Perhaps a pot calling a kettle black because I've been flamed here, but her situation and mine could not possibly be more different. Feel free to scroll back and read my reply to bunny's post.
*Also a dirty lurker*
The situations in which you got KU might be very different, but you have both made mistakes and tried to come back from them. Granted, she has made quite a few and I am by no means defending her, I would just think someone such as yourself who didn't have a completely clean slate and had benefited from the forgiving nature of GKU might be a little less quick to judge and flame.
This particular thing, on this particular board, really shocked me. I thought long and hard about whether or not to post a BFP here. And, initially, I decided not to, but I felt crummy jumping into a BMB without saying anything here. So I thought long and hard about how to post it here. And I decided to put it in a TWW as unobtrusively as possible. This post just really rubbed me the wrong way.
The situations in which you got KU might be very different, but you have both made mistakes and tried to come back from them. Granted, she has made quite a few and I am by no means defending her, I would just think someone such as yourself who didn't have a completely clean slate and had benefited from the forgiving nature of GKU might be a little less quick to judge and flame.
This particular thing, on this particular board, really shocked me. I thought long and hard about whether or not to post a BFP here. And, initially, I decided not to, but I felt crummy jumping into a BMB without saying anything here. So I thought long and hard about how to post it here. And I decided to put it in a TWW as unobtrusively as possible. This post just really rubbed me the wrong way.
And you're being a complete and total cunt to Ruther. If you were going to talk shit about her, you could have at least been a grown up and tagged her. You are the one person here who was probably as disliked as she was, honestly. She did something stupid again today but she apologized and doesn't deserve to be alienated or Mean Girls ganged up on. Be grown ups and say shit directly to her or ignore her if you want. But don't do this childish lets talk about her secretly/not secretly on the BMB she'd potentially be a part of. Especially you of all people. For fuck's sake.
Post by frankenboom on Jul 15, 2015 17:39:17 GMT -5
PS MLG in case you or others don't remember, you posted some dumb as fuck "accidentally" racist shit, too. So please don't act like you're soooooooooo different from Ruther. Holy shit man.
The situations in which you got KU might be very different, but you have both made mistakes and tried to come back from them. Granted, she has made quite a few and I am by no means defending her, I would just think someone such as yourself who didn't have a completely clean slate and had benefited from the forgiving nature of GKU might be a little less quick to judge and flame.
This particular thing, on this particular board, really shocked me. I thought long and hard about whether or not to post a BFP here. And, initially, I decided not to, but I felt crummy jumping into a BMB without saying anything here. So I thought long and hard about how to post it here. And I decided to put it in a TWW as unobtrusively as possible. This post just really rubbed me the wrong way.
I know GKU would have been totally bummed if you hadn't said bye to us. Ya know, because you'd been back like a whole day & all.
Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
Because I'm curious - and lurk like a motherfucker (hai M16!) - how did your husband take the shock, @rutherily?
He isn't convinced yet honestly. He handed the test back to me and said that he couldn't see a line. However I explained everything said on here to him and he seems like it's something he will be able to come to terms with. It just might take him a lot longer than me.
ETA: I totally posted this before I realized what was happening around me.
The situations in which you got KU might be very different, but you have both made mistakes and tried to come back from them. Granted, she has made quite a few and I am by no means defending her, I would just think someone such as yourself who didn't have a completely clean slate and had benefited from the forgiving nature of GKU might be a little less quick to judge and flame.
This particular thing, on this particular board, really shocked me. I thought long and hard about whether or not to post a BFP here. And, initially, I decided not to, but I felt crummy jumping into a BMB without saying anything here. So I thought long and hard about how to post it here. And I decided to put it in a TWW as unobtrusively as possible. This post just really rubbed me the wrong way.
What particular thing on this particular board, might I ask, rubbed you the wrong way? Are call outs not allowed on M16? I didn't say anything about your BFP post, anything from the TWW, or anything else.
My point was simply that you made your fair share of mistakes on GKU (anyone remember the "what race are you" poll?), asked for forgiveness, received it, and attempted to move on. Rutherily might have a few more mistakes under her belt at this point, but I guess I'd have thought given your history of posting things that don't come across as you intend, you wouldn't be the one to jump all in her shit on not just one, but two boards.
