I had a dream about DH and we were back in high school and I attached myself to him and wouldn't let go and dream DH was like wtf who are you because we weren't friends in high school and I knew he was going to die and he didn't know and now my day is ruined and I'm supposed to go out with D and the baby and I don't wanna.
This is a confession because I feel terrible about it affecting me like this and I never tell D about my dreams about DH.
Don't feel bad for how it's affecting you. You don't have to be stoic to these things now, or ever. I feel like you've moved so far since it happened that it makes you feel worse when you become emotional about it. But your feelings are valid, and they're normal.
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I had a dream about DH and we were back in high school and I attached myself to him and wouldn't let go and dream DH was like wtf who are you because we weren't friends in high school and I knew he was going to die and he didn't know and now my day is ruined and I'm supposed to go out with D and the baby and I don't wanna.
This is a confession because I feel terrible about it affecting me like this and I never tell D about my dreams about DH.
Sigh. I'm so sorry windgirl. I hate that you have to go through that.
I had a dream about DH and we were back in high school and I attached myself to him and wouldn't let go and dream DH was like wtf who are you because we weren't friends in high school and I knew he was going to die and he didn't know and now my day is ruined and I'm supposed to go out with D and the baby and I don't wanna.
This is a confession because I feel terrible about it affecting me like this and I never tell D about my dreams about DH.
Love you wins girl. Huge hugs. Can you talk with d about any of this?
I have dreams about my mom still (she passed over 10 years ago). I grab her and tell her not to leave and always wake up so sad. Not that that is at all the same as what you are going through but just to say that I'm sorry. It sucks.
The touching the car idea is great! He is almost 2.5 and listening way better and I think he would do this. I mean I've messed up once and need to reassess. I was stunned he told me.
I had a dream about DH and we were back in high school and I attached myself to him and wouldn't let go and dream DH was like wtf who are you because we weren't friends in high school and I knew he was going to die and he didn't know and now my day is ruined and I'm supposed to go out with D and the baby and I don't wanna.
This is a confession because I feel terrible about it affecting me like this and I never tell D about my dreams about DH.
Don't feel bad for how it's affecting you. You don't have to be stoic to these things now, or ever. I feel like you've moved so far since it happened that it makes you feel worse when you become emotional about it. But your feelings are valid, and they're normal.
Post by windwithfingers on Jul 10, 2015 9:08:16 GMT -5
Don't ever feel like you can't compare your grief to mine! That goes for any of you. I'm not playing the grief Olympics. It helps to know people can relate in any way.
I had a dream about DH and we were back in high school and I attached myself to him and wouldn't let go and dream DH was like wtf who are you because we weren't friends in high school and I knew he was going to die and he didn't know and now my day is ruined and I'm supposed to go out with D and the baby and I don't wanna.
This is a confession because I feel terrible about it affecting me like this and I never tell D about my dreams about DH.
Love you wins girl. Huge hugs. Can you talk with d about any of this?
I have dreams about my mom still (she passed over 10 years ago). I grab her and tell her not to leave and always wake up so sad. Not that that is at all the same as what you are going through but just to say that I'm sorry. It sucks.
I can and have talked to D about DH a lot and my grief and when I'm having bad days but I know he doesn't know what to say so he feels awkward. So I just tell you guys.
I sometimes think about coming back here, but kellrr drives me so batshit crazy that I usually decide not to.
Damn. I heart you and am genuinely glad you're back around but that's a pretty mean entrance to come back to the board.
It's not mean. She makes me crazy. She likes to stir stuff up and then never come back. She wants "discussion" but she won't stay in any place long enough to have one. There's no point in trying to interact because she doesn't. She just throws out inflaming comments on these threads and runs away. That isn't conversation.
Love you wins girl. Huge hugs. Can you talk with d about any of this?
I have dreams about my mom still (she passed over 10 years ago). I grab her and tell her not to leave and always wake up so sad. Not that that is at all the same as what you are going through but just to say that I'm sorry. It sucks.
I can and have talked to D about DH a lot and my grief and when I'm having bad days but I know he doesn't know what to say so he feels awkward. So I just tell you guys.
This is true in most scenarios. MH isn't super good at talking about grief - he's still processing so much more than I am. So I can't talk to him about most of my issues.
Love you wins girl. Huge hugs. Can you talk with d about any of this?
I have dreams about my mom still (she passed over 10 years ago). I grab her and tell her not to leave and always wake up so sad. Not that that is at all the same as what you are going through but just to say that I'm sorry. It sucks.
I can and have talked to D about DH a lot and my grief and when I'm having bad days but I know he doesn't know what to say so he feels awkward. So I just tell you guys.
Well since I'm here, I have one. Ever since getting KO my boobs/chest have been very vein-y. I'm fair-skinned to begin with and hormones being hormones and all. In the hospital, one of the LC's took note of this, and told me that it was a good thing because it can be a sign of a good supply. This really stuck with me, and for whatever reason, it makes me super proud of my very vein-y boobs. Like I actually think they're BA and I want to show them off. I think it's probably because I am not voluptuous in any way and something about the veins and good supply just make me feel very womanly. I don't know what DH thinks about it but I guess all the added confidence can't be a bad thing.
Anyway hi. I'm erawka and I'm proud of my weird boobs.
Damn. I heart you and am genuinely glad you're back around but that's a pretty mean entrance to come back to the board.
It's not mean. She makes me crazy. She likes to stir stuff up and then never come back. She wants "discussion" but she won't stay in any place long enough to have one. There's no point in trying to interact because she doesn't. She just throws out inflaming comments on these threads and runs away. That isn't conversation.
Really? I was in here all day yesterday. And like all of you, I'm chasing a baby, so it takes a lot to park in front of PB just to insta-respond to all the comments. I've never run away.
It's not mean. She makes me crazy. She likes to stir stuff up and then never come back. She wants "discussion" but she won't stay in any place long enough to have one. There's no point in trying to interact because she doesn't. She just throws out inflaming comments on these threads and runs away. That isn't conversation.
Really? I was in here all day yesterday. And like all of you, I'm chasing a baby, so it takes a lot to park in front of PB just to insta-respond to all the comments. I've never run away.
Really? I was in here all day yesterday. And like all of you, I'm chasing a baby, so it takes a lot to park in front of PB just to insta-respond to all the comments. I've never run away.
I had a dream about DH and we were back in high school and I attached myself to him and wouldn't let go and dream DH was like wtf who are you because we weren't friends in high school and I knew he was going to die and he didn't know and now my day is ruined and I'm supposed to go out with D and the baby and I don't wanna.
This is a confession because I feel terrible about it affecting me like this and I never tell D about my dreams about DH.
It's ok that it affected you though, you're only human. ((Hugs))
The touching the car idea is great! He is almost 2.5 and listening way better and I think he would do this. I mean I've messed up once and need to reassess. I was stunned he told me.
We practiced at home a lot in the driveway before putting it into action out in public
I asked him, and he was like, "Whatever. I mean, it's not pee, right?" I don't know if that means, "Really, whatever" or "Yes, do it, but I'm too shy to say so."
It actually is pee, according to an I Fucking Love Science article I read.
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