Wills and Inheritence for Bio and Step Kids
Aug 19, 2015 7:34:16 GMT -5
Post by belou on Aug 19, 2015 7:34:16 GMT -5
Hello ladies,
I have a hypothetical question about setting up a Will with my husband and appointing my step son and future bio daughter (I am 6 months pregnant with her) as recipients.
I have an 11 year old step son who splits his time between us and his mother. My husband currently has a very sizable life insurance policy on himself that has my SS's mother listed as the sole recipient (with the intention that she would save it for SS). We are in the process of setting up a trust to replace his mother as the recipient to ensure that the money is available to him in the event of my husband's death. I'd like to purchase life insurance policies for myself and my husband with my daughter as a beneficiary but I'm unsure if this is an insensitive request to omit my SS.
The Will situation is very similar to the above, I'd like to set up the Will to split our joint assets between both children equally (and add in language that if we did ever have more children together that the shares would be split equally as well). But, I would want to also request that any inheritance I received from my side of the family would go towards my biological children. My SS does have a mother who is active in his life so I don't necessarily think this is that outlandish of a request but maybe I'm too close to the issue to be impartial.
Obviously my husband would be the primary recipient of any inheritance and vice-verse, the children would the next in line in the event that we both die. My questions are a bit more complicated because the kids will be separated in the event of both my husbands and my deaths (SS would go to his mother full time and our child would go to a guardian we would set up) so the money would also be split.
Is this something anyone has had to do in the past? How have you set up your Wills so that things are equal when in reality they really may not be?
I have a hypothetical question about setting up a Will with my husband and appointing my step son and future bio daughter (I am 6 months pregnant with her) as recipients.
I have an 11 year old step son who splits his time between us and his mother. My husband currently has a very sizable life insurance policy on himself that has my SS's mother listed as the sole recipient (with the intention that she would save it for SS). We are in the process of setting up a trust to replace his mother as the recipient to ensure that the money is available to him in the event of my husband's death. I'd like to purchase life insurance policies for myself and my husband with my daughter as a beneficiary but I'm unsure if this is an insensitive request to omit my SS.
The Will situation is very similar to the above, I'd like to set up the Will to split our joint assets between both children equally (and add in language that if we did ever have more children together that the shares would be split equally as well). But, I would want to also request that any inheritance I received from my side of the family would go towards my biological children. My SS does have a mother who is active in his life so I don't necessarily think this is that outlandish of a request but maybe I'm too close to the issue to be impartial.
Obviously my husband would be the primary recipient of any inheritance and vice-verse, the children would the next in line in the event that we both die. My questions are a bit more complicated because the kids will be separated in the event of both my husbands and my deaths (SS would go to his mother full time and our child would go to a guardian we would set up) so the money would also be split.
Is this something anyone has had to do in the past? How have you set up your Wills so that things are equal when in reality they really may not be?