Tuesday Suck Fest

[sweetsurprise]

Jun 9, 2015 12:53:31 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

So our AC has been lagging lately. Somehow between this summer and last summer we need MORE FREON? HOW?! Then he said it's full of cotton.

Really H? You didn't see that there was fucking cotton COATING the unit?! Good God man. Sometimes I think I need to just stay at home because there's so much shit to do at home that never gets done because I'm the only person who has "time" to do anything. It's really frustrating.

You mean your H isn't going to make a DIY AC?! So disappointing.

[meagpt22]

TP to all husbands today!

[keelyd]

Not sure what to think right now:
My phone just gave me an update that H's phone just signed in (it's been off since last month), so I texted and called him to see if he'd been released but got no response.
I checked find iPhone and it showed his phone as online and about 20 min east of jail (where he has 0 connections), and the jail register shows him as still registered (not released). He's not actually even scheduled to be released until 7/17.
I'm thinking I need to call jail to find out what's really going on, especially since the phone is still on my account. I can't imagine how anyone would have gotten his phone... all seems very odd.

ETA: the phone promptly went offline after I texted and called.

[apk4]

Jun 9, 2015 14:33:55 GMT -5 keelyd said:

Not sure what to think right now:
My phone just gave me an update that H's phone just signed in (it's been off since last month), so I texted and called him to see if he'd been released but got no response.
I checked find iPhone and it showed his phone as online and about 20 min east of jail (where he has 0 connections), and the jail register shows him as still registered (not released). He's not actually even scheduled to be released until 7/17.
I'm thinking I need to call jail to find out what's really going on, especially since the phone is still on my account. I can't imagine how anyone would have gotten his phone... all seems very odd.

ETA: the phone promptly went offline after I texted and called.

That is weird. I would call the jail to see what is going on.

[MrsTinMKE]

Jun 9, 2015 14:25:26 GMT -5 meagpt22 said:

TP to all husbands today!

haha can I join in on this one .... Two nights ago H went to feed DD at 4AM. He picked her up and she was soaked. Her diaper leaked BAD. She needed a complete change. I had to go help him, he didn't know what to do!  Then later that day I asked him to feed DD some purees so I could wash the dishes. He said he would wash the dishes and I could feed the baby because he didn't know how, he hasn't done it yet! I said all the more reason you should do it now! I love my H and he was really hands on at first and I feel like he has really thrown his hands up in the air lately. 

[keelyd]

Jun 9, 2015 14:38:12 GMT -5 apk4 said:

Jun 9, 2015 14:33:55 GMT -5 keelyd said:

Not sure what to think right now:
My phone just gave me an update that H's phone just signed in (it's been off since last month), so I texted and called him to see if he'd been released but got no response.
I checked find iPhone and it showed his phone as online and about 20 min east of jail (where he has 0 connections), and the jail register shows him as still registered (not released). He's not actually even scheduled to be released until 7/17.
I'm thinking I need to call jail to find out what's really going on, especially since the phone is still on my account. I can't imagine how anyone would have gotten his phone... all seems very odd.

ETA: the phone promptly went offline after I texted and called.

That is weird. I would call the jail to see what is going on.

That's what I'm thinking -- especially since I got a letter from him a few days ago and he really seems more clear headed.  I assume he'd answer calls from me so that he could arrange a visit with DS.

[sweetsurprise]

Jun 9, 2015 14:38:10 GMT -5 MrsTinMKE said:

Jun 9, 2015 14:25:26 GMT -5 meagpt22 said:

TP to all husbands today!

haha can I join in on this one .... Two nights ago H went to feed DD at 4AM. He picked her up and she was soaked. Her diaper leaked BAD. She needed a complete change. I had to go help him, he didn't know what to do!  Then later that day I asked him to feed DD some purees so I could wash the dishes. He said he would wash the dishes and I could feed the baby because he didn't know how, he hasn't done it yet! I said all the more reason you should do it now! I love my H and he was really hands on at first and I feel like he has really thrown his hands up in the air lately. 

I want to join the TP train too. H arrived home last night and DS woke up after he had already been asleep at around 10 pm crying. H asks me 'what did you do while I was gone? M was sleeping through the night before. What did you do to mess it up?' ...wow. No, dummy, I did not eff up our kid while you were gone. Thanks for the vote of confidence and lack of appreciation for taking care of him by myself for four days during sleep training.

