There are a couple of girls that DH and I have both kissed and I've gotten interesting feedback from them on us. They thought we were both bad kissers. But we love kissing each other. I think my H is a great kisser. So I'm thinking, maybe no one is really bad at kissing so much as we all prefer a certain style. I wasn't particularly fond of the way my friends kissed either, but that doesn't make them bad kissers, it just means they're not my type.
Based off yesterday's convo; I receive Wic I hate it. My goal is for my daughter to never remember being there. It's full of people screaming and parents shouting at their kids. It's the worst feeling in the world. But it helps. I'm hoping I can be off it before my next appointment in 2 months. *hangs head in shame
Dude, don't ever hang your head in shame. You are seriously one of the sweetest people and you are great to everyone here, and a wonderful mom and wife. I'm sorry you guys are going through a rough time. Please don't be ashamed for reaching out for help when you need it. That's what it's for.
(Sorry for ending a sentence with a preposition, grammar notches)
FFFC: I think I might be on to something with why I'm "meh" about sex. I don't enjoy kissing my husband. I don't think he's a particularly good kisser. So, I'm like "let's skip that and just get it over with." It boggles my mind how he can be bad at one thing but (very) good at everything else. I feel like I can't call him out on it NOW, because it's been 10 fucking years. I'm also not sure I can fix it anyway, because I think it might just be how his lips are shaped.
You might actually be onto something. Usually if I kiss someone and it's no good, I move along.
Based off yesterday's convo; I receive Wic I hate it. My goal is for my daughter to never remember being there. It's full of people screaming and parents shouting at their kids. It's the worst feeling in the world. But it helps. I'm hoping I can be off it before my next appointment in 2 months. *hangs head in shame
Are you kidding? This is nothing to be ashamed of!!
Eh, I know I shouldn't really be, because we need it. And we use it, not like we're selling it off. But you should see the looks I get in line when people see me pull me checks out. And the scoffs n shit. One time someone made a comment here or on td about a person who had a new iPhone or something and using Wic checks. I'm that fucking person. Because I haven't always been so broke, and my parents do ok and have bought me gifts for my birthday or whatever. But it's so shitty knowing you're being judged. I just want to be off of it so bad.
Also, they give you so much milk it's fucking wasteful. It's ONLY for me, not my h or ss. And I get 6 gallons of milk a month. What one person drinks 6 gallons of milk? I requested to get something in place of the excess milk and they said no. It's weird.
My H is a good kisser sometimes. I think the thing that gets me is that we are so comfortable with each other, he wants to make out with like morning breath and shit. I don't like kissing when I can taste your nasty breath. That's when he is a bad kisser.
You guys are the best. Made me tear up. I don't tell people irl that I use it, but almost cried when I told my mom because I was embarrassed. I just felt like it was necessary to share after the conversation yesterday, so people can understand some of the reality of what's going on in this upside down country of ours, especially with the massive fucking wage gap.
My H is a good kisser sometimes. I think the thing that gets me is that we are so comfortable with each other, he wants to make out with like morning breath and shit. I don't like kissing when I can taste your nasty breath. That's when he is a bad kisser.
Brush your teeth and let's talk.
DUDE. Me all the way. Even when his teeth are brushed and mine aren't. I'm like get out of my mouth! I'm dirty!
My bush is out of control. I seriously have no idea when the last time any maintenance was done. I'm on strike until dh at least trims it for me, so I can shave it without needing a machete.
Whoa. I could never ask my SO to trim my pubes. That is love right there!
DH shaved it with his hair clippers before I had the baby, the timing was perfect. I told him it was getting harder to wipe after I peed and didn't feel like I was getting dry enough, so the bush had to be trimmed. I happened to have a csection about 4days later, the nurses even commented at how good it looked. I didn't have the heart to tell them dh had recently shaved it.....he would have been mortified if I told them hahaha!
Are you kidding? This is nothing to be ashamed of!!
Eh, I know I shouldn't really be, because we need it. And we use it, not like we're selling it off. But you should see the looks I get in line when people see me pull me checks out. And the scoffs n shit. One time someone made a comment here or on td about a person who had a new iPhone or something and using Wic checks. I'm that fucking person. Because I haven't always been so broke, and my parents do ok and have bought me gifts for my birthday or whatever. But it's so shitty knowing you're being judged. I just want to be off of it so bad.
