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Nov 1, 2015 19:46:36 GMT -5
Post by Squishy622 on Nov 1, 2015 19:46:36 GMT -5
Nov 1, 2015 15:11:51 GMT -5 @usernamesarehard said:
kbrooke06, I think I may be YH. That seriously sounds like my lyfe, I can't sit still during the day and pretty much clean and do stuff the whole day and then have a minor freak out almost every night around 11:00 because I'm so tired. Rinse & repeat. Interesting to hear the other side of it though, and I wonder if my H feels the same way you do. Just to offer the other perspective, for me, keeping moving and being productive helps me feel normal and like I'm still a human. Or something. Not sure if that helps you or not, I'm not the most eloquent a half a bottle of wine in. kbrooke06 I was going to say the same thing as @usernamesarehard. It's really soothing for me to spin up into action and frantically do anything and everything when I have a free minute, but I completely burn myself out. I can't relax when I know there are things to do. H has been pretty patient but I can see how I would annoy the crap out of most people with how frantic I am.
I saw some advice in a FB group I'm in earlier today that resonated with me about picking battles. To ask yourself:
1.Does it have to be done at all?
2.Does it have to be done right now?
3.Does it have to be done by YOU?
I don't know if I'm going to be able to actually live this but I liked the spirit of it.