Yes! It makes sense. And I don't think you're the sort of person to have him all around your kid if you weren't sure.
Actually, I DID move sort of fast with FPurp, if I am being honest, now that I think about it. He moved in after 4/5 months, but REALLY he was there all the time. And I told him I loved him really quickly. It was sort of the same thing--we had met before and were going back and forth online talking after meeting a few times, and then it all happened.
I fear you will be judged by people, and I'd normally be one of those people, but because I feel like I 'know' your story, I'm not.
I've definitely been judged but at this point I just don't give a fuck. I went through some traumatic shit and it's made me look at things differently. People have weird timelines for what they think is appropriate when it comes to grief (wait a year for ANYTHING is a big one), and I've just made the decision to not care.
Agree!! Not that I've ever had anything bad happen, but if you really think about it, you only have one life, so fucking LIVE it and don't give a shit what anyone thinks.
I'm pretty sure I already know what you want to ask. And, if I'm right, I wanted to talk about it today, but was kind of afraid to.
Spill it.
I'm leaving work in 10 minutes and I don't have tapatalk or whatever it is, so I won't be able to talk about it tonight. BUT, I actually wanted to talk about it on FB anyway.
I'm leaving work in 10 minutes and I don't have tapatalk or whatever it is, so I won't be able to talk about it tonight. BUT, I actually wanted to talk about it on FB anyway.
Do it girl. We may not always agree but you can always talk to us
I'm leaving work in 10 minutes and I don't have tapatalk or whatever it is, so I won't be able to talk about it tonight. BUT, I actually wanted to talk about it on FB anyway.
Do it girl. We may not always agree but you can always talk to us
If I have time later, I'll talk, but I'm guessing it will be a Monday topic.
What is the biggest baby-care related mistake you've ever made?
I've already admitted to this one in the past, but leaving N unattended on the couch at 3am when she was a newborn, supported by the boppy, while I was getting her bottle ready (I pumped/bottle fed at night when she was tiny bc it was faster)...and she fell off of the couch, and there was quite a bit of screaming. She calmed down and I never told DH (until recently).
Or maybe letting C become so used to sleeping in our bed that now when her head hits the crib she goes "hell no, this isn't a tempurpedic".
Yes! It makes sense. And I don't think you're the sort of person to have him all around your kid if you weren't sure.
Actually, I DID move sort of fast with FPurp, if I am being honest, now that I think about it. He moved in after 4/5 months, but REALLY he was there all the time. And I told him I loved him really quickly. It was sort of the same thing--we had met before and were going back and forth online talking after meeting a few times, and then it all happened.
I fear you will be judged by people, and I'd normally be one of those people, but because I feel like I 'know' your story, I'm not.
I've definitely been judged but at this point I just don't give a fuck. I went through some traumatic shit and it's made me look at things differently. People have weird timelines for what they think is appropriate when it comes to grief (wait a year for ANYTHING is a big one), and I've just made the decision to not care.
I mean, wait a year for anything MAJOR I think is a good idea. I wouldn't, like, quit my job and move to Europe. But you aren't running off to Vegas, either. You guys are being open with each other, and I don't think you should have to apologize that you aren't on some timeline. I just wondered if YOU thought it, and if you've been given a hard time by anyone.
I've definitely been judged but at this point I just don't give a fuck. I went through some traumatic shit and it's made me look at things differently. People have weird timelines for what they think is appropriate when it comes to grief (wait a year for ANYTHING is a big one), and I've just made the decision to not care.
I mean, wait a year for anything MAJOR I think is a good idea. I wouldn't, like, quit my job and move to Europe. But you aren't running off to Vegas, either. You guys are being open with each other, and I don't think you should have to apologize that you aren't on some timeline. I just wondered if YOU thought it, and if you've been given a hard time by anyone.
Oh yes. I've given it maybe too much thought. The only person who gave me any kind of hassle was MIL and we all know how I feel about her opinions.
I've definitely been judged but at this point I just don't give a fuck. I went through some traumatic shit and it's made me look at things differently. People have weird timelines for what they think is appropriate when it comes to grief (wait a year for ANYTHING is a big one), and I've just made the decision to not care.
I mean, wait a year for anything MAJOR I think is a good idea. I wouldn't, like, quit my job and move to Europe. But you aren't running off to Vegas, either. You guys are being open with each other, and I don't think you should have to apologize that you aren't on some timeline. I just wondered if YOU thought it, and if you've been given a hard time by anyone.
But you aren't running off to Vegas
... Although if you want to visit Vegas, that's ok too
No one ever came through on a date for me. This is lame-o!
Choose something from the kitchen (marshmallows would be perfect) stick as many as you can in your mouth and tell us the number. Oh yeah... picture proof :-P
No one ever came through on a date for me. This is lame-o!
Choose something from the kitchen (marshmallows would be perfect) stick as many as you can in your mouth and tell us the number. Oh yeah... picture proof :-P
Any update kfitz? There is dick on tv so you guys are my entertainment. Where is Jennifer18131? Isn't she drinking and playing with us?
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