[keelyd]

Jun 9, 2015 14:43:31 GMT -5 sweetsurprise said:

Jun 9, 2015 14:38:10 GMT -5 MrsTinMKE said:

haha can I join in on this one .... Two nights ago H went to feed DD at 4AM. He picked her up and she was soaked. Her diaper leaked BAD. She needed a complete change. I had to go help him, he didn't know what to do!  Then later that day I asked him to feed DD some purees so I could wash the dishes. He said he would wash the dishes and I could feed the baby because he didn't know how, he hasn't done it yet! I said all the more reason you should do it now! I love my H and he was really hands on at first and I feel like he has really thrown his hands up in the air lately. 

I want to join the TP train too. H arrived home last night and DS woke up after he had already been asleep at around 10 pm crying. H asks me 'what did you do while I was gone? M was sleeping through the night before. What did you do to mess it up?' ...wow. No, dummy, I did not eff up our kid while you were gone. Thanks for the vote of confidence and lack of appreciation for taking care of him by myself for four days during sleep training.

WTF?  DP to him.

[mrsbabe614]

Jun 9, 2015 13:32:28 GMT -5 nicb13 said:

Jun 9, 2015 13:08:19 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

exactly. I chewed his ass last week because he was bitching about how tired he was and I'm like dude I am exhausted too. He's like well it wouldn't be so bad if I didn't work 12 hour days. I call bullshit. Because I NEVER stop working. He didn't say shit for a while after that. I don't really know what to do about it. No one has time for this home shit...

I snapped at DH this morning because he was being an ass and later he texted me while I was at work and said "I'm not trying to criticize, but you need to start getting more sleep because you are always tired, have no energy and you haven't been working out which always makes you feel better".

My response? "Um, cool, help find me time to get more sleep and work out. I'd LOVE to".

Dick.

I'd punt his head. I feel like we have the exact conversations. Are men really that clueless to everything it takes to keep everyone's lives running

[mrsbabe614]

Jun 9, 2015 14:33:55 GMT -5 keelyd said:

Not sure what to think right now:
My phone just gave me an update that H's phone just signed in (it's been off since last month), so I texted and called him to see if he'd been released but got no response.
I checked find iPhone and it showed his phone as online and about 20 min east of jail (where he has 0 connections), and the jail register shows him as still registered (not released). He's not actually even scheduled to be released until 7/17.
I'm thinking I need to call jail to find out what's really going on, especially since the phone is still on my account. I can't imagine how anyone would have gotten his phone... all seems very odd.

ETA: the phone promptly went offline after I texted and called.

sounds like a nosy nelly at the prison...

[mrsbabe614]

Jun 9, 2015 14:38:10 GMT -5 MrsTinMKE said:

Jun 9, 2015 14:25:26 GMT -5 meagpt22 said:

TP to all husbands today!

haha can I join in on this one .... Two nights ago H went to feed DD at 4AM. He picked her up and she was soaked. Her diaper leaked BAD. She needed a complete change. I had to go help him, he didn't know what to do!  Then later that day I asked him to feed DD some purees so I could wash the dishes. He said he would wash the dishes and I could feed the baby because he didn't know how, he hasn't done it yet! I said all the more reason you should do it now! I love my H and he was really hands on at first and I feel like he has really thrown his hands up in the air lately. 

Mine also NEVER feeds her. Just bottles. 

[mrsbabe614]

I feel like men walk around like this 24/7

You mean...this dinner didn't make itself?
I thought the floor also cleaned itself?
Why would you ever have to clean a toilet?
What do you mean I have to put another roll on the toilet paper holder?

[keelyd]

Jun 9, 2015 15:13:54 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

Jun 9, 2015 14:33:55 GMT -5 keelyd said:

Not sure what to think right now:
My phone just gave me an update that H's phone just signed in (it's been off since last month), so I texted and called him to see if he'd been released but got no response.
I checked find iPhone and it showed his phone as online and about 20 min east of jail (where he has 0 connections), and the jail register shows him as still registered (not released). He's not actually even scheduled to be released until 7/17.
I'm thinking I need to call jail to find out what's really going on, especially since the phone is still on my account. I can't imagine how anyone would have gotten his phone... all seems very odd.

