Married DH 09/21/13 BCP 08/08-02/12, 01/13-08/14 Paragard 02/16-? TTC#1 August '14 1st BFP 3/9/15! EDD: 11/17/15 Emma Rose born 11/26/15 (Thanksgiving!)
Although in the spirit of their thread, I will share that we enjoy very light bdsm on occasion. And toys. Yesss.
I wish I could get DH to try bdsm. I love foreplay and I think I would enjoy a little bit of bdsm, but not DH. He's a sex and done. He doesn't even like kissing
Married DH 09/21/13 BCP 08/08-02/12, 01/13-08/14 Paragard 02/16-? TTC#1 August '14 1st BFP 3/9/15! EDD: 11/17/15 Emma Rose born 11/26/15 (Thanksgiving!)
DH and I have had sex once since our BFP. That's 1x in 3 weeks. DH keeps hinting but if I'm not exhausted I'm nauseated. Poor guy. And the idea of a HJ/BJ grosses me out too much right now ...
DH and I have had sex once since our BFP. That's 1x in 3 weeks. DH keeps hinting but if I'm not exhausted I'm nauseated. Poor guy. And the idea of a HJ/BJ grosses me out too much right now ...
Post by hangryhedgehog on Mar 13, 2015 17:34:58 GMT -5
The GKU thread made me have a sex dream during my nap. About a random acquaintance's husband. She was telling us about getting knocked up herself today so I'm sure that's why, but ...awkward.
Post by hangryhedgehog on Mar 13, 2015 17:40:15 GMT -5
Bonus confession: I am really hoping to have a "horny pregnancy" this time like some women claim to have where they want it all the time and the sex is really good.
With DS we did it literally a handful of times. It was so uncomfortable for me.
DH and I have had sex once since our BFP. That's 1x in 3 weeks. DH keeps hinting but if I'm not exhausted I'm nauseated. Poor guy. And the idea of a HJ/BJ grosses me out too much right now ...
Maybe twice for us but Ya. I feel bad but at the same time... Sleep.
DH and I have had sex once since our BFP. That's 1x in 3 weeks. DH keeps hinting but if I'm not exhausted I'm nauseated. Poor guy. And the idea of a HJ/BJ grosses me out too much right now ...
+1 to this exactly
+1 Here too. H is kinda pissy about it too, but it's too much work to grow a baby and be sexy!
On the other hand. The sex we had was pretty nice!
Sometimes I think that there are people who shouldn't be parents. Like the dad who threatened me yesterday at work because I told him his child couldn't be there per the communicable disease policy. They have been attending for over 2 years now. This is not new info. And it's not my fault!!! I was just following rules. I know it suck to have to find someone or miss work. I understand. But it's policy and you knew it from day one.
I agree with all of you on just not being in the mood. I haven't even considered a hj/bj. I can't even brush my teeth without throwing up right now much less stick a penis in my mouth. I do feel bad for my H though. hangryhedgehog, I remember reading about horny/best sex ever pregnancies but I've come to believe they're a myth. I've never met a woman who was totally horny and having awesome sex while she was pregnant. If anyone on here has please speak up and give me hope! I guess this is a confession of sorts, but with my last pregnancy, especially towards the end, my H got a lot of boob or thigh sex (lol).
onyx, I had amazing sex during my last pregnancy. So many orgasms!! It was amazing! I also had sex dreams. In fact, I had some pretty amazing sex last night.
Sex in the last couple of weeks wasn't doable for us. My H got all weirded out bc he could feel DD's head.
Haha that would weird me out. I was always worried she'd kick or something and freak dh out.
I could always feel her moving during sex (if she happened to be awake at the time). I got so frustrated with my H. I told him if I could block it out so could he. Nope, he just couldn't get past it.
I didn't really have an FFFC until about 20 minutes ago...
Let me preface this by saying I've been really gassy that last week. Most can relate I'm sure. So I decide to give H an HJ. We haven't had sex in 3 days and I knew he was going to ask so I offered one before he could. So I'm doin my thing and I had my legs up by his face and he's grabbing my butt and what happens?! I let one rip. H doesn't even bat an eye but I couldn't help giggling. Once I get started giggling it's hard to stop. Ugh! So embarrassing! I was able to finish the job finally but it was hard.
