Hello. I'm here is such a heavy heavy soul. After TTC for almost 1.5 years naturally with PCOS I got on metformin, tracked three great cycles and DH and I got it right on time... Well my AF was late and started having some of the symptoms, took a HPT and got a light positive. I brought up to my DH I *might* be, next test was the same a few days later then I got a BFN. I was hoping to get a good dark positive to show my DH and take a pic ect ect. Well I waited a day and my symptoms were going away. Then yesterday, mid day while running around I stated bleeding. I was just at 5 weeks.
I feel a little silly to be so upset about it. If we hadn't been TTC I most likely would have just thought I was a week late, but knowing I was is just killing me inside. I told my DH everything and showed him the pics of the light positives and explained why I was waiting to tell him (I've planned the same surprise for over a year as soon as I get BFP).
I'm reading through the older post on here to not feel so alone, I just need a little comfort and to tell someone, its just too hard to bring up to any friends in person.
Post by daystardreams on Nov 27, 2015 21:07:53 GMT -5
I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a 5 week loss about a year ago and you should not feel silly for being upset. I was coming on 12 months of trying when I got my faint BFP, even though the lines were always faint, I was so crazy hopeful and so devastated when I lost it.
I'm so sorry for your loss. ((Hugs)) Make sure you take care of yourself!
Post by lisaclark123 on Aug 21, 2017 2:08:57 GMT -5
I am feeling so sorry for your miscarriage problem. I want to suggest one and only thing to handle this difficult situation with positive thinking. You should not lose hope. I can understand your physical and mental stage at this time. It is not easy job to handle miscarriage problem without stress and depression. I can understand your problem because I also facing problem in my life just 2 year ago. This is golden opportunity for me to share my personal life experience to handle miscarriage problem to defeat infertility problem to enjoy healthy baby gift now. I am happy and enjoying healthy baby gift in my life that fulfills my life with brightness. I hope you can also enjoy healthy baby gift like me in short time period as soon as possible. You should be very informative to understand your body signal in advance to understand what your body wants to say with proper hormone balance. You get maximum benefit to understand your problem at early stage. You can handle miscarriage problem by understanding early sign of miscarriage problem in easy and effective way. This is very critical problem. We consult with popular gynecologist of Ukraine to understand the important responsible factor for miscarriage problem. You can make your body hormone level in balance with balanced diet. You should consume rich iron food to maintain your body blood hemoglobin in high level. You can use yoga and meditation to reduce stress and depression to get full relaxation. You should understand this horrible situation with proper responsibility. You can skip multiple miscarriage problems with surrogacy. I hope you get sufficient information to overcome this horrible situation in your life to enjoy baby gift like me.
Hi dear. I am very sorry to hear about the problem. I know the pain and how you feel as I felt the same and also suffered from the same problem like you. But I found a solution as I came to know reproduction research in Ukraine is one of the best. I consulted one of the best gynecologist there and the tips and tricks which he gave me changed my life completely. You should be very positive to remove depression and stress that are the main reason of miscarriage problem. You need not panic about miscarriage problem. You should maintain your body hormone level in balance. The main thing you need will be the support of your husband to get over these tough times. Consult the best possible gynecologist and follow his tips. Try not to take any stress as it is harmful to your body and the baby too. Hope the tips I gave you help in some way. Wishing you all the best in future. Be happy and stay blessed.
Hello, Sorry for your loss. Please don’t depressed. Be strong and you have to try again. My friend had an experience like you two years ago. But I didn’t let her in her depression. We had some steps to make her overcome her sadness. She talked to people about her feelings. She joined a support group. It was good to know someone else understands what she was going through. We didn’t forget to follow up with a specialist doctor.
Hi, my sister was the same like you 3 years ago. She knew that there are my causes for her loss. It may be a hormone problem like low progesterone. Chromosome Defects or immune disorder may be another factor for losing the baby. As every woman has different body nature, so the causes are different from one to another. So, be patient and ask your doctor.
