Trying to process early loss

[lisajay]

Hi. I'm still trying to understand what happened. I'm 40 and have had irregular periods for the past year. This cycle has been about 60 days and last week I was feeling good extremely tired and my boobs hurt, so I took a test. It was a faint positive, but a line was there. This past weekend I took another 4 tests and all were light positives. On Monday I started bleeding so I called my dr and she wanted to see me that day to do blood work and a Sono. The Sono showed a gestational sac, but because it was very early and the placement of my uterus/the sac, she couldn't see well enough to see if there was anything inside. She said it was likely very early and the blood tests and time will tell more. Well, the betas came back "negative" (I wasn't told a number, just neg) and the nurse told me I didn't have to go for the second beta test. How is there a sac and no HCG in my blood? Could my level have dropped down that much in 2 days? I guess I'm in denial. This is my first loss and my heart hurts.

[lisajay]

Thank you. I called the doctor and she said it was a very very early miscarriage. She wants one last Sono to make sure there's nothing there next week.

[nolagirl]

So sorry for your loss. Somewhat of a similar situation here. I'm 36 with very irregular cycles. Lots of pregnancy symptoms for two weeks then a positive pregnancy test last Wednesday. Betas were drawn Thursday, still don't have results. Poas again Friday and the line was much more faint than it was wendesday. Severe cramping and spotting that lead to heavy bleeding Saturday evening. I'm still trying to process it all.

[muskiefan]

I'm sorry for your loss. I am surprised the office told you your betas were negative without a number. There is a range of hcg that correlates with visualizing a gestational sac, but if your levels were dropping, you may have had a lower hcg than that threshold. I hope you have answers now.

[lisaclark123]

Hi sister, Miracle of all Miracles happened here. Today I see your question at this online platform. I am surprised that you are also facing same problem like me. I am feeling happy to help you to overcome this difficult situation on behalf of my own life experience. It is golden opportunity for all of us. You should not miss this opportunity to take maximum benefit from my own life experience I can understand your physical and mental stays at this time. It is good an opportunity for you for prepares yourself for next pregnancy. It simply signifies that you have not proper care you and your baby at this remarkable moment in your life. There are Medical Research reports that simply say that it is due to imbalance between hormone levels of your body. Today we are living in busy schedule life and forget to maintain proper balance in our life. Now I am living Healthy lifestyle and enjoying baby gift that bring brightness into my life.
I accept to get full cooperation from my husband side to handle this horrible situation in my life. You should understand the value of a balance life. You can prepare from this past with proper balanced diet and valuable nutrition to your protein diet. The main reason of miscarriage problem is due to unhealthy Lifestyle. You have to adopt easy and effective method of sitting and sleeping that have less pressure on baby bump that is beneficial for you in many ways. You should take maximum benefit in limited time period to conceive effectively with high level hemoglobin that create beneficial situation for you. I hope you get enough information to conceive effectively to avoid miscarriage problem.

[kellyk1]

Hi dear, i can understand the pain you are going through currently. Remember miracles can happen anytime so please stay positive. I just saw the post and it caught my attention. I am surprised that you are also facing the same problem as my sister. I can understand your physical and mental status at this time. If you got a final answer from the doctor that it was a miscarriage then you should start concentrating more on your body and start building it up again. A miscarriage signifies that you did not take proper care of your health. There is medical research done already saying that due to an imbalance between hormone levels of your body one can have a miscarriage. Today we all are leading a very busy life and have already forgotten how to properly maintain a balanced diet in our life. My sister was too careless about her daily eating routine and health.Later on, her gynecologist told her to start with a proper diet plan and core exercises to make the body fit from inside.
I accept that she also got full cooperation from her husband to handle this horrible situation of miscarriage. You too should understand the value of a balanced life. You can prepare yourself and start with a proper balanced diet with valuable nutrition in it. The main reason of miscarriage problem is due to unhealthy lifestyle. When you conceive next time please take extra care of yourself. During your next pregnancy time, you can adopt an easy and effective method of sitting and sleeping that forms less pressure on the baby bump. Please stay positive, i know your loss is breaking your heart but remember you have to heal back again and come back more strong. I hope you get enough information to conceive effectively to avoid miscarriage problem.

[lolno]

Aug 22, 2017 9:39:35 GMT -5 kellyk1 said:

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[stacy1246]

Hi welcome friend, I am feeling pity and pain regarding your miscarriage problem. Miscarriage problem is most horrible problem in woman’s life all over the world. There are 20% women who face miscarriage problem in their life. You should handle this horrible problem with proper planning. I am one of the lucky women who defeat miscarriage problem and get healthy baby gift in my life that fulfill my wish with brightness and endless joy in my life. I hope you get sufficient information to clear all your doubts and motivate yourself to get healthy baby gift and overcome this miscarriage problem in your life. I am feeling happy to help you to solve your problem on behalf of my personal experience. You should not miss this golden opportunity to take maximum benefit from my experience.
I can understand your physical and mental stage at this time. Miscarriage not only kills your baby physical body but also your mental level. We try each and every method to defeat miscarriage problem but failed every time. I want to suggest you some powerful and effective method with tips and tricks that help you to overcome problem in your life to enjoy healthy baby gift.
It is God’s wish you have to accept her wish with strong heart. This is golden opportunity for you to prepare yourself for next pregnancy to solve your problem with personal life experience. You should understand your body signal very well to handle miscarriage problem at early stage. You should understand that miscarriage problem is due to hormones imbalance in your body. You can keep your body hormone level in balance with balanced diet and healthy lifestyle. You should use yoga and meditation to take maximum benefit like me.