Also, they give you so much milk it's fucking wasteful. It's ONLY for me, not my h or ss. And I get 6 gallons of milk a month. What one person drinks 6 gallons of milk? I requested to get something in place of the excess milk and they said no. It's weird.
Some people really suck. I'm sorry. I want to hug you through the interwebz.
FFFC: I think I might be on to something with why I'm "meh" about sex. I don't enjoy kissing my husband. I don't think he's a particularly good kisser. So, I'm like "let's skip that and just get it over with." It boggles my mind how he can be bad at one thing but (very) good at everything else. I feel like I can't call him out on it NOW, because it's been 10 fucking years. I'm also not sure I can fix it anyway, because I think it might just be how his lips are shaped.
I don't enjoy kissing dh either. Honestly, I've never been a make-out type of gal. Dh is always saying, give me tongue. EWWW HELL NO, GET AWAY FROM ME LOL.
I mean. Should I just...let it go? Or. Should I TRY to tell him he's a bad kisser? I think I should let it go. I also think I should force myself to have sex more often, because I don't, mostly because I'm lazy. Once I'm started, I'm like "why don't we do this anymore?" I don't want to ONLY have sex when we want babies. I want to make a change. When I die, I won't say "I wish I would have taken more naps." I'll say "I wish I would have fucked more."
My H is a good kisser sometimes. I think the thing that gets me is that we are so comfortable with each other, he wants to make out with like morning breath and shit. I don't like kissing when I can taste your nasty breath. That's when he is a bad kisser.
I mean. Should I just...let it go? Or. Should I TRY to tell him he's a bad kisser? I think I should let it go. I also think I should force myself to have sex more often, because I don't, mostly because I'm lazy. Once I'm started, I'm like "why don't we do this anymore?" I don't want to ONLY have sex when we want babies. I want to make a change. When I die, I won't say "I wish I would have taken more naps." I'll say "I wish I would have fucked more."
Maybe if you kiss more he'll get better? Maybe he's just rusty
RE WIC. I have 0 qualms with that program. Manu of my IRL friends have used it and it typically a very helpful program that aims to provide more nutritious food to those who need it.
RE making out is my fave with DH but we rarely do it. Like when we do it is super exciting for me because it is so rare.
Making time to have sex is hard. The struggle is real. Pre baby it was at least 3-4 times a week. Now I lose count of when we do it. I'm pretty sure we did it last week but not so much this week. I will want to do it but I get in bed and I'm so comfy that I forget.
I mean. Should I just...let it go? Or. Should I TRY to tell him he's a bad kisser? I think I should let it go. I also think I should force myself to have sex more often, because I don't, mostly because I'm lazy. Once I'm started, I'm like "why don't we do this anymore?" I don't want to ONLY have sex when we want babies. I want to make a change. When I die, I won't say "I wish I would have taken more naps." I'll say "I wish I would have fucked more."
I'm right there with you on the sex thing. (That sounds dirty lol) I wish we did it more often but then when we get the opportunity I'm like, meh, I'm tired. But when we actually do I'm so glad that we did and I want it more often.
As for the kissing thing, you may have to let it go. Or you can go the route of "let's try something different" and see if that eventually makes it any better. I don't think I could tell my H that he was a bad kisser, not after 10 years anyway. His poor ego would be so deflated. But if there's a way that you can work on it I think you should rather than just being forever dissatisfied.
Ok I'm loling here. We can all be nice people and still have highly inflammatory UOs and what not.
I know, I actually prefer it that way. Being a major player in one of our debates around her is generally good fun, even if I'm playing the "bad guy". Just saying, not everyone can handle it, which is why a lot of people disappear after they get flamed.
But I do see a difference in how some are treated in these threads. Like you said yesterday, you've never really been called out. But I feel like you have strong opinions and you go out of your way to get people all riled up sometimes and everyone's just cool with it. Not trying to knock you or anyone else for this, it's just an observation.
Actually, no. I didn't say I had never been called out. I said I have never been called privileged before, in the financial sense.
Also, I don't "go out of my way" to rile anyone. I'm just a no bullshit kind of person. I've been called out many a time about my opinions, and it is what it is.