The situations in which you got KU might be very different, but you have both made mistakes and tried to come back from them. Granted, she has made quite a few and I am by no means defending her, I would just think someone such as yourself who didn't have a completely clean slate and had benefited from the forgiving nature of GKU might be a little less quick to judge and flame.
This particular thing, on this particular board, really shocked me. I thought long and hard about whether or not to post a BFP here. And, initially, I decided not to, but I felt crummy jumping into a BMB without saying anything here. So I thought long and hard about how to post it here. And I decided to put it in a TWW as unobtrusively as possible. This post just really rubbed me the wrong way.
Most of what you say rubs everyone else the wrong way.
Just don't come to this BMB acting like you're some kind of fucking saint and flaming Ruther before she even gets to intro over here. It's BS.
Post by DanaScullyX on Jul 15, 2015 18:21:41 GMT -5
Seriously, this thread is fucked up. I go here, but haven't introed because I'm waiting for my latest betas. You coming over here to start shit was beyond asshole-level mlgnumbers. Your post in the TWW was a desperate cry for attention. No one needed to know, since it's not like you were a regular poster. You and Rutherily are on the same level for many people, so you should tread lightly as well.
Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
PS MLG in case you or others don't remember, you posted some dumb as fuck "accidentally" racist shit, too. So please don't act like you're soooooooooo different from Ruther. Holy shit man.
But guise, she was just doing a totally legit, anthropological poll to learn about our cultural heritages....
PS MLG in case you or others don't remember, you posted some dumb as fuck "accidentally" racist shit, too. So please don't act like you're soooooooooo different from Ruther. Holy shit man.
But guise, she was just doing a totally legit, anthropological poll to learn about our cultural heritages....
God guise. Even though this was something that hurt a lot of people on/from GKU, she apologized and is trying to make a fresh start on her bmb. We should just let her acclimate and start fresh. Oh wait... She doesn't believe in that kind of thing.
This particular thing, on this particular board, really shocked me. I thought long and hard about whether or not to post a BFP here. And, initially, I decided not to, but I felt crummy jumping into a BMB without saying anything here. So I thought long and hard about how to post it here. And I decided to put it in a TWW as unobtrusively as possible. This post just really rubbed me the wrong way.
What particular thing on this particular board, might I ask, rubbed you the wrong way? Are call outs not allowed on M16? I didn't say anything about your BFP post, anything from the TWW, or anything else.
My point was simply that you made your fair share of mistakes on GKU (anyone remember the "what race are you" poll?), asked for forgiveness, received it, and attempted to move on. Rutherily might have a few more mistakes under her belt at this point, but I guess I'd have thought given your history of posting things that don't come across as you intend, you wouldn't be the one to jump all in her shit on not just one, but two boards.
This was my mistake. I was responding while mobile, and I assumed a response from you was on GKU. I should have said "That particular thing, on that particular board..." And I was refering to @rutherily's "Am I Pregnant/Oops! I'm Pregnant" post on GKU.
And I'm not acting like a saint...I posted in another thread on this board today that I wasn't particularly liked by everyone on GKU. I realize that @rutherily and I may be on the same "accidentally racist" post-it and that we've both made mistakes and relied on forgiveness. The difference today (for me, besides hormones and a disappointing beta result) is that I literally just went through the thought process of whether or not to post a BFP on GKU, and it NEVER crossed my mind to post *anything* about it on the front page. I figured someone in my boat, someone who has been warned and flamed and cautioned and advised just like I have, could not possibly accidentally do something that insensitive. And that energy is coming to this BMB.
I've seen plenty of WTF-worthy things cross-posted on these boards. And this particular one directly affects this BMB.
If I'm legitimately being *more* harsh to @rutherily than you guys have been to me or others in the past, then I truly need to apologize. No one deserves that. Please see post below.
