Working while waiting to miscarry?
Jan 28, 2015 8:58:27 GMT -5
Post by cabgirl on Jan 28, 2015 8:58:27 GMT -5
I'm worrying about whether or not to go back to work. I intro'd in another post a few threads below, explaining that yesterday I was diagnosed with a likely blighted ovum at 6w0d. I'm not scheduled to work again until this coming Saturday. I'm hoping to miscarry naturally, but aside from the very tiny spot of blood yesterday that prompted my visit to the OB, I have had no bleeding or cramping whatsoever.
My question is, for those of you who had blighted ovums or missed miscarriages and didn't opt for a D&C, how did you deal with working? Did you go back and risk beginning to miscarry at work, or did you stay home and wait? I have been at my current job for less than 3 months, and I don't know how to deal with this. I can't imagine that I would be able to function at work while waiting for the bleeding to start. It scares me. At the same time, I don't want to lose my job. One of my managers knows that I am miscarrying, because I told her yesterday when leaving work early to go to my appointment. I guess I could explain to her that the process hasn't actually started yet, and that when it does, I'll have to leave work without warning. But I am devastated, and having a hard time even focusing on what my husband says to me at home, and I'm so distraught that I'm taking a sedative to keep myself from breaking down and having a panic attack. I really just don't want this to happen at work, and because I work full time, odds are good that it will.
Did you work while you were waiting to miscarry? Or did you stay home?
My question is, for those of you who had blighted ovums or missed miscarriages and didn't opt for a D&C, how did you deal with working? Did you go back and risk beginning to miscarry at work, or did you stay home and wait? I have been at my current job for less than 3 months, and I don't know how to deal with this. I can't imagine that I would be able to function at work while waiting for the bleeding to start. It scares me. At the same time, I don't want to lose my job. One of my managers knows that I am miscarrying, because I told her yesterday when leaving work early to go to my appointment. I guess I could explain to her that the process hasn't actually started yet, and that when it does, I'll have to leave work without warning. But I am devastated, and having a hard time even focusing on what my husband says to me at home, and I'm so distraught that I'm taking a sedative to keep myself from breaking down and having a panic attack. I really just don't want this to happen at work, and because I work full time, odds are good that it will.
Did you work while you were waiting to miscarry? Or did you stay home?