ETA: the phone promptly went offline after I texted and called.

sounds like a nosy nelly at the prison...

i just can't figure out how anyone else would get his stuff and how it would be so far from the jail.

[mrsbabe614]

Jun 9, 2015 15:31:35 GMT -5 keelyd said:

Jun 9, 2015 15:13:54 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

sounds like a nosy nelly at the prison...

i just can't figure out how anyone else would get his stuff and how it would be so far from the jail.

Yeah because someone who works there took it.  

[nicb13]

Jun 9, 2015 15:24:01 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

I feel like men walk around like this 24/7

You mean...this dinner didn't make itself?
I thought the floor also cleaned itself?
Why would you ever have to clean a toilet?
What do you mean I have to put another roll on the toilet paper holder?

Totally. DH is all "how are my kids still alive?" Oh, that's right, ME!

[mrsbabe614]

andplusalso my H is obsessing with this house that's out in the boonies. #1 it's fucking expensive. #2 what the fuck are you going to do with all this land?! You don't mow the 1 tiny plot we have now. Oh, you want horses? Who the fuck has time to take care of horses? I know jack shit about horses.

[mrsbabe614]

Jun 9, 2015 15:36:59 GMT -5 nicb13 said:

Jun 9, 2015 15:24:01 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

I feel like men walk around like this 24/7

You mean...this dinner didn't make itself?
I thought the floor also cleaned itself?
Why would you ever have to clean a toilet?
What do you mean I have to put another roll on the toilet paper holder?

Totally. DH is all "how are my kids still alive?" Oh, that's right, ME!

so you're saying they DON'T come out self sufficient??

[keelyd]

Jun 9, 2015 15:35:17 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

Jun 9, 2015 15:31:35 GMT -5 keelyd said:

i just can't figure out how anyone else would get his stuff and how it would be so far from the jail.

Yeah because someone who works there took it.  

You're probably right -- which is super shitty.  I need to call as soon as school is out.  I still owe $ on that phone and I'm not okay with it being stolen by a f*ing county employee.

[lrobi13]

Jun 9, 2015 15:24:01 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

I feel like men walk around like this 24/7

You mean...this dinner didn't make itself?
I thought the floor also cleaned itself?
Why would you ever have to clean a toilet?
What do you mean I have to put another roll on the toilet paper holder?

Oh my DH will do it but the wrong way.  It drives me bonkers.  I'm an over person so put it over in my bathroom please.  Oh and he caught me doing the ab exercises last night.  I hate when he catches me "working out" and he knows this.  He proceeds to call sexy.  I guess he was being sweet but let's face facts here.  Me doing ab exercises is about as far away from being sexy as it gets.

I just ate a big ole pack of oreos from the vending machine.  It was the best.

The daycare ladies side-eyed the hell out of me when I dropped the baby off.  I was all like "um, he is in the same bib from 7am so clearly he is fine"

I think we are all equally unhappy with each other today...

Sorry my kid is being a big ole whiney butt.  Too bad that is not grounds to be sent home.  Deal with it because that is what you are paid to do.  Besides being a stage 5 clinger there is nothing wrong with him.

[mrsbabe614]

Jun 9, 2015 15:54:52 GMT -5 lrobi13 said:

Jun 9, 2015 15:24:01 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

I feel like men walk around like this 24/7

You mean...this dinner didn't make itself?
I thought the floor also cleaned itself?
Why would you ever have to clean a toilet?
What do you mean I have to put another roll on the toilet paper holder?

Oh my DH will do it but the wrong way.  It drives me bonkers.  I'm an over person so put it over in my bathroom please.  Oh and he caught me doing the ab exercises last night.  I hate when he catches me "working out" and he knows this.  He proceeds to call sexy.  I guess he was being sweet but let's face facts here.  Me doing ab exercises is about as far away from being sexy as it gets.

I just ate a big ole pack of oreos from the vending machine.  It was the best.

The daycare ladies side-eyed the hell out of me when I dropped the baby off.  I was all like "um, he is in the same bib from 7am so clearly he is fine"

I think we are all equally unhappy with each other today...

Sorry my kid is being a big ole whiney butt.  Too bad that is not grounds to be sent home.  Deal with it because that is what you are paid to do.  Besides being a stage 5 clinger there is nothing wrong with him.