FFFC: I think I might be on to something with why I'm "meh" about sex. I don't enjoy kissing my husband. I don't think he's a particularly good kisser. So, I'm like "let's skip that and just get it over with." It boggles my mind how he can be bad at one thing but (very) good at everything else. I feel like I can't call him out on it NOW, because it's been 10 fucking years. I'm also not sure I can fix it anyway, because I think it might just be how his lips are shaped.
OMG. Me too. Although it's not just how lips are shaped... He's a very sloppy kisser.... I don't know how to make it feel less licky.
You guys are the best. Made me tear up. I don't tell people irl that I use it, but almost cried when I told my mom because I was embarrassed. I just felt like it was necessary to share after the conversation yesterday, so people can understand some of the reality of what's going on in this upside down country of ours, especially with the massive fucking wage gap.
I am sad you feel so awful about it. I wish I could say that the judgment is worse in your head, but I have heard stupid things people say. But these programs are supposed to help the people who need it and you are one of those people. I'm glad it's there for you.
People would be so less cruel if they knew more people actually using these programs and how it benefits day to day life. I remember my MIL and all the crazy Fox News stuff she would repeat. And then MH would just sit there and list the programs supporting her daughters and grandson. And ask if they should be taken away. She would stop - but only for about a week...
Are you kidding? This is nothing to be ashamed of!!
Eh, I know I shouldn't really be, because we need it. And we use it, not like we're selling it off. But you should see the looks I get in line when people see me pull me checks out. And the scoffs n shit. One time someone made a comment here or on td about a person who had a new iPhone or something and using Wic checks. I'm that fucking person. Because I haven't always been so broke, and my parents do ok and have bought me gifts for my birthday or whatever. But it's so shitty knowing you're being judged. I just want to be off of it so bad.
Also, they give you so much milk it's fucking wasteful. It's ONLY for me, not my h or ss. And I get 6 gallons of milk a month. What one person drinks 6 gallons of milk? I requested to get something in place of the excess milk and they said no. It's weird.
No shame dude. Been there before. That's weird about your wic, in my state it covers cheese, milk, bread, eggs, juice, canned veggies/fruit and cereal.
All day yesterday in UO, I kept thinking "how could you think that about staryb? She's like the kindergarten teacher of O14." I guess I read her comments with that in mind. She's like the nicest person ever.
Awe, thanks! Glad someone doesn't think I'm an ignorant privileged meanie head
In all seriousness though I'm always a little surprised when I get called out in the UOs or FFFCs. Not because I don't deserve it sometimes but because it's usually when I least expect it. Like I can post something that I actually think is cring worthy and get zero response or have everyone just agree with me. Then I can say something simple like "I don't like the color red" and someone will blast me like "Wow, that's so messed up! What a horrible thing to say! Red can't help being red you know?!" And I'm like, wait, what?? Everyone hates me today?! That's not even what I meant to say!
But whatever, if it gets the conversation moving it's not all bad. Besides it happens to just about everyone once and awhile. Words get twisted a lot around here but I think part of that is in an attempt to make the conversation more juicy. I just hate it when I don't have time to participate on those days!
Mmm I was going to thank you for bringing everyone out to play ;-)
Based off yesterday's convo; I receive Wic I hate it. My goal is for my daughter to never remember being there. It's full of people screaming and parents shouting at their kids. It's the worst feeling in the world. But it helps. I'm hoping I can be off it before my next appointment in 2 months. *hangs head in shame
I'm glad that the shit is there to help people who just need a fucking pick me up. That's exactly what it was designed for. I get all ragey when I think about how WWF can't even get SS. FUCKING RIDIC
I know, I actually prefer it that way. Being a major player in one of our debates around her is generally good fun, even if I'm playing the "bad guy". Just saying, not everyone can handle it, which is why a lot of people disappear after they get flamed.
But I do see a difference in how some are treated in these threads. Like you said yesterday, you've never really been called out. But I feel like you have strong opinions and you go out of your way to get people all riled up sometimes and everyone's just cool with it. Not trying to knock you or anyone else for this, it's just an observation.
Actually, no. I didn't say I had never been called out. I said I have never been called privileged before, in the financial sense.
