do you recognize the people over here, they recognize you because (I think you know where this is going) you were an active member of CAL for at least six months.
Just because this board is called "6+", please do not feel like you must post as soon as you hit the six month mark. This is not the "cool kids" club. It sucks to find yourself here.
If you are in your 2WW, don't intro. You do not want to be that asshat who intro'd on 6+ only to get a BFP the following week.
Graduates of 6+ are welcome to post on this board without warning. While we still do not talk about LCs or current pregnancies on this board, graduates who were active members of 6+ will chime in on the Bi-Weekly Wine and Cheese and other threads to offer support.
Ellie is our mascot. After you intro and have been welcomed, you can add her to your siggy. If you put Ellie in your siggy prior to becoming a member of this board, you will be called out.
