New here waiting to miscarry
Apr 5, 2015 22:54:54 GMT -5
Post by oneofthesethings on Apr 5, 2015 22:54:54 GMT -5
Hi. Dh and I decided to start trying last April and I called my OB/Gym to have my IUD removed, he had retired and after my family docs failed attempt to remove the device I was referred to a new OB and after a several month wait for an appointment finally were ready to go last November. I got a positive pregnancy test in February and until last week there was no sign anything was wrong. Thursday morning I had light bleeding and went to ER at the advise of my family doc. I should have been 9 weeks 3 days. The blood work was normal but the doctor was unable to find a heartbeat on the bedside US and I was sent to another department for a transvaginal US. I waited several hours for the results and when they came in the doctor was in surgery. The nurse literally handed me a print out of the US report and the doctors card and told me to call his office and book a follow up appointment after the Easter long weekend. No one discussed the results with me in any way.
The report dated the fetus at 6wk3d and again found no heartbeat, it also mentioned a bleed in the sac. From my doctor Google fest this weekend my interpretation of this report is that I had a missed miscarriage at around six weeks, there is no way my dates could be that far off. The bleeding is still light and intermittent but I've had several episodes if several hours of intense cramping and backache this weekend. I will call the doctor on Tuesday.
I have felt sad and periodically anxious throughout the weekend.
I am angry at a medical system (I am in Canada so it's free but inefficient) where it takes a over six months to get an IUD removed (significant particularly because I will be 37 this year) and the news that you're miscarrying is not significant enough that anyone not a doctor or nurse actually has time to tell you/discuss it with you.
I am confused about what to expect and am planning my week/work travel this week as normal because I have no idea what to expect.
And I am glad to have found this board, the posts I've read here have been very helpful.