Post by chilibeansm0m on Feb 3, 2015 0:05:17 GMT -5
Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh @goofygof that kinda crap makes me sick.
I just had to shove an end table from our living room into dh's closet. For 1 i have nowhere else to put it- for 2, R decided she can climb on top of it now. Ummm yeah let's not...she climbed up on top of it and goes HI MAMA!!! Cue heart attack. Dh doesn't know it's in his closet yet...but I'm trying to avoid having to explain that one to the kaiser er one night.
Oh chilibeansm0m, once they start climbing, it's all downhill! Haha, my younger DD is a climber and I'm constantly having to pull her off of something, no matter how many pieces of furniture I try to move!
mango uggghh. Sorry about your H. I totally understand the need to decompress...but the cat puke is just not what you need in your life right now. I know. I stepped in some last night.
I want to thank everyone who gave my kitty positive vibes these past two days.
Sadly she took a turn for the worse, and we had to let her go tonight. She was such a cuddle bug, and so loving. My husband didn't even like cats before he met her, but she was so determined to love on everyone that he was converted. We will miss her terribly.
What bothers me about the group is that we have over 150 members and I always see the same handful of people posting/commenting/replying. Seems like a lot of members are just lurking and it's kinda uncomfortable. I thought the group was made up of only active participants.
Maybe I'm reading too much into it.
Yea. I comment on things I find relevant, but it does seem like the same smaller group of people always contributing, with a lot of lurkers.
I think freckles is right, that it will pick up after our babies are here. Perhaps after that point we could start eliminating people who never participate?
For sure there will be some eliminations once the babies get here and things are sorted out. FB groups become way more active post baby IME. It will be easy to tell who is lurking at that point. My last BMB still has about 100 members and we are all very active, two years later. We have booted about 10-15 people over that time? It is possible to have a lot of people be active AND close on FB. I think you all are underestimating how many active members we had on TB too. Like I said, sure, some people will end up getting the boot, but this will still be a fairly large group.
mango Girl... F to the No. You are a much better person than I am because I don't care how shitty of a week MH has had. I didn't tell him to become a doctor, he chose that one. I would have punched his ass in the throat if there was cat puke on the floor and dishes in the sink. That shit takes 10 minutes to do and then he can go play video games or decompress however he wants.
janda426 I will be thinking of you and hoping your baby boy turns. There's definitely nothing wrong with hoping. It is really hard not to look at the odds and get frustrated. I do that sometimes too, because the condition I have is supposed to be less than .5%. I'm so glad that with all the complications you have to deal with, that baby is healthy and staying in there.
As for the fb group, it's possible that with the format people are concerned about cluttering up the page. I know that's why I don't start a post there unless it's really important. It seems like there is a fine line between posting too much(annoying people) and not being active enough.
NatashaBromanoff I doubt it was me who inspired it I've been so lazy with mine lately, but TheTuna15 and wifieo have recently shared theirs. (Maybe a few others too, I'm sorry if I'm leaving someone out) Nonetheless, awesome that you completed it
Well all you ladies then! I am/was lurking hard on the bedrest thread like a creeper.
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