Post by silverspoon on May 22, 2015 7:51:40 GMT -5
All right, I'll go all in on this one.
We haven't had sex in two weeks because I'm afraid now of the spotting and cramping. The few times I actually do feel decent and want to I remember the cramping and I just don't want that back.
I know this weekend we need to. I need to suck it up. He hasn't complained, but I know it's an issue.
We haven't had sex in two weeks because I'm afraid now of the spotting and cramping. The few times I actually do feel decent and want to I remember the cramping and I just don't want that back.
I know this weekend we need to. I need to suck it up. He hasn't complained, but I know it's an issue.
I had to break down and do my wifely duties yesterday
Dr said no penetration until we see the heartbeat, and this is a 13k apple seed so I am not budging on that. Nope sorry
Hope this doesn't make me sound like a horrible person, but my FFFC:
We weren't TTC, but definitely weren't preventing. So when I found out I was pregnant, I was in more of a shock because I wasn't expecting it, so I feel guilty for not being as excited as I was when I found out I was pregnant for T. I absolutely excited now, and it didn't take long for the shock to wear off and the excitement start, but the initial shock is what I feel guilty about.
I feel absolutely awful for the victims, but exposing the Duggar crazy to the mainstream media will hopefully dispel any myth that they're a good, wholesome family. Wait that may be more of a UO.
FFFC, I don't work at the school full time and I'm all over the building, working with all age ranges of kids. I eat all the teacher treats in the lounges like it's my job. It's kind of a joke with the staff because I end up working in each end of the building on special treat days out of sheer luck.
Hope this doesn't make me sound like a horrible person, but my FFFC:
We weren't TTC, but definitely weren't preventing. So when I found out I was pregnant, I was in more of a shock because I wasn't expecting it, so I feel guilty for not being as excited as I was when I found out I was pregnant for T. I absolutely excited now, and it didn't take long for the shock to wear off and the excitement start, but the initial shock is what I feel guilty about.
We were actively trying for 7 months, and I still go between feeling excited and feeling panicked. No flames here!
We haven't had sex in two weeks because I'm afraid now of the spotting and cramping. The few times I actually do feel decent and want to I remember the cramping and I just don't want that back.
I know this weekend we need to. I need to suck it up. He hasn't complained, but I know it's an issue.
I had to break down and do my wifely duties yesterday
Dr said no penetration until we see the heartbeat, and this is a 13k apple seed so I am not budging on that. Nope sorry
You're a lot nicer than me. We also can't have sex until we see the heartbeat. DH is going to have to wait just as long as I do. Ain't nobody got time for that wifely duty.
Me: 34 | DH: 33 Married: 2010 | TTC since Jan 2012 Met RE: March 2014 | Official DX: unexplained 04/2014-12/2014: 5 IUIs, all BFN IVF #1 March 2015 25R/20M/17F: Freeze-all, 12 frosties! FET #1 - May 2015: BFP! Beta #1 361, Beta #2 726 Baby boy, C, born 1/19/2016
Hope this doesn't make me sound like a horrible person, but my FFFC:
We weren't TTC, but definitely weren't preventing. So when I found out I was pregnant, I was in more of a shock because I wasn't expecting it, so I feel guilty for not being as excited as I was when I found out I was pregnant for T. I absolutely excited now, and it didn't take long for the shock to wear off and the excitement start, but the initial shock is what I feel guilty about.
We have been trying since September and I have had two miscarriages in between then and now. We definitely wanted a baby. After the initial excitement of my BFP, I panicked and was like "this is what we want right?"
I feel absolutely awful for the victims, but exposing the Duggar crazy to the mainstream media will hopefully dispel any myth that they're a good, wholesome family. Wait that may be more of a UO.
FFFC, I don't work at the school full time and I'm all over the building, working with all age ranges of kids. I eat all the teacher treats in the lounges like it's my job. It's kind of a joke with the staff because I end up working in each end of the building on special treat days out of sheer luck.
I'm with you on the Duggars. I do hope their show gets cancelled. I don't want the victims dragged through the mud, but I'm hoping people now see the truth behind the "reality" that is portrayed on their show.
I also find a way to snack on any and all goodies brought into the office. I don't snack much, but put baked goods in front of me that require no effort from me to procure and I will chow down.
Hope this doesn't make me sound like a horrible person, but my FFFC:
We weren't TTC, but definitely weren't preventing. So when I found out I was pregnant, I was in more of a shock because I wasn't expecting it, so I feel guilty for not being as excited as I was when I found out I was pregnant for T. I absolutely excited now, and it didn't take long for the shock to wear off and the excitement start, but the initial shock is what I feel guilty about.
We were trying and I was still shocked when the test turned positive.
I still go through moments when I think what the hell did we do.
Hope this doesn't make me sound like a horrible person, but my FFFC:
We weren't TTC, but definitely weren't preventing. So when I found out I was pregnant, I was in more of a shock because I wasn't expecting it, so I feel guilty for not being as excited as I was when I found out I was pregnant for T. I absolutely excited now, and it didn't take long for the shock to wear off and the excitement start, but the initial shock is what I feel guilty about.
I feel you on this exactly. Except I'm still in shock and haven't hit excitement phase yet. I want to be excited but I guess I'm just not there yet; hopefully it'll kick in soon.
Hope this doesn't make me sound like a horrible person, but my FFFC:
We weren't TTC, but definitely weren't preventing. So when I found out I was pregnant, I was in more of a shock because I wasn't expecting it, so I feel guilty for not being as excited as I was when I found out I was pregnant for T. I absolutely excited now, and it didn't take long for the shock to wear off and the excitement start, but the initial shock is what I feel guilty about.
