We went to my MIL's house today and told her. My MIL is so nice, but she's all over the place! She started crying and said to DH "you finally slowed down and made a baby." Referring to how much DH works (which even I admit is a lot), and to the fact that we've been married 3 yrs already and together for 9.5 and this is our first pregnancy.
She then proceeded to blame my indigestion on the baby's hair, even though I told her I've had ongoing problems with indigestion and reflux since before the pregnancy.
Finally she said "you're not getting one of those genetic tests done right, where they tell you if there's anything wrong with the baby?" I told her I was getting genetic testing. She said I shouldn't and to "let go and give it up to God."
Oy Vey! I can already see where the next 30 weeks are going to go with her. DH and I are religious, but my mother works in the medical field, so I was also raised with a healthy respect for modern medicine and modern technology.
On a somewhat hilarious note, we told her by presenting her with an ornament and a note that said "you're going to be a grandmother" and "June 2016" and the first thing she said was "you're having a little Cancer baby!" She is super into astrology and knows the dates for all of the signs. I told her I'm actually due in early June and she immediately said "Gemini then!" So she's quoting biblical scripture and Astrology info at the same time. LMAO.
Anything but subway... there is one in my building at work and the baking bread smell is not good...blech!
Random fact....did you guys know that the smell of subway is actually manufactured and pumped into a lot of stores. Not every subway makes their own bread and if they do not they buy the smell and use it in their store.
Ewww!! Gross. I haven't had subway in over 5 years and don't intend to start now.
I have been so sick this week. I am picking up Diclegis tonight, but eating small proteins has helped me a lot. Nothing of substance sounds good and even really "bland" foods like cheerios are turning my stomach. I have eaten a few string cheeses, hard boiled eggs (I know the perfect way to cook these so they are NEVER overcooked and gray), and some pretzels. The salt makes them not so carb-y tasting. I can't wait for this period to end! I am so excited to get the belly and feel the baby and all of that stuff. I feel like I will allow myself to get excited once I get through this first trimester. More than halfway there...
Post by Flair Underwood on Nov 11, 2015 15:07:51 GMT -5
bgkc4, it seems so ironic that someone who considers themselves to be super religious would be into astrology. Hahah - aren't they COMPLETELY CONTRADICTORY?
Also - i don't understand why people oppose genetic testing? It's not like you'd abort (based on what I'm gathering of you on the internet) - just being prepared in case!!
bgkc4, it seems so ironic that someone who considers themselves to be super religious would be into astrology. Hahah - aren't they COMPLETELY CONTRADICTORY?
Also - i don't understand why people oppose genetic testing? It's not like you'd abort (based on what I'm gathering of you on the internet) - just being prepared in case!!
Astrology and religion are completely contradictory! That's why I thought it was so funny! I don't know what her deal is with genetic testing. I never knew it was a controversial thing (I guess I'd never really considered if at all prior to my pregnancy and my OB mentioning it). I'm going to ignore her and do what I want with my body for my baby.
I seem to have gotten into a pattern of having a day with great energy followed by a day where I feel awful and can barely get out of bed (which is hard with two toddlers and a husband in Germany). Repeat. Today is a good day so I am trying to get a lot done. I fixed our garage door, have cleaned up the toy room and coat/craft closet and made broccoli cheddar soup. I am envisioning a very difficult day tomorrow. I also ordered a bunch of maternity clothes from Old navy, they are having a 40% off sale with free shipping if you spend $75. Can't wait to look human again:)
Random fact....did you guys know that the smell of subway is actually manufactured and pumped into a lot of stores. Not every subway makes their own bread and if they do not they buy the smell and use it in their store.
Ewww!! Gross. I haven't had subway in over 5 years and don't intend to start now.
I have been so sick this week. I am picking up Diclegis tonight, but eating small proteins has helped me a lot. Nothing of substance sounds good and even really "bland" foods like cheerios are turning my stomach. I have eaten a few string cheeses, hard boiled eggs (I know the perfect way to cook these so they are NEVER overcooked and gray), and some pretzels. The salt makes them not so carb-y tasting. I can't wait for this period to end! I am so excited to get the belly and feel the baby and all of that stuff. I feel like I will allow myself to get excited once I get through this first trimester. More than halfway there...
I'm sorry you have been so sick! Hopefully the Diclegis helps!!
I seem to have gotten into a pattern of having a day with great energy followed by a day where I feel awful and can barely get out of bed (which is hard with two toddlers and a husband in Germany). Repeat. Today is a good day so I am trying to get a lot done. I fixed our garage door, have cleaned up the toy room and coat/craft closet and made broccoli cheddar soup. I am envisioning a very difficult day tomorrow. I also ordered a bunch of maternity clothes from Old navy, they are having a 40% off sale with free shipping if you spend $75. Can't wait to look human again:)
Post by virginiaorjohn on Nov 11, 2015 18:04:56 GMT -5
Been a very productive day for me as well -- took the day off, slept late, and binge watched "girlfriends guide to divorce" on Netflix. Followed up by a nap. Thinking of making the husband pick up rotisserie chicken and mashed potatoes for dinner. I am worthless... At everything except following my bedrest instructions and gestating. I am awesome at those two things.
bgkc4, it seems so ironic that someone who considers themselves to be super religious would be into astrology. Hahah - aren't they COMPLETELY CONTRADICTORY?