Me: 27 DH: 35 MFI, failed vas-reversal TTC since 2011 Met RE 7/2012 6 failed IUIs 9/2014 IUI BFP, MMC @12 weeks, natural mc @ home 11/18/2014 01/2015 IUI, BFP, CP 2/2015 IUI, BFP, due 11/14/15 delivered 9/8/15 via emergency CS for severe preeclampsia. Currently in the NICU.
A late confession.. We haven't had sex since the bfp. I'm afraid of spotting. Im not sure I can handle seeing any. We both know it wouldn't hurt anything, but still. Last night was the first time he even acted interested but then he went to bed at 8, sooo... I don't know when we will. Am I being dumb?
A late confession.. We haven't had sex since the bfp. I'm afraid of spotting. Im not sure I can handle seeing any. We both know it wouldn't hurt anything, but still. Last night was the first time he even acted interested but then he went to bed at 8, sooo... I don't know when we will. Am I being dumb?
Nope! I haven't had sex since either. I was spotting a little bit in the beginning and put on pelvic rest, and never took myself off it. But I do give MH handjobs in the shower
A late confession.. We haven't had sex since the bfp. I'm afraid of spotting. Im not sure I can handle seeing any. We both know it wouldn't hurt anything, but still. Last night was the first time he even acted interested but then he went to bed at 8, sooo... I don't know when we will. Am I being dumb?
Yup. I'm the same. Granted, I'm also exhausted and not really in the mood anyway, but the thought of spotting after is what is sealing the deal for the moment.
jumpingpuddles, pickles4prez, I'm glad I'm not alone then. Makes me feel a little better. Maybe I will be more comfortable with the idea of all goes well at my appointment Tuesday.
A late confession.. We haven't had sex since the bfp. I'm afraid of spotting. Im not sure I can handle seeing any. We both know it wouldn't hurt anything, but still. Last night was the first time he even acted interested but then he went to bed at 8, sooo... I don't know when we will. Am I being dumb?
I say no. The last two time we had sex I spotted. It totally freaked me out and had me on high alert.
Bonus confession: I am really hoping to have a "horny pregnancy" this time like some women claim to have where they want it all the time and the sex is really good.
With DS we did it literally a handful of times. It was so uncomfortable for me.
H hopes I am like that too. My libido sucks in general, so I definitely wouldnt mind being horny again for a few months!
Bonus confession: I am really hoping to have a "horny pregnancy" this time like some women claim to have where they want it all the time and the sex is really good.
With DS we did it literally a handful of times. It was so uncomfortable for me.
H hopes I am like that too. My libido sucks in general, so I definitely wouldnt mind being horny again for a few months!
Careful what you wish for...I was so fucking horny In 2nd tri last time that I'd get a quickie before MH left for work, then spend the next 3 hours googling smutty erotica. Insatiable like whoa.
H hopes I am like that too. My libido sucks in general, so I definitely wouldnt mind being horny again for a few months!
Careful what you wish for...I was so fucking horny In 2nd tri last time that I'd get a quickie before MH left for work, then spend the next 3 hours googling smutty erotica. Insatiable like whoa.
lol I don't know, I think I wouldn't mind too much. My libido tanked partway through college. I'd love to go back to when it was at a good level. But I don't have super high hopes for this happening, but one can wish.
Careful what you wish for...I was so fucking horny In 2nd tri last time that I'd get a quickie before MH left for work, then spend the next 3 hours googling smutty erotica. Insatiable like whoa.
lol I don't know, I think I wouldn't mind too much. My libido tanked partway through college. I'd love to go back to when it was at a good level. But I don't have super high hopes for this happening, but one can wish.
Well I'll cross my fingers for you (and give you the good websites when you're ready
lol I don't know, I think I wouldn't mind too much. My libido tanked partway through college. I'd love to go back to when it was at a good level. But I don't have super high hopes for this happening, but one can wish.
Well I'll cross my fingers for you (and give you the good websites when you're ready
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