Post by mlgnumbers on Jul 15, 2015 19:50:30 GMT -5
@rutherily, I apologize for being so harsh with you today. There's no excuse. Your post angered me, and I responded in anger. I don't condone that behavior. Now that I've had time to process your announcement (and obviously had others force me to take a second look at my actions), I realize that you're probably in your own crazy mess of emotions and my actions today certainly didn't help. I'm sorry for that. Everyone deserves to welcome a BFP with joy and celebration, and that has been taken from you today. I was a participant in that action, and I can't take it back. But I do promise to give you another chance here. I hope you'll give me another chance, as well.
Best of luck to you and YH as you guys navigate this change in plans and manage pregnancy and a newborn while gaining an education. It's not easy, but it's a road DH and I have walked in the past. Perhaps I'll be able to support you when it gets hard. Congratulations on your BFP. I truly wish you a healthy, uneventful 9 mos.
@rutherily, I apologize for being so harsh with you today. There's no excuse. Your post angered me, and I responded in anger. I don't condone that behavior. Now that I've had time to process your announcement (and obviously had others force me to take a second look at my actions), I realize that you're probably in your own crazy mess of emotions and my actions today certainly didn't help. I'm sorry for that. Everyone deserves to welcome a BFP with joy and celebration, and that has been taken from you today. I was a participant in that action, and I can't take it back. But I do promise to give you another chance here. I hope you'll give me another chance, as well.
Best of luck to you and YH as you guys navigate this change in plans and manage pregnancy and a newborn while gaining an education. It's not easy, but it's a road DH and I have walked in the past. Perhaps I'll be able to support you when it gets hard. Congratulations on your BFP. I truly wish you a healthy, uneventful 9 mos.
That was really thoughtful. Thank you. I'm not the best at words (obviously) but I send the same sentiments back to you.
Post by frankenboom on Jul 15, 2015 21:17:38 GMT -5
That moment when this entire BMB was sucking MLG's dick and acting like Ruther shouldn't be welcome here and then she says something beyond reproach in the very thread she sent you all to to read and make fun of Ruther....yeah....
Post by almachs0786 on Jul 15, 2015 21:27:15 GMT -5
That moment when someone comes over to lurk on another board to create more drama than what already exists... Just to get their jab in. I get it, Ruther screwed up, mlg screwed up worse, I screwed up... But on THIS board in particular, apologies have been accepted and we are moving on (IMO, from what I have read). We are a new(ish) board and are going to be with one another for a long time. Enough is enough with continuing to put people down. (Yes, I know, I can't dictate what people say, blah blah blah...) Let this board move on and learn from our mistakes and learn how to support one another.
That moment when someone comes over to lurk on another board to create more drama than what already exists... Just to get their jab in. I get it, Ruther screwed up, mlg screwed up worse, I screwed up... But on THIS board in particular, apologies have been accepted and we are moving on (IMO, from what I have read). We are a new(ish) board and are going to be with one another for a long time. Enough is enough with continuing to put people down. (Yes, I know, I can't dictate what people say, blah blah blah...) Let this board move on and learn from our mistakes and learn how to support one another.
I think you meant to quote me. But probably not considering that would have taken balls. If you want to call me out at least be grown enough to give me a notification. My jab was rightfully placed. There were several people in this thread (including you) who Mean Girl'ed the fuck out of Ruther and it was done in an incredibly childish manner. I have no problem calling out that behavior and I'm not lurking this board if I'm posting on it. Also good to know you're aware that you can't dictate where and when people post on a public forum.
Oh and my sincere apologies to those who definitely weren't sucking MLG's dick!
::lurking:: and I'm pretty sure there are still people coming to this BMB, Plenty of GKUers lurk BMB's constantly...So yes "anyone goes here right now".
That moment when someone comes over to lurk on another board to create more drama than what already exists... Just to get their jab in. I get it, Ruther screwed up, mlg screwed up worse, I screwed up... But on THIS board in particular, apologies have been accepted and we are moving on (IMO, from what I have read). We are a new(ish) board and are going to be with one another for a long time. Enough is enough with continuing to put people down. (Yes, I know, I can't dictate what people say, blah blah blah...) Let this board move on and learn from our mistakes and learn how to support one another.