Post by michael24x7 on Sept 21, 2017 22:47:22 GMT -5
Hello and welcome friend, I can understand your problem very well. I am feeling pity and pain regarding your miscarriage problem. I also face same problem like you in my life just 3 year ago. It is time to handle this difficult situation with strong heart having positive attitude toward life. I am one of the lucky women who got this golden opportunity on this reliable platform to help you overcome this difficult situation in your life on behalf of my personal life experience that provide satisfaction in my life to help you. You should not compromise with your health at any cost. It is very horrible situation to remember those days of my life that are full of stress and depression due to my first miscarriage problem that ruins my life day by day. It is a God wish you have to accept her wish with strong heart. You should make appropriate planning to overcome miscarriage possibility in next pregnancy. You should learn from your past mistakes. We consult with popular gynecologist of Kiev to discuss my pregnancy related issue in detail. It is good news that you are aware about your health that helps you to overcome miscarriage problem at early stage. You should used positive affirmation to remove negative thinking in easy and effective way. It is not easy task to handle stressful situation. You should not underestimate the negative effect of stress and depression on our body and mind. This is medical certified fact that stress and depression is responsible for early miscarriage possibility. You can easily overcome this Saturday school life with powerful yoga and meditation to get full relaxation. You should provide proper healthy balanced diet and lifestyle to provide sufficient energy to body for smooth working.
Hi, dear. I got pregnant for the first time when I was 24. I was married and we were ready to become parents. Unfortunately, I miscarried in 9 weeks. It was very hard but I was sure that I would get pregnant again. We were so young and we had a lot of time to conceive. When I turned 34 we still had no kids. Pregnancy was the only thing I was thinking about. I’ve gone through lots of treatments in different clinics. Nothing helped us to conceive. Our doctor said that our case of infertility is unexplained. So, no one could guarantee that we would ever have kids. We tried IVF twice. I was getting pregnant but miscarried each time. I have no words to explain how depressed I was. I was against adoption or surrogacy, just like you. But we had no choice. As we wanted to have our biological baby we had to enter the surrogacy program. I visited a lot of clinics. We have chosen the one in Europe. They offered us pretty good price. In a couple of weeks we signed an agreement. And in 9 months our little princess was born. She is our first and only kid at the moment. We really dream to have more kids. Surrogacy costs a lot, so I don’t know what to do. We don’t want to adopt. As for me it is strange to raise someone’s child. So, I understand your feelings. I also want to have two kids. But I’m not sure that it would ever happen. Anyway, I still hope to find the solution.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You rightly said that in this forum there are many fabulous people to share your feeling with. You feel very light after sharing your problem. These home pregnancy tests don’t give you accurate results that early. I always do mine 10 days past my periods. You should also see some doctor to help you better. Wish you good luck.
Yes I think this is great. This is truly a really great thing for him. Just make yourself sure about this. Everything is going to be fine for you. I wish you a very good luck for the future. May your child live a happy life dear. Best of luck. Many many congratulations to you and your husband as well.
Post by jessicastarnes123 on Feb 28, 2018 23:28:56 GMT -5
Hi, I am sorry that you are facing this loss.Dear, you are not doing wrong or any silliness.I knew after trying when you come to know that there was hope.And suddenly you have to face loss in finding fully positivity.This was really devasting and depressed condition.I knew it was hard to meet all these things.Everyone wants and feeling desperate to have the kid to complete their family.Without kids life is incomplete and no happiness is there.I am trying for 3 years for conceiving the baby.After the great struggle, last year I got pregnant.I am now relaxed and happy.But when see other women have faced this issues I would remember my all sufferings.I had learned from my experience is that stay positive and be strong.Everything is possible and you can get positive success in future.Good luck and keep trying with better luck.
Well it's better that you shared it here. It's kind of a relief for you as well. Don't worry dear it's life. We have to face this thing. Don't worry just try to be strong. The things that we lost in our past would be near to us in future. It's not necessary that it would be same like before. You suffered unhappiness. You suffered problems. Well you see after sometime everything is going to be clear for you. Just be sure about this. Everything great is upcoming dear. May you be happy always.
Post by scarlett9999 on Apr 16, 2018 8:21:07 GMT -5
hello girl. I feel sad for your pain. I'm sure you have struggled a lot. but don't worry. stay sane. try to live the stress-free life. according to my experience related to my sister. you can certainly try for other methods of conceiving. surrogacy or IVF? surrogacy has more success chances. because the surrogate mom is healthy enough to conceive. as compare to you conceiving yourself in IVF. which may alter the efficiency if u have poor egg quality. so I'd suggest you should try one of these. keep up the strength. you will be the mom soon.