[lolno]

Aug 23, 2017 2:24:59 GMT -5 stacy1246 said:

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Fuck off. This is very insensitive and false information.

[arose]

Hi Dear,
I am sorry for the loss, it happens, and so we must remain strong and steadfast if you want to win the war. In my considered opinion, you had conceived. If you were feeling tired and your breasts were painful, it shows that an embryo was developing. However, I suspect that it failed to attach, so that is why the bleeding followed. This could explain the absence of HCG in your blood. However, all is not lost, just give it a few weeks and have the tests. If nothing comes by continue TTC.

[rosie]

hi, so sorry to know about your loss. Don't take the stress. All will be fine. Stay positive and happy. .I think should go for a checkup at the good clinic. My best wishes are with you. Fingers crossed. If conceiving naturally is difficult. I think so you should look for treatment. In Europe, there are best clinics. Which are not so expensive and provide you with a great environment. All the best for your future. Take care. Lots of love.

[ava]

Hi there. Hope you are fine now. It's really strange. Your doctor should have told all the details. It's really surprising. But don't worry everything will be fine. You will be a mother soon. Sending baby dust to you. Will be waiting for a good news. I suffered from infertility for 10 years. But now a mother through surrogacy. I feel happy to be a mother. Wish luck to everyone. God bless.

[riya]

Dear Friend! I totally understand what you are going through! Loss of a loved one simply makes one alone and no matter how much one tries to sympathize these feelings keep coming back. But dear, you really have to hold yourself up. If not for yourself then at least for your husband. it is sad to see you sad. So need to be very strong. enjoy your life and live it to the fullest. Best wishes, I hope you can find some peace with the loss of your baby.

[rosiejames]

Hello dear, I hope you are fine. This post is really good. There are a lot of people who think surrogacy is not a good thing. Which is sad to hear. But we should post positive things so that people get awarded of surrogacy. And specialist should also try to share such kind of informative post. There is nothing bad in this process. Because doctors only put the embryos of the intended parents into the surrogate mother. It means surrogacy is only using her belly for carrying the child. Everyone deserves the happiness. People should really avail of the opportunity which they can access. there are many areas in the world who need to know about this process. I hope soon people will know about it all over the world. Another reason people don’t accept it right is that they have not heard about it from an expert. And also they make perception from their own mind from incomplete information. I will also try to post about the surrogacy as much as possible.

[seraniz33]

Mar 10, 2016 7:49:30 GMT -5 lisajay said:

Hi. I'm still trying to understand what happened. I'm 40 and have had irregular periods for the past year. This cycle has been about 60 days and last week I was feeling good extremely tired and my boobs hurt, so I took a test. It was a faint positive, but a line was there. This past weekend I took another 4 tests and all were light positives. On Monday I started bleeding so I called my dr and she wanted to see me that day to do blood work and a Sono. The Sono showed a gestational sac, but because it was very early and the placement of my uterus/the sac, she couldn't see CCleaner Happy Wheels VLCwell enough to see if there was anything inside. She said it was likely very early and the blood tests and time will tell more. Well, the betas came back "negative" (I wasn't told a number, just neg) and the nurse told me I didn't have to go for the second beta test. How is there a sac and no HCG in my blood? Could my level have dropped down that much in 2 days? I guess I'm in denial. This is my first loss and my heart hurts. Thank you. I called the doctor and she said it was a very very early miscarriage. She wants one last Sono to make sure there's nothing there next week.

[trisha098]

Hello. I can completely understand. This is terrible. I'm so sorry for your loss. It's going to be hard getting over this but I know you are strong. You can do this. You should take a break for yourself. This will be good for your peace of mind. I hope you feel better soon. Let me know if there is anything I can do. Much love.

[hannah1234]

I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. Things can be unexpected at times. You just have to be confident and brave. I hope things get better for you. I can understand how hard this might be for you. However, dont lose hope. Ask your doctor for a full-fledged report. It is important to know the reason behind such reason. Also, show it to another good doctor. This is to check the real cause. Good luck in the future. I hope things get better. Stay strong and positive. I hope you are soon able to conceive. Sending baby dust your way.

[lika966]

If you are unable to conceive with the age of 40+. You should probably look for other methods to have a baby now. There are a number of methods to have a baby if you can't have a one naturally. The chances of conceives decrease with increasing age. So better look into another method to have a baby. I was infertile so i also went for infertility treatment and had my twin daughters. Wishing you good luck.

[hannaah]

Hey, Lisa. How are you holding up? I hope you're doing okay. I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. It seems like a really tough situation for you. These losses can be so difficult to take. You should keep the faith, though. I know, age is probably catching up with you. It seems like it won't happen. However, one should always have hope. It could always work out, you know. You should try IVF or maybe even IUI. That could be a really good option. Either way, you'll have to start by visiting a fertility clinic. Sending you lots of support and love.