Level 2 U/S Update, T&P Request

[PurpleIris]

I'm sorry you're having to deal with all this, I'll keep you and your nugget in my thoughts. Hopefully they will have an answer for you soon, I'm sure the uncertainty is so hard.

[ladysif]

So sorry you're going through this. T&P it ends up being the best possible scenario for your little one. People like to pry, so do what you need to do. I'd totally make up an excuse to get out of dinner alone with the in-laws tonight, do my own thing and then wait for DH to be back to talk together so it wouldn't all be on me. But my tactic tends to be avoidance as our folks wouldn't accept a vague answer. Whatever you do, do what is best for you. Hope you have answers (GOOD answers) soon.

[baileybaileybne]

So sorry you are going through this. Thoughts are with you for the upcoming MRI and I hope you at least get some answers soon xo

[leenziepops]

I'm so sorry you are going through this. Hopefully it turns out to be nothing. T&P's for you and Nugget

[matiekae]

I'm so sorry your going through this! Thinking of you and your family while you wait for more answers.

[sordidvolition]

T&P for you! Hope you get good news at MRI

[tjanca22]

FX that you will get some answers next week after the MRI. T&P for you and your little Nugget.

[Deleted]

Sending T&Ps your way for good news!

[missjenniebean]

Thoughts and prayers your way. I'm extremely sorry that you must experience this and hope you get good news soon!

[gingerbabe]

You will definitely be in my T&Ps. Hopefully you get more answers after the MRI next week.

[turtletyme]

Sending t&p to you and the babies. I agree with pps that less is more at this point with giving info to people.

[taisree]

Sorry to hear your situation with little answers and lots more questions.

I hope you will get more answers very soon! Please keep us updated:)

[alayne926]

Keeping you and nugget in my thoughts!

[nicolec78]

Sending T & Ps for good news.

[neongreen]

I'm so sorry you got upsetting news today. I hope that whatever it is does wind up being an issue that resolves itself. Regardless, it sounds like you're in good hands.

[neongreen]

Double post, derp. That just means twice the T&Ps!

[girpipley]

I am so sorry you are dealing with this, it sounds scary.

Two things:

I would leave your parents out of this for now. If they are anything like my mom, it will cause more anxiety to have them involved than to not. Next week after you hopefully have more answers, you can get them in the loop.

Second: I had a little baby in my daycare who had something similar. They noticed it at his 20 weeks scan and it was also pushing his heart off center. I don't remember what it was called, but I remember the pushing his heart of center part. He came to me at 8 weeks old and I was just told to watch for signs like blue lips or hands, etc. They were in a wait and see pattern for surgery. . he saw a cardiologist a few times a month, and had ultrasounds of the spot (I think it was a benign tumor but really am not sure..) Anyway- by the time he was 6 months old, it was gone and his little heart is just fine. I saw him last summer running around the pool deck like a maniac.

I will be thinking about you, YH, and nugget. Please keep us posted.

[Stormy61]

Praying that you get good news at the MRI.

[flbabychin]

I will be keeping you in my T&Ps! So sorry to hear you're going through this right now and are in limbo without having any real answers. I am hoping for the best outcome for you and your little nugget!

[trixi282]

Jan 28, 2015 19:56:00 GMT -5 girpipley said:

I am so sorry you are dealing with this, it sounds scary.

Two things:

I would leave your parents out of this for now. If they are anything like my mom, it will cause more anxiety to have them involved than to not. Next week after you hopefully have more answers, you can get them in the loop.

Second: I had a little baby in my daycare who had something similar. They noticed it at his 20 weeks scan and it was also pushing his heart off center. I don't remember what it was called, but I remember the pushing his heart of center part. He came to me at 8 weeks old and I was just told to watch for signs like blue lips or hands, etc. They were in a wait and see pattern for surgery. . he saw a cardiologist a few times a month, and had ultrasounds of the spot (I think it was a benign tumor but really am not sure..) Anyway- by the time he was 6 months old, it was gone and his little heart is just fine. I saw him last summer running around the pool deck like a maniac.

I will be thinking about you, YH, and nugget. Please keep us posted.

Thanks for the similar story, which adds some reassurance that this could be just fine!  I'm definitely in an odds"wait and see" mode and not really allowing myself to worry too much yet.  I need more information... And I just don't have that yet.

We did decide to tell just our parents, but we kept it simple.  They are helping us with daycare for our toddler, and although next week is her first week at her new daycare, my appt will be changing my H's work schedule a bit, so we need them to help us out.  It was easier to tell them the basics to let them know why I have a new appointment scheduled so soon.

My mom of course wanted to be all huggy and wanted to know how I was...I had to tell her to stop when she started tearing up.... I can't deal with her emotions.  She thankfully listened.  H's parents took it easily, as I figured they would.

[Bluedaisy]

I'm sorry you're dealing with this! Thoughts and prayers are with you!

[Girlymama79]

Thoughts and prays for you and your nugget! I hope you get answers soon, not knowing is ways the worst!

[tulips114]

Many T&Ps for you and LO!

[noname83]

I'm sorry you're going through this and are stuck in limbo. I hope after the MRI you hear that it's the best case scenario and can resolve itself. I agree with PPs about being vague in the details, but I wouldn't say anything with a negative connotation. Maybe along the lines of, "the measurement wasn't as clear as they wanted, so they want me to come back so they can get a better angle."

[mnp48]

Oh no! Lots of T&Ps for you and Nugget!

[mrsh2010]

I'm so sorry you are going through this. Sending lots of thoughts and prayers for you and little Nugget. ((hugs))