Also, I don't "go out of my way" to rile anyone. I'm just a no bullshit kind of person. I've been called out many a time about my opinions, and it is what it is.
OK, I guess I misread that. I thought it was odd but I read that in the middle of the night so I was a little out of it. In any case I didn't mean anything negative when I said you go out of your way to rile people up. I just meant that you're not afraid to stir the pot in an attempt to get things moving and make it more interesting around here. I don't see that as a bad thing at all. Strong opinions make for a more diverse conversation IMO.
As for being called privileged, I'd never been referred to like that (financially speaking) before yesterday either.
Awe, thanks! Glad someone doesn't think I'm an ignorant privileged meanie head
In all seriousness though I'm always a little surprised when I get called out in the UOs or FFFCs. Not because I don't deserve it sometimes but because it's usually when I least expect it. Like I can post something that I actually think is cring worthy and get zero response or have everyone just agree with me. Then I can say something simple like "I don't like the color red" and someone will blast me like "Wow, that's so messed up! What a horrible thing to say! Red can't help being red you know?!" And I'm like, wait, what?? Everyone hates me today?! That's not even what I meant to say!
But whatever, if it gets the conversation moving it's not all bad. Besides it happens to just about everyone once and awhile. Words get twisted a lot around here but I think part of that is in an attempt to make the conversation more juicy. I just hate it when I don't have time to participate on those days!
Mmm I was going to thank you for bringing everyone out to play ;-)
Haha, hey, no problem. Apparently I don't even have to try!
Actually, no. I didn't say I had never been called out. I said I have never been called privileged before, in the financial sense.
Also, I don't "go out of my way" to rile anyone. I'm just a no bullshit kind of person. I've been called out many a time about my opinions, and it is what it is.
OK, I guess I misread that. I thought it was odd but I read that in the middle of the night so I was a little out of it. In any case I didn't mean anything negative when I said you go out of your way to rile people up. I just meant that you're not afraid to stir the pot in an attempt to get things moving and make it more interesting around here. I don't see that as a bad thing at all. Strong opinions make for a more diverse conversation IMO.
As for being called privileged, I'd never been referred to like that (financially speaking) before yesterday either.
If you're referring to me calling you privileged, it was not meant in the financial sense.
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Are you kidding? This is nothing to be ashamed of!!
Eh, I know I shouldn't really be, because we need it. And we use it, not like we're selling it off. But you should see the looks I get in line when people see me pull me checks out. And the scoffs n shit. One time someone made a comment here or on td about a person who had a new iPhone or something and using Wic checks. I'm that fucking person. Because I haven't always been so broke, and my parents do ok and have bought me gifts for my birthday or whatever. But it's so shitty knowing you're being judged. I just want to be off of it so bad.
Also, they give you so much milk it's fucking wasteful. It's ONLY for me, not my h or ss. And I get 6 gallons of milk a month. What one person drinks 6 gallons of milk? I requested to get something in place of the excess milk and they said no. It's weird.
There are rules about it. Zero substitutions. You have to get exactly what is on the check.
I know it's easier said than done but give zero fucks. No one has walked in your shoes, they don't know your situation. Even if the person has a cell phone etc who gives a shit because it's for the kids. Not the parents. Kids shouldn't have to be hungry, ever. They have no control over finances etc.
My H is a good kisser sometimes. I think the thing that gets me is that we are so comfortable with each other, he wants to make out with like morning breath and shit. I don't like kissing when I can taste your nasty breath. That's when he is a bad kisser.
I mean. Should I just...let it go? Or. Should I TRY to tell him he's a bad kisser? I think I should let it go. I also think I should force myself to have sex more often, because I don't, mostly because I'm lazy. Once I'm started, I'm like "why don't we do this anymore?" I don't want to ONLY have sex when we want babies. I want to make a change. When I die, I won't say "I wish I would have taken more naps." I'll say "I wish I would have fucked more."
Post by mrsbabe614 on May 22, 2015 13:00:12 GMT -5
I don't know why people constantly use pnwlover12 and nicb13 saying they're abrasive and all that. I REALLY don't get that. At all. They call em as they see em. I guess if that's abrasive then you want sugar coating? I don't even think it's ever in a rude way either! A lot of shit they say is sarcastic as fuck and I guess if you read it that way you would laugh as much as I do!
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