I'm joining you all..

[Ace]

Hello to everyone. I am primarily on GBCN but I saw someone mention that everyone on TB moved to this place. I decided to come over here since GP isn't as active. 

DH and I have been TTC since October and I got a BFP on 3/16. Sadly, three days later I woke up to horrible cramps and heavy bleeding. Since I was 4w5d my OB called it a chemical pregnancy. We were devastated. 

I felt like I was getting back to "normal" but a friend made an insensitive comment about pregnancy and pregnancy loss a few days ago and I've been reliving that morning ever since.

So, that brings me here. :/  

[soultrane]

So sorry to hear that you're going through this too. I mostly lurk on GBCN and have been a bit more active here than I am there, but I've found everyone here to be incredibly supportive.

I can't offer any advice because I haven't even officially miscarried yet and am just trying to navigate my way through this whole situation now, but wanted to offer hugs.

[hydrangea1019]

I'm sorry you're having to go through this. Unfortunately, insensitive remarks aren't uncommon in all of this, but hopefully you have strong support through it. We are here if you need us. Sending hugs!

[followthesun]

Ace, welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your loss. Feel free to hang here and vent, ask questions, or anything else. ((Hugs))

[swivelchair5]

Sorry for your loss. We're here for you.

[vivela]

I'm sorry, Ace, it is such random things sometimes that come up and get you. It has only been a couple weeks; you will get to normal a little more each day.

[nikolie93]

I'm so sorry you find yourself here but welcome. Like it was already stated, we are here for you if you need to chat/vent/ask questions.

I understand how hearing something that someone says can hurt and stay with you. *hugs*

[starfishy]

So sorry to hear of your loss and that you had to hear some insensitive remarks.
The ladies here are so great and supportive.

[babyzebra]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm also sorry about the insensitive comments. People can be really hurtful sometimes. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. ((Hugs))

[rablissful]

So sorry for your loss. Big ((hugs))

We've all been there with the insensitive comments. They'll always sting, but at some point they won't keep bringing you back to square one. You'll get through this and we're all here for you!

[Ace]

Thanks everyone.

[hollyberry]

I am so sorry for your loss, and for your friend. After my first loss one of my closest friends just didnt talk to me for like a month. Finally she did, but its hard to move forward with her now, she just couldn't deal, and didn't know what to say, what to do. I have forgiven her now, but it is not forgotten. I am sorry she was insensitive, so many people haveno clue as to what should be said and what you need to hear. But on the bright side we all have been there, and know how you feel! *hugs*

[muscari]

Welcome from a fellow newbie! So sorry that you're going through this. Yeah, insensitive remarks and comments sadly sometimes seem to come from unexpected directions sometimes.. No matter how good the intention behind them, they can still really hurt and upset me. I think we're always welcome to vent here!

[crazycatlady6]

I'm sorry that you are here, Ace. (((hugs)))

People can be really insensitive asshats, feel free to vent here as this is what this board is here for. The ladies here give a lot of great advice and comfort.