*~*~*~ pgal check-in january 21, 2015 ~*~*~*
Jan 21, 2015 18:05:01 GMT -5
Post by ashtog on Jan 21, 2015 18:05:01 GMT -5
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I can only imagine how stressful that must be. I hope that when you pass that date you will start to feel more confidant. I love that you are staying positive and I am sending you positive vibes and {{hugs}} try to remember the mantras, even though I am sure that you have them memorized- this pregnancy is different and will have a different outcome. you are pregnant and you love your baby. FX that your cervix looks the same and that you get results soon. Will they be putting in a cerclage at some point?
I'm hoping that's really what happened, but it just doesn't really make sense to me. The day my water broke, I'd felt pretty crampy, which I'd just brushed off as "normal" because it was pretty mild. Probably TMI, but I could feel the sac outside of my body when it broke. So I don't understand how it could have been just a weak spot. It seems to me that my cervix had to have been totally open at the time.
He's a very experienced doctor, so I'm trying to just trust that he knows what he's doing. But honestly, sometimes I feel like he he's just brushing off my concerns because I don't have a medical background or whatever. And he won't refer me to MFM unless they find something during the scan. I need to check with my insurance and see if they'll let me see a specialist without a referral. So for now, I'm praying that it was just a fluke, and if anything changes, I'll know before it's too late.
I am glad that he's watching your cervix for changes in any case, but that would freak me out too. have you asked him for a cerclage or bought it up at all? I am praying for you both.