Post by nanamama on Feb 9, 2015 21:38:35 GMT -5
WTF boss! When I told you I was pregnant you insisted I still come back and nanny and bring the baby. You kept insisting this point through the time I left for maternity leave. I text you when I get cleared from my MW at my 6 week appt that I can start any day and you say "let me get back to you in a few days". I figured it was to discuss your temps last day with her. Nope, it was to wait a week the send me an email that you want to remain best friends but that I no longer have a job and if I really thought about it I would agree it's best. WTF?! Her reasons included "traffic" and me wanting to be a SAHM...I never told her that... And now I get to find a job in the next 2 weeks so we can afford to keep eating and hope I can bring LO or find decent care. She also said they decided this around the time LO was born...so why wait till she's almost 8 weeks to tell me I am out of a job?! Grrrrr....
For the record...we are no longer "best friends" (we never were?)
at a minimum I would tell your "friend" how you feel, ie that you need to find a new job asap with a newborn in order to continue to feed your family. It sounds like you have nothing to lose.
Yeah... I am going to write her back tomorrow. I don't plan on holding back...what she did was pretty crappy. And we are looking into what we can do about it. Whether it's unemployment or a small pension or something...it's complete crap that they waited so long then did it over email...I might've felt different if she called and we met for coffee or something...