Yeah if my kid got sent home for all of those indicators I would have to quit my job. Lol

[mrsbabe614]

Jun 9, 2015 15:52:22 GMT -5 keelyd said:

Jun 9, 2015 15:35:17 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

Yeah because someone who works there took it.  

You're probably right -- which is super shitty.  I need to call as soon as school is out.  I still owe $ on that phone and I'm not okay with it being stolen by a f*ing county employee.

It is really shitty but I think that's why people say you shouldn't take anything of value with you. It's liable to "walk off"

[nicb13]

Jun 9, 2015 15:58:46 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

Jun 9, 2015 15:52:22 GMT -5 keelyd said:

You're probably right -- which is super shitty.  I need to call as soon as school is out.  I still owe $ on that phone and I'm not okay with it being stolen by a f*ing county employee.

It is really shitty but I think that's why people say you shouldn't take anything of value with you. It's liable to "walk off"

How could he have a cell phone in jail???

[mrsbabe614]

Jun 9, 2015 16:00:46 GMT -5 nicb13 said:

Jun 9, 2015 15:58:46 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

It is really shitty but I think that's why people say you shouldn't take anything of value with you. It's liable to "walk off"

How could he have a cell phone in jail???

he checked it before he was processed...I'm assuming...

[jeniece47]

Jun 9, 2015 15:12:40 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

Jun 9, 2015 13:32:28 GMT -5 nicb13 said:

I snapped at DH this morning because he was being an ass and later he texted me while I was at work and said "I'm not trying to criticize, but you need to start getting more sleep because you are always tired, have no energy and you haven't been working out which always makes you feel better".

My response? "Um, cool, help find me time to get more sleep and work out. I'd LOVE to".

Dick.

I'd punt his head. I feel like we have the exact conversations. Are men really that clueless to everything it takes to keep everyone's lives running

I'm late to this but yes they are really that clueless.

[kellrr]

Jun 9, 2015 15:12:40 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

Jun 9, 2015 13:32:28 GMT -5 nicb13 said:

I snapped at DH this morning because he was being an ass and later he texted me while I was at work and said "I'm not trying to criticize, but you need to start getting more sleep because you are always tired, have no energy and you haven't been working out which always makes you feel better".

My response? "Um, cool, help find me time to get more sleep and work out. I'd LOVE to".

Dick.

I'd punt his head. I feel like we have the exact conversations. Are men really that clueless to everything it takes to keep everyone's lives running

Yes. They are that clueless.

[mrsbabe614]

I was just remembering that initial rush you get when you meet your baby for the first time. Then I told my UTE NOPE NOPE NOPE

[keelyd]

Jun 9, 2015 15:58:46 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

Jun 9, 2015 15:52:22 GMT -5 keelyd said:

You're probably right -- which is super shitty.  I need to call as soon as school is out.  I still owe $ on that phone and I'm not okay with it being stolen by a f*ing county employee.

It is really shitty but I think that's why people say you shouldn't take anything of value with you. It's liable to "walk off"

How the hell would it walk off is my question?  Aren't possessions like that (including wallets) held in a secure location until release?

[lrobi13]

Jun 9, 2015 16:35:19 GMT -5 keelyd said:

Jun 9, 2015 15:58:46 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

It is really shitty but I think that's why people say you shouldn't take anything of value with you. It's liable to "walk off"

How the hell would it walk off is my question?  Aren't possessions like that (including wallets) held in a secure location until release?

That is a great question.  Many jobs at jails are low paying so they don't always attract the best employees.  Therefore some thing walk off.  Nursing homes are bad about that too.  DH's grandmother can't have anything nice or it will get stolen

[mrsc22]

Hello, not caught up but I see above it is TP DH day? So TP whoever is misbehaving.

Training is going well, but missing DD like crazy. Best part of the trip will be the notches meetup tomorrow with lrobi13 and jennifer##Timberlake###

I can't wait!

[nicb13]

Jun 9, 2015 16:29:41 GMT -5 mrsbabe614 said:

I was just remembering that initial rush you get when you meet your baby for the first time. Then I told my UTE NOPE NOPE NOPE

I told H over the weekend that I wanted another baby and he goes "ARE YOU FUCKING INSANE?! THAT WILL NEVER EVER HAPPEN!"