Chart stalk me please?

[anonymouseliza]

Mar 10, 2015 21:35:50 GMT -5 . said:

Maybe this isn't the place for me...I didn't realize this question should have gone under an existing thread and I didn't realize that I should be responding to threads before asking questions.

I am brand new at TTC so I thought it was smart to gain knowledge from y'all before responding to other people's questions without knowing what the hell I am talking about.

Sorry I interrupted your forum. Thanks for the advice I did get. I'll definitely use that information.

Sweetie, don't be dramatic.  Just step back and lurk a bit longer.  There is a ton of really valuable information here and lots of friendly people to help you out.  

It's not a big deal.  Just let it go and lurk.  Feel free to jump into the check-in threads and participate.  Forums and community are give and take.  If you don't feel comfortable answering questions, hang  back until you do.  You can participate in other ways while you learn the ropes.

Or head off.  That's cool too.  Just don't get worked up; nothing here warrants that.

[wanderingheart]

Uh, okay....I feel like this is an overreaction. Nobody is telling you to leave or being mean. We're just saying participate a little so we can get to know you. You've gotten some great advice here. Start in the WTO or TWW threads and lurk a little to get the feel of the board.

If there's anything to know about this community, it's that if you want to get support you need to give it out. You don't have to have all the answers to give support, just participate and jump in. The random threads and drinking threads are a great way to get to know people too. Good luck. If you stick around, you'll find these ladies are the best when it comes to support and knowledge.

[nachobutt]

You didn't interrupt anything, .. You came asking a question, and you did get some very good answers. Also remember, when stepping into any community, you aren't always going to like what responses you get. No one was mean to you here. Many were just trying to guide you in the right direction, to give you an idea on how things typically work here. It's not a big deal that you posted a chart stalk on a TTC forum. It is a big deal if you were to continue to do so without participating or interacting with anyone else in any other threads.

Take a step back, and lurk a bit. I'm sure you'll see that we're awesome, and you don't want to leave after all.

[♪♫choppinbroccoli♫♪]

Also, sometimes you get flamed. It doesn't have to turn on to bickering if you just let it go. Brush it off, and start participating!

[pismoduo]

Mar 10, 2015 21:35:50 GMT -5 . said:

Maybe this isn't the place for me...I didn't realize this question should have gone under an existing thread and I didn't realize that I should be responding to threads before asking questions.

I am brand new at TTC so I thought it was smart to gain knowledge from y'all before responding to other people's questions without knowing what the hell I am talking about.

Sorry I interrupted your forum. Thanks for the advice I did get. I'll definitely use that information.

No one's saying you have to participate to ask questions. Just try to temper the number of questions you're asking with participation in other stuff. Otherwise, people start to feel like you're just hear to use us as Google. It is smart to gain knowledge from us before answering others questions. But there's tons of other threads to participate in before you do that. There's two different daily (non-ttc related) threads, the drinking thread, random discussions that go on, plus the WTO and TWW threads that have getting to know you questions.

[pismoduo]

Mar 10, 2015 22:11:57 GMT -5 @sluttybigb00bz said:

Mar 10, 2015 21:35:50 GMT -5 . said:

Maybe this isn't the place for me...I didn't realize this question should have gone under an existing thread and I didn't realize that I should be responding to threads before asking questions.

I am brand new at TTC so I thought it was smart to gain knowledge from y'all before responding to other people's questions without knowing what the hell I am talking about.

Sorry I interrupted your forum. Thanks for the advice I did get. I'll definitely use that information.

I recommend thebump.com.  Good luck!

Yea... I wasn't going to say anything, but she's already over there too. Even before this all happened.

[pismoduo]

Mar 10, 2015 22:47:38 GMT -5 @sluttybigb00bz said:

Mar 10, 2015 22:42:10 GMT -5 pismoduo said:

Yea... I wasn't going to say anything, but she's already over there too. Even before this all happened.

I know - she started lots of threads there too (!!!!)

