HUMP DAY
Jun 17, 2015 12:55:41 GMT -5
Post by MrsTinMKE on Jun 17, 2015 12:55:41 GMT -5
I'm here.
mrsbabe614, SO happy that it well for you and you will be getting more time with your family.
sweetsurprise Your story breaks my heart. Hopefully the butt patting will work. My lo does pretty good with it.
geetargirl05, I worked at the Y (part-time) while in high school and college. The membership was free! I was so skinny and tan. Oh the perks of youth.
jellykat2, good luck at the interview.
I am still upset. I actually yelled at DH last night. I have never done that before.
LO has had a nasty rash on his junk. Last night after his bath he reached done and scratched it and it started to bleed. Which bothered and upset me.
So I asked DH (who has yet another plague) to come in the bathroom and hold lo's hands so I could blot the blood with some tp and put the cream and diaper on him.
He came in there but wouldn't hold lo's hands because "it is not that difficult to put on a diaper"
NO FUCKING shit asshole. Did it occur to you that I was upset about the state of my son's business and wanted so support.
He was all like I don't feel good.
So I yelled at him and reminded him that I too do not feel good not to mention PMS and lack of good sleep. I told him that he should just stay home because honestly I don't want to deal with his negative attitude on our Disney/ my brother's wedding trip.
I feel like I am overreacting but his comments like that are a hot button for me. And I just told him on Saturday and Sunday that they make me feel like shit. Which enraged me all the more since we had just talked about this shit. He said he was sorry and I said that he wasn't because if he really was then we would be having the same fight in the same week.
I told him that if I wanted to be a single mom I wouldn't have married him. Seriously, if I could afford it I would be tempted to do a trial separation. He just doesn't get it even when I calmly explain it to him.
Sorry for the novel but I am still just so hurt and angry. And his mom is emailing me all cheery this morning and all I really want to say to her is thanks for raising an asshole.
I don't know that I have any good advice, because I think I struggle with the same thing here. Men (as we have discussed) Just do not get it. I'm really sorry you are going through this and I hope he gets it together.
I don't think you are overreacting at all. I think there comes a time where we all hit our breaking points. H and I do not yell at each other and I finally snapped on him Sunday night as well. You can only bend so far before you break. Big hugs, I hope he takes what you said seriously and starts to step it up