I feel you on this exactly. Except I'm still in shock and haven't hit excitement phase yet. I want to be excited but I guess I'm just not there yet; hopefully it'll kick in soon.
I'm excited, but still don't feel pregnant. So I'm hoping after my appointment next Thursday and the U/S that it'll make it a little more real for me.
Post by silverspoon on May 22, 2015 9:08:50 GMT -5
This is pretty lame, but I'll share with the class anyway.
I bought my dog a bed that cost as much or more than the crib I like for the future Squish (I like the Ikea ones). My mom told me she doesn't think I'm very maternal. I think she's right. She didn't mean anything bad by it. It didn't bother me when she said it.
Wait...what the deal with the duggars? Have I been living under a rock? Confession- I had pasta followed by ice cream for dinner last night. Sorry not sorry. It's the only thing that sounded good.
This sounds like a fairly well-rounded meal to me.
Mine I already mentioned in ticker change, but DD screwed up my drink so I went to Starbucks and got myself another one. I felt silly & slightly excessive...but I need my drink without copious amounts of sugar okay?!?!
I haven't had sex with my husband in at least a week or two...and probably won't until this horrible nausea subsides or at least gets a little better. There is nothing sexy about dry heaving, and I know it totally sucks for him, but I'm sorry if I have to feel this awful all the time, I am not going to be in the mood for any kind of sexy time any time soon. He will just have to take care of himself until I'm better.
Post by germaphobe on May 22, 2015 10:59:16 GMT -5
I am currently at work, wearing the same shirt I wore as pyjamas last night. Sorry not sorry, it was the only loose fitting shirt that matched the only pair of shorts that currently fit me...
Wait...what the deal with the duggars? Have I been living under a rock?
Confession- I had pasta followed by ice cream for dinner last night. Sorry not sorry. It's the only thing that sounded good.
Josh Duggar molested at least 5 people, including some sisters, when he was around age 14. It's just now come out. People.com has a decent article, I'm mobile sorry no link.
Post by kingsqueen131 on May 22, 2015 12:14:12 GMT -5
My FFFC: When I am pregnant everything and I mean everything about my fiance irritates me. He is annoying x1000 lol! In fact he is the one that told me to take a pregnancy test because I was being so mean to him. I have no idea why, I am trying to control it, but I think that he needs to spend the least amount of time with me as possible until 2nd tri and ST? Ha! He better not even look like he wants to think about asking me for it! Im a bitch womp womp......
Post by silverspoon on May 22, 2015 13:42:04 GMT -5
I am now searching Etsy for cute covers for her ridiculous new bed. Usually I can just wrap a sheet around them (like her other two beds, yes she has two more), but this one she gets the sheet all twisted around on. She has to do approximately 17 circles before she can finally lay down.
Edited to add: I'm still at work, but almost everyone is gone and I'm pretty much over working.
silverspoon, sumbeach, Sparkly, yeah it's been pretty dry over here too! I did give H oral last night. I'm on no penetration until further notice. pinktoes, dang I wish I worked somewhere where there was a never ending food supply, like MH! They always have extravagant spreads every single day, so he only eats dinner at home. Must be nice :/ dishylo, omg I love breakfast sandwiches but for some reason today it sounds terrible. Glad you liked it and were able to tolerate it!
My FFFC is that I'm already thinking about announcing my pregnancy on Facebook and to my other friends and family. SUCH a bad idea. I can't even believe how I would deal if I had a MC and then had to back track.
Hope this doesn't make me sound like a horrible person, but my FFFC:
We weren't TTC, but definitely weren't preventing. So when I found out I was pregnant, I was in more of a shock because I wasn't expecting it, so I feel guilty for not being as excited as I was when I found out I was pregnant for T. I absolutely excited now, and it didn't take long for the shock to wear off and the excitement start, but the initial shock is what I feel guilty about.
We were actively trying for 7 months, and I still go between feeling excited and feeling panicked. No flames here!
We made the decision to TTC after over a year of discussion. I'm definitely excited but I do get these waves of panicky feelings wondering if we made a mistake (mostly due to our ages). But I think I felt that way with DS too. I think it is totally normal whether it is your 1st, 2nd or more it's the fear of the unknown and how things will turn out.
Post by scorpioscuba on May 22, 2015 16:03:57 GMT -5
My FFFC is this: My SS just graduated from HS last night and he turns 18 at the end of May. We are taking him on a family trip to HI to celebrate but both DH and I are so fed up with his lack of motivation and MH has threatened to throw out all of his stuff if he doesn't clean out his disgusting room. He lives with us and his Mom 50/50 but I'm kind of hoping that once he finds out we are having another baby he'll just move out. We would never make him leave but we are honestly at our wits end with him. He doesn't participate in family things...just literally sits in his room and plays video games when he isn't working or in school. He is taking up space that we need (thats me talking). I know this is mean but I'm over it. It's been a long time coming. I pay for everything for him and he doesn't appreciate anything at all.
My FFFC: DH isn't getting any any time soon. After HIO while we were TTC, I'm over it for awhile. Our drive was never very high. It was not uncommon for us to go a month in between. It bothered my at times, but we are affectionate in other ways, and I'm ok with it right now because TIRED.
We were trying and I was still shocked when the test turned positive.
I still go through moments when I think what the hell did we do.
THIS. My MIL started quizzing me about nursery furniture right after we told them we were pregnant. I just looked at her with wide eyes - I haven't even begun to think about it yet and it all sounded so overwhelming.
My FFFC is that today MIL told me that she's decided on a name for the inside baby. I shot her down bluntly and immediately, and I don't really feel bad about it at all.
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