Also - i don't understand why people oppose genetic testing? It's not like you'd abort (based on what I'm gathering of you on the internet) - just being prepared in case!!
hahaaha, you read my mind!
I've been having the discussion with my mom that yes, I want to know everything I can before the baby is born, because if there is a special need or special daycare that needs to be arranged, I need to set that up asap. I think she may see some wisdom in that, but she has such a negative association with "genetic testing". She actually said that she wouldn't want to make any sex conclusions based on genetic testing, and would only believe an ultrasound where you can "see" it. Clearly she missed some biology classes, or the classes in the 70s weren't what they were in the 90s when I had them (probably more likely)!
Speaking of indigestion, I'm regretting my kfc decision
Or maybe it's hair.
(But probably KFC. I don't think hair is growing yet. And DD had a full head of hair and I didn't have bad heartburn)
Sorry you have indigestion. Everything seems to be settling kind of funny with me too.
Side note- I am still bitter about that hair/heart burn old wives tales BS. There is no way DS should have come out with an average amount of hair with the amount of fiery lava I had in my body during that pregnancy. Those old wives and their tales were wrong!!
bgkc4, it seems so ironic that someone who considers themselves to be super religious would be into astrology. Hahah - aren't they COMPLETELY CONTRADICTORY?
Also - i don't understand why people oppose genetic testing? It's not like you'd abort (based on what I'm gathering of you on the internet) - just being prepared in case!!
I don't want to start a big argument here, but honestly there are some genetic diseases where termination may be in the child's best interest (trisomy 13, 18, etc). I have had a couple of friends who ended up being faced with this choice (both didn't find out until the 20 wk u/s because they didn't do genetic testing). I would never wish that pain on anyone. And I can guarantee that neither would have thought they'd make that decision until they were faced with the prospect of having a child who they knew would face an early death and have to literally fight for every second they were alive.
We're not doing genetic testing but I have nothing against people who do. We all have to make the choice that is best for us and our children. Screw what anyone else thinks
bgkc4, it seems so ironic that someone who considers themselves to be super religious would be into astrology. Hahah - aren't they COMPLETELY CONTRADICTORY?
Also - i don't understand why people oppose genetic testing? It's not like you'd abort (based on what I'm gathering of you on the internet) - just being prepared in case!!
I don't want to start a big argument here, but honestly there are some genetic diseases where termination may be in the child's best interest (trisomy 13, 18, etc). I have had a couple of friends who ended up being faced with this choice (both didn't find out until the 20 wk u/s because they didn't do genetic testing). I would never wish that pain on anyone. And I can guarantee that neither would have thought they'd make that decision until they were faced with the prospect of having a child who they knew would face an early death and have to literally fight for every second they were alive.
We're not doing genetic testing but I have nothing against people who do. We all have to make the choice that is best for us and our children. Screw what anyone else thinks
I agree with this 100% and I know of 2 people who have unfortunately been in this situation. I used to be pretty staunchly anti-abortion/pro-life (whatever you want to call it) until I became a mother. There are absolutely situations in which I would terminate in the case of a fatal diagnosis that ensured a short life time of suffering. It would be out of compassion and love for my child. It's interesting how motherhood has changed my outlook on this.
I don't want to start a big argument here, but honestly there are some genetic diseases where termination may be in the child's best interest (trisomy 13, 18, etc). I have had a couple of friends who ended up being faced with this choice (both didn't find out until the 20 wk u/s because they didn't do genetic testing). I would never wish that pain on anyone. And I can guarantee that neither would have thought they'd make that decision until they were faced with the prospect of having a child who they knew would face an early death and have to literally fight for every second they were alive.
We're not doing genetic testing but I have nothing against people who do. We all have to make the choice that is best for us and our children. Screw what anyone else thinks
I agree with this 100% and I know of 2 people who have unfortunately been in this situation. I used to be pretty staunchly anti-abortion/pro-life (whatever you want to call it) until I became a mother. There are absolutely situations in which I would terminate in the case of a fatal diagnosis that ensured a short life time of suffering. It would be out of compassion and love for my child. It's interesting how motherhood has changed my outlook on this.
Maybe I should save this for UO!
I've taken care of these babies for my job and they break my heart. I've also cared for mothers who faced this awful choice. There is no right answer, but personally I have always known I would terminate for T13 or T18. I truly hope that none of us has to make this terrible decision.
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