EL OH FUCKING EL. If we are posting, then we aren't lurking. #getadictionary
lurk lərk/ verb verb: lurk; 3rd person present: lurks; past tense: lurked; past participle: lurked; gerund or present participle: lurking
informal: read the postings on an Internet message board or in a chat room without making any contribution oneself.
People who sling shit, should be prepared to eat some themselves later.
That moment when someone comes over to lurk on another board to create more drama than what already exists... Just to get their jab in. I get it, Ruther screwed up, mlg screwed up worse, I screwed up... But on THIS board in particular, apologies have been accepted and we are moving on (IMO, from what I have read). We are a new(ish) board and are going to be with one another for a long time. Enough is enough with continuing to put people down. (Yes, I know, I can't dictate what people say, blah blah blah...) Let this board move on and learn from our mistakes and learn how to support one another.
I think you meant to quote me. But probably not considering that would have taken balls. If you want to call me out at least be grown enough to give me a notification. My jab was rightfully placed. There were several people in this thread (including you) who Mean Girl'ed the fuck out of Ruther and it was done in an incredibly childish manner. I have no problem calling out that behavior and I'm not lurking this board if I'm posting on it. Also good to know you're aware that you can't dictate where and when people post on a public forum.
Oh and my sincere apologies to those who definitely weren't sucking MLG's dick!
I didn't mean to quote you since (when I hit post) I was posting directly under your comment. I didn't really see the need to quote you since it was obvious I was replying to you. Nonetheless, I'll quote you this time. Actually, on this particular thread I did not, in fact, say anything negative toward Ruther. I only said that I was leaving to go read the fiasco on GKU, which is where I made my comment. Which I immediately apologized for and was thanked by R, herself. My point was that the people that were affected by the initial conflict had moved past it. Why keep it going? Mlg apologized, very sincerely, and she deserved a redo on this board like anyone else... If you're issue is what was said on GKU, keep the drama over there. I would like to enjoy getting to know these ladies without the added negativity from other boards. What's done is done. Move on.
mlgnumbers likes to call people out on their shit, so we're here to call her out on hers. And I give no fucks if I don't "go here." I'll go wherever the fuck I please, thank you.
Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
I think you meant to quote me. But probably not considering that would have taken balls. If you want to call me out at least be grown enough to give me a notification. My jab was rightfully placed. There were several people in this thread (including you) who Mean Girl'ed the fuck out of Ruther and it was done in an incredibly childish manner. I have no problem calling out that behavior and I'm not lurking this board if I'm posting on it. Also good to know you're aware that you can't dictate where and when people post on a public forum.
Oh and my sincere apologies to those who definitely weren't sucking MLG's dick!
I didn't mean to quote you since (when I hit post) I was posting directly under your comment. I didn't really see the need to quote you since it was obvious I was replying to you. Nonetheless, I'll quote you this time. Actually, on this particular thread I did not, in fact, say anything negative toward Ruther. I only said that I was leaving to go read the fiasco on GKU, which is where I made my comment. Which I immediately apologized for and was thanked by R, herself. My point was that the people that were affected by the initial conflict had moved past it. Why keep it going? Mlg apologized, very sincerely, and she deserved a redo on this board like anyone else... If you're issue is what was said on GKU, keep the drama over there. I would like to enjoy getting to know these ladies without the added negativity from other boards. What's done is done. Move on.
Yes, please tell me where I can and cannot post. That will definitely have its desired effect.
mlgnumbers likes to call people out on their shit, so we're here to call her out on hers. And I give no fucks if I don't "go here." I'll go wherever the fuck I please, thank you.
AlmachsNumbers would prefer that you not post this drama on this board. They are moving on. Seriously, Fire. How rude.
You all realize this is an open forum right? Just because you're a BMB does not mean other people won't comment on it. It's not a private board, and you're kidding yourself if you think it is. Everything you post here can be seen by everyone, not exclusive to members of TCF.
Oops, forgot my :::lurking::: warning.
Also what part of me saying, new members are still coming to this board daily does she not understand?
Almachs, technically you didn't "Go" on GKU anymore, but decided to post something that you ended up having to apologize for.
But, #sorrynotsorry I don't "go" here, but I'm gonna say whatever the fuck I want.
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