[!] Help Naria build her family

[mrsw26]

I'm so sorry for your loss, @nariadreaming.

[bootsorhearts]

Jan 6, 2016 22:01:39 GMT -5 @aeroplaneoverthesea said:

I'm so sorry for your loss and continued struggles. I hope 2016 brings you many happy returns.

I was never clear on the business vs. family thing. I choose to think of this place as like a weird family run business where our underaged niece answers the phones, people take super long breaks, and everyone show up wasted on Fridays.

Sounds like my dream job

[theophania]

@aeroplaneoverthesea, sounds accurate.

[Deleted]

Naria - I am truly sorry for your loss. I pray that you soon have the family you're working so hard to create.

[bellefontaine]

So glad this was posted. I'm not necessarily a "well known" poster so I doubt I'd have been someone that got a pm and I'd love to help! NariaDreaming, you are loved! So many hugs! The hurt of a loss after years of IF is something no one should ever have to go through.

+1 for the recommendation of disagreements being done privately. Really disheartened to see any negativity at all in this thread.
PS. You do realize that without her there would not even be a thriving board here for you to proclaim anything "inappropriate", right??

[NariaDreaming]

I'm awake after another one "the baby died" nightmares that plagued me my whole pregnancy... except now I can't wake up or escape that nightmare.

And I just have to say that this entire thread, and the YC has given us the gift of hope during our darkest hour. I've never seen my husband this absolutely gutted, but the look on his face when I showed him the tangible way the people of the Internet have shown love for our baby and the situation we are in.... That was priceless.

To know that our baby was loved, that her life was acknowledged and valued. To know that we aren't alone in this pain. Thank you.

So thank you for giving us hope right now. It's all we have to cling to

[redandblue]

Jan 5, 2016 17:58:53 GMT -5 @gothefawktosleep said:

Jan 5, 2016 17:53:57 GMT -5 @aditi said:

The negativity surrounding this is disheartening.

No kidding.

+1 for this. I'm so sorry Naria for your loss. I'm also sorry that people are feeling this thread is inappropriate. It's not and I agree that Naria is not the same as 'everyone else' here.  She created this place for us all. If you don't like the thread, no one is making you read it. If you don't want to support her, then don't. Personally I think people need to suck it up. Sorry just my opinion.

[redandblue]

Jan 5, 2016 18:30:54 GMT -5 @hilarityensued said:

Okay I have now re-read the entire thing.

I'm kind of... Put off by some of the reactions. No I don't think that everyone should have equal access to this. That is absurd.

To take the cliche "start a thread" one step further, if you want this kind of global reach, start a forum.

+1 for this. 

[FCtwinmom]

Just wanted to say I am so very sorry for your loss NariaDreaming, I am sending so many prayers and so much love to you and your family. I also just wanted to say thank you for all of your hard work in giving all of us this amazing place to share our journeys together. I love this place and having all of the amazing women I have "met" here to turn to with all of my questions.

[amylev80]

@nariadreaming I am heartbroken to read about your loss. I send you all the squishiest of the creepy internet hugs you can stand. You have been there for me on 3TIF and TD, and i likewise stand by you. Many thoughts and prayers to you and DH during this difficult time.

[Fuckoff]

I'm new here, but just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. Many thoughts your way.

[catahoulatte]

You and YH have been in my thoughts and prayers constantly since I saw the awful news. I am just so unbelievably sorry that this happened. I didn't know where to post my condolences and didn't want to overburden you with PMs or post on a board I don't really "go" on, but I can't not tell you that I appreciate the boatload of things you've done for this community. I've been following your journey and have all the hope in the world for you to get your take home baby.

[kensie5226]

I'm so sorry for your loss and I am happy to help you in any way I can. You built a wonderful community that I love.

[Deleted]

I haven't been around much the last year or so because my personal life was a mess. But Naria Im so sorry for your losses, especially the most recent one. I'll do what I can.

[chilibeansm0m]

I'm sorry for your loss Naria.