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[callmeKD]

hi all - it's been one week since my D&C. physically I feel better, but mentally I feel absolutely numb. except for when I think or talk about the M/C, then it's immediate tears. 

okay, that's it. I just needed somewhere to vent. 

[requiressnacks]

So many hugs, callmeKD. I am the same way, I cry at the drop of a hat if I mention anything about my pregnancy or miscarriage.

[meerkatmillie]

((hugs)) @callmekd. Ugh... It is really sad and hard to process. Im so sorry you're going through this.

I'm still processing it myself and still tear up. But when I was really down, my H said we need to be appreciative of all the good things we have now and keep in perspective that things could be way worse (we have a friend thats a widow at 39 for instance). At first I was sad/mad, because IF and MC/loss are a really bad hand to be dealt in their own right. But now with more time passing, thinking about these things (whats good now, what could be worse) is starting to help me move on.

[WineNChocolate]

((hugs, hugs and more hugs..and well chocolate lots of if))

Oh hunny...I am right there with you. I am just trying really hard to be positive. It does not help I have friends that are finding out they are pregnant or they send me pics of their US. I do best when I am home and stay busy and get projects done at the house. At work I am horrible. I am trying to stay the hell off the internet and not intently stare at the calendar and then my brain jumps in to how long.. Its a slow process and nobody should have to experience it.

[thepax89]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'm glad that physically you feel better. Sometimes it takes physical healing for the emotional stuff to happen...for me anyway. Do you have a good amount of support?