Post by rosiejames on Apr 16, 2018 11:13:42 GMT -5
Hello there, I am sad that you are confronting such loss. Dear, you are really going through really hard times. It's really hoped giving when someone comes to know about some alternatives. I think you should fight with your bad luck to become lucky. That was truly devasting and discouraged condition. I know it is difficult to fight with these things. Everyone wishes to have a child who can strengthen their relationship. Without kids life is meaningless. I am also trying to conceive for a very long time. After so much hard work, a year ago I got pregnant. I am an optimist and happy. But whenever I see other ladies facing such consequences, I really get sad. All I learned is that one should stay positive to conquer the ground. Everything is possible and you can also go for some alternatives too. Good luck to you!
The loss and the struggle are real. MC's really broken you and affects your emotional and physical health. But the good news is you can conceive naturally right after the miscarriage. So if, you have no major infertility issue and your cycles are regular then. you are no far away from next pregnancy. The postnatal depression also kills you, and when you are alone, it's terrible to go through. You can talk with your husband. Plan a holiday. Take time out from the regular routine.This will allow you to revive your true self. Don't dwell yourself into self-pity. Stay happy and ttc. You will have your rainbow baby soon.
Post by lindajames998 on May 20, 2018 11:54:41 GMT -5
Hey there. How are things now? I hope it's going well. I know it must be hard. It really breaks my heart to think about it. I wish I could strip away the pain. I have been through this pain before. I still feel it sometimes. However, you seem to be strong. I hope you stay this way. Don't lose hope try again. It will work out. I wish you good luck. take care. Hoping to hear more soon.
hey hun. how are you now? I'm with you. don't lose hope. you are perfect already. take out some time for yourself. pamper yourself. what is meant will be at its time. don't rush things. its okay to be sad at times. it's not silly. love you loads. I'm with you in this. praying loads for. soon you'll have a cute baby. sending you baby dust.
Post by rosiejames on May 22, 2018 12:35:31 GMT -5
Hello there, my sister has also gone through such circumstances. She found that there are my reasons for her misfortune. It might be a hormone issue like low progesterone. Chromosome Defects or insusceptible issue might be another factor for losing the infant. As each lady has distinctive body nature, so the causes are not quite the same as to each other. Along these lines, be quiet and ask your specialist. Baby dust to you!
hi there. I am really sorry to hear about your loss. you should be strong and not lose hope at all. hope can lead you to beautiful things like it lead to me. and now I have a beautiful baby boy after struggling with infertility and pain. here I am happy with a complete family. I went for surrogacy and found it amazing. it is highly recommended. stay blessed.
Sorry to read about your loss. Its the part of life. I am from Japan. I am also infertile.
We moved to Europe in search of a very good clinic. We didn't found a good clinic in Europe. We moved to Ukraine than. In Ukraine we found a clinic. It has many good reputation. As i am sharing my direct experience with you all. We found a good surrogate. Now she is pregnant with our two daughters. Soon we will have two daughters.
So sad to learn about your problems. I have some idea about the pain you are going through. As I have also gone through such consequences. I was lucky as my friend told me about a center offering infertility treatment. I consulted there and my all worries eliminated. I must say that everyone should remain positive and hope for the best. Don't get so much panic thinking about your miscarriage. You'd take some steps to increase your hormones level. But first of all, you'd convince your DH. Consult any prominent gynecologist you know. Taking tension will only affect your health and chances to conceive. I hope my experience would be helpful for you. Wishing you all the best for the future.
Hey, dear. I am so sorry for your loss. I bet it must be extremely hard. Just sit back and relax a little. You will get there. Stressing doesn't help anyone. always remember that. If doing this naturally is hard, why don't you try surrogacy? There are a lot of good clinics. Especially in Ukraine. You should try them. Just check it out. If that doesn't please you, i suppose adoption is another option. Nonetheless, I am supporting and cheering for you here. I believe you can do better. And i know you will. You can do this. Just remember to take care of yourself, hun.
Hi dear how are you doing? Hope you are fine.Really sorry to hear about your loss. Its been very tough for you . I can feel that pain as I had faced similar kind of situation. I would say don't loose hope and take good care of your self. Things will be alright very soon.
Hey. I am so sorry for you. Miscarriages are hard to accept. Dont blame yourself. I have faced miscarriage 3 times. I had uterine polyps and I miscarried my unborn babies. I was so upset. I know it is never easy to lose a baby. I was left infertile. You are at least lucky enough that you have chances to conceive a baby. Well, as I was infertile and I had no other option. stay strong.
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