That's how it works over there now. Don't waste time waiting for answers to one question, just post a new thread for everything.

[.]

Yes I'm on the bump and was told to check this place out because it is so welcoming. I also post on the bump and respond over there too. I didn't know this was allowed either. Have a good day and I wish everyone the absolute best in their TTC journey! I won't be back.

[treble]

The butthurt is strong with this one.

[♪♫choppinbroccoli♫♪]

Welp, that's done now.

How fitting was that avatar, though?

[Deleted]

Geeez... Why do people get bitchy so damn quick?!

[FrancesHouseman]

That was totally a plant right? That reaction can't be real...

She posted the exact same thing on TB yesterday

[Deleted]

Mar 11, 2015 8:27:09 GMT -5 FrancesHouseman said:

That was totally a plant right? That reaction can't be real...

She posted the exact same thing on TB yesterday

Maybe she is just bored, looking for a new group of people to piss off? You never know!

[.]

You guys are assholes

[♪♫choppinbroccoli♫♪]

Mar 11, 2015 10:29:34 GMT -5 . said:

You guys are assholes

[treble]

Mar 11, 2015 10:29:34 GMT -5 . said:

You guys are assholes

Good one!

[Deleted]

Mar 11, 2015 10:29:34 GMT -5 . said:

You guys are assholes

[kellybenelly83]

[joy]

Mar 11, 2015 10:34:17 GMT -5 ♪♫choppinbroccoli♫♪ said:

Mar 11, 2015 10:29:34 GMT -5 . said:

You guys are assholes

I feel that you and me are often on the same wavelength.

Excellent gif.

[teraiin]

Mar 11, 2015 10:29:34 GMT -5 . said:

You guys are assholes

[daisy818]

GTFO - we don't take kindly to bitches around these parts.

[Deleted]

., if you want to be butt hurt, head on over to TheDump. They seem to have a ton of bullshit on that site. You might be better suited over there.

No need to troll on this site if you really have nothing to bring to the table.

**Moving on...**

[FrancesHouseman]

Mar 11, 2015 10:29:34 GMT -5 . said:

You guys are assholes

[bunnyfungo]

Mar 11, 2015 10:29:34 GMT -5 . said:

You guys are assholes

And?

[icaughtfire]

I accepted the fact I'm an asshole a long time ago. Personally, I feel it keeps stupid fucking people away from me.

[Deleted]

Mar 11, 2015 10:29:34 GMT -5 . said:

You guys are assholes

They are not assholes. Assholes do nothing but give you shit. These ladies are magical unicorns who provide others with colorfully worded, useful information.
Please don't get them mixed up again.

[RajahMD]

Mar 11, 2015 11:30:00 GMT -5 icaughtfire said:

I accepted the fact I'm an asshole a long time ago. Personally, I feel it keeps stupid fucking people away from me.

Amen sista.

[anonymouseliza]

I'm not an asshole. But I'm likewise not especially tolerant of entitled, self-important blowhards.

Clearly, we'll never get along.

If you feel so strongly about the perceived wrongs we've committed, then move on. Coming back to hurl insults at the women of this board (who answered your questions and pointed you in the direction of better fitting into the community and not in particularly harsh or mean ways) is only making you look tightly-wound and pathetic. Surely, if you are better than us, you've also got better things to do than come back here and hope that calling people names will somehow prove your point or endear them to you.

[Deleted]

Wow, what a waste of time. We kept trying to help even though you posted the link wrong so many times. I went on my phone just to figure out step-by-step how to get the link and shared it with you. And then when you get the link, everyone tried to help and gave great advice. Annnd now apparently we are assholes.

[hydrangea1019]

Mar 11, 2015 10:29:34 GMT -5 . said:

You guys are assholes

Wow. Really?!

So many people helped you in this thread alone trying to see your chart that you incorrectly posted. Then others suggested you check out certain weekly threads to be more involved and you start name calling?!

I was going to help you out and give you my experience with rocky temps before O, but not anymore.

Adios!