Intro & advice needed
Apr 20, 2015 15:09:43 GMT -5
Post by graceanne on Apr 20, 2015 15:09:43 GMT -5
Hi ladies - it is w/ a heavy heart that I find myself going through another early pregnancy loss. We saw the baby's heartbeat last Thursday and the very next day I started bleeding. I have bled like a bad period through the w/e and today. I go to see my OB again tomorrow where I am sure they'll confirm the miscarriage. I was 6 weeks + 4. My first loss was a CP. I'm sad & angry over this loss. It took us a year to get pregnant after our CP and I'm 38 and know my risk for mc increases w/ age. What I find upsetting about this loss is that I had asked my dr to check hormones levels etc tested after my first loss b/c of AMA. She said that wasn't necessary until I've experienced 3 consecutive losses. I'm sure this is common practice. But w/ this current pregnancy I started spotting over a week ago and of course it was over the w/e so I went to the ER to get checked out and asked them to check my progesterone level as I was afraid that might be the cause. THey said they don't do that in the ER and to ask my OB. The monday after the w/e I saw a different dr in the practice where I go who did a pelvic exam and said that spotting in early pregnancy can be normal and sometimes we never know why...she didn't see any further bleeding going on. I told her that I didn't spot in my first pregnancy (which resulted in healthy baby girl) and that it was very concerning to me. I asked her if we could check my progesterone. She was very dismissive of that. She said that they would check my HCG levels again and make sure they doubled from the level they were at when I was checked in the ER. She did say she wld schedule me another u/s for later that week since we only saw a gs in the ER and she figured I was just too early to see anything. That was when we saw the baby's heart beat. Unfortunately, we learned at that appt that my HCG levels were increasing but no where near doubling. I then reasked my dr if we cld check my progesterone level and she didn't think it was necessary but agreed to do so to give me some peace of mind. Today I find out that my progesterone was low a 2.0 - s/b over a 10. I so upset! I blame myself for not advocating more strongly for myself and my unborn child. It just breaks my heart. I don't understand why that wasn't a concern from my dr's especially given my age, my slow rising hcg levels, and the fact I was spotting. Please help me understand. I see my dr again tomorrow and I just want to go in there clear headed and maybe I need to be educated on this but I just don't understand their lack of follow through. Am I wrong? This is my second early pregnancy loss. I now understand that low progesterone played a part in this but where do I go from here? Any advice and feedback is greatly appreciated.