Don't know what to think

[nolagirl]

Hey ladies - let me apologize up front bc I'm probably not going to make much sense. I've been a lurker of many boards for quite some time, but this is one I never wanted to have to post in. I even feel almost embarrassed for what I'm upset about since many of you have suffered much worse.

I'm 36, with PCOS and very irregular cycles. I finally got my first ever positive opk several weeks ago and timing of everything was perfect. Later on a few pregnancy symptoms started popping up - sore boobs, insomnia, frequent urination, rage. So I poas last Wednesday and boom - two lines! They weren't dark, but they were definitely there. Went to my OB Thursday morning and she drew labs for betas - their office was closed Friday and I still don't have results. Friday morning I poas again expecting the line to be much darker, but instead it was lighter. Saturday morning it was even lighter. Saturday afternoon I started feeling really sick, severe cramping, and heavy bleeding. All of these symptoms were much worse than a normal period for me. My question to you ladies (and will also ask the nurse when she calls this morning) is this - what the hell just happened?? Was it ever really positive?? I mean, the lines were there and the symptoms were there. I got the positive opk on cd 19 and the positive pregnancy test on cd 33. I'm so confused and go back and forth with being terribly upset, let down, numb, etc.

Sorry for rambling, don't have anyone irl that I'm comfortable sharing this with and my OB's office isn't open for a few more hours. Thanks for listening.

[doodler]

I am so sorry you are going through this. It sounds might have had a chemical pregnancy. Only your OB can confirm though. I'm surprised they didn't send you for another set of betas on Saturday. Usually they want to make sure they are doubling because a single beta doesn't really tell you much. My CP was exactly the same. Light lines and then a few days later I started a really heavy period. I ended up bleeding heavily for 7 days, which is totally unlike my normal cycle. Either way, I am sorry you are going through this. I hope that you get more information from your doctor soon.

[nolagirl]

The nurse called this morning and said that my betas were "elevated" she didn't tell me the number. She asked me to come back in to recheck it and I explained to her what had happened since I saw them. She talked to the doctor and still wanted me to come in for the blood work - which I figured is what would happen. I did not make it to their office before they closed due to work and a traffic nightmare on the way there. Going in the morning to have the bloodwork done. Today I had no cramping and light bleeding. This all just seems very weird and too much to deal with.

[caer]

nolagirl - I'm sorry you're in limbo. I hope your doctor is able to provide some answers for you.

[ellabee]

Oh nolagirl, I'm so so sorry. My first loss was a chemical pregnancy and was a similar experience. One day two lines and the next 4-5 days days were lighter and lighter until I knew it was no good. I also had positive blood draws, but the results were low and not doubling.

Feel what you need to feel. There is absolutely no reason to feel embarrassed about mourning the loss of something just because you weren't as far along as someone else. It's a loss and should be acknowledged in any way you feel is right.

I hope you were able to get in touch with your OB office. I'm sorry for all the confusion. It just makes dealing with all the conflicting emotions that much more difficult when you don't have anyone to talk to about what's happening.

[nolagirl]

Thank you ladies so much. And thank you ellabee for validating my feelings. These last few days have been a roller coaster of emotion for me.

I talked to my OB yesterday morning and she wanted me to come in for all sorts of labs including betas to follow it back down to zero. I got caught in a traffic construction nightmare and didn't make it to the office before they closed yesterday so I had it done this morning.

I went to work yesterday thinking that just getting back into my routine would help and for a while it did. But then I went to the bathroom and broke down for a bit. Today I worked from home to just have some quiet time and will get back in it tomorrow.

Thank y'all again for listening and for the support

[muskiefan]

I'm sorry you are going through this. I hope your OB has more answers for you. The roller coaster of emotions is so difficult.

[mishel65]

Well why are you worried. I am really happy after listening about you. Why are you so much worried. It's really great for you. You are pregnant. What is harm in it. It's really very great. I am so much happy for you. You are going to become a mother. All you are worried about is your test results. Don't worry everything is going to be fine. You test results are going to be just fine. You don't need to be worry about anything. It's just that you are panic. Try to be calm. Everything is going to be just fine.

[gerge12]

nolagirl it happened sometime. This may be a sign of miscarriage. For confirmation visit your doctor. He will suggest you what is best for you. this may not be an actual case. May you have less amount of acid in your urine. It’s ok nolagirl. Here we discuss every problem. We warmly welcome you.

[sarahlietzo]

I contacted a number of clinics regarding surrogacy and they helped us in a number of ways.

everytime i conceived i had miscarriages at the end.

So i gave up on getting pregnant again.

I have the same problem too dear.

I persuaded my husband for surrogacy and he is ready to go for it to have a baby.

Now i am married for the second time and i am going to surrogacy option to have a baby.

Research over the web for different clinics for now and make up your mind for surrogacy.

I think you should also go for this option as miscarriages lead us to no other option.

Feedback appreciated in advance.

[lisa88]

I am so sorry to hear about you. Seems like it was a chemical pregnancy. It must be a tough time. You have to stay strong. What did the reports confirm? Is there anything to worry about? I hope everything goes normal. All the best!

[rihannadennis]

Mar 21, 2016 7:53:03 GMT -5 nolagirl said:

Heyy there! Well, yes! Your case seems to be a little complicated. Don't be hopeless! Stay in a loop with your obstetrician. So, yeah! I hope you'll get better. Stay strong!

[isabella]

Hey. Single beta cannot tell about anything. It's very rare to conceive with PCOS. PCOS is another kind of infertility a woman may face. I have seen many people who go for IVF in PCOS. Some of them are lucky so they conceive. But some of them are not. My sister had PCOS when she was 19. Then she got married and was not able to conceive. They went to many gynaecologists. They had the same answer that she cannot conceive. She was so upset. LAter she decided to go for surrogacy. She went to a clinic in Europe. Now she has a baby. She is so happy to have a baby.

[alice99]

Hello darling. How are you? I hope you are okay. I understand why you are scared. You are pregnant. It's really very great. I am so much happy for you. You are going to become a mother. All you are worried about is your test results. Don't worry everything is going to be fine. You test results are going to be just fine. You don't need to worry about anything. I wish everything goes well for you. Take care. Lots of love.

[rilwa]

It's exceptionally strange to conceive with PCOS. I read about someone who was facing PCOS infertility. Her husband and she was suffering. They wanted to have a baby. But They were not that much fortunate. She was so upset. She gave up on having babies. IVF also failed for her. But later they decided to have babies through surrogacy. Now they have a baby. If you are lucky enough so that you may go through it successfully. I hope you will choose surrogacy. There is a renown clinic in Europe. They are affordable and guarantees a baby to IPs. I am happy that you found us to ask for help.

[dianas921]

Hi dear! So sorry to hear about this confusion. Hope you are fine. Life always has ups and downs. Don't worry. I think you should visit a specialist. You can also visit some good clinic. Firstly it should be confirmed what did actually happen. Then you should take the respective action. In this way, you can get rid of all the confusion. I can understand your emotions. Don't be stressed. It would affect your health adversely. I hope this confusion would soon be solved and would end in a positive result. Wish you all the best!

[lika966]

Many people are talking about surrogacy here. I thought i should also share my experience with surrogacy with you people here.

I am from Japan and was happily married. I had hysterectomy cancer from early stage. I went for the treatment and i was cancer free. But this resulted in lifetime infertility. First 6 years of our marriage passed on happily roaming around the world. After 6 years we both felt the need of our children. But we both knew that i am infertile. So my husband decided that we will go through surrogacy to have a baby. Japan has banned the surrogacy. My husband contacted a number of clinics from around the globe. Than we moved to Europe. In Europe we stayed for 4 months. But we didn't found a satisfying clinic. After 4 months we moved to Ukraine. There are many clinics regarding surrogacy. We picked a good clinic. The clinic started our process soon and all things went well. The clinic found a good surrogate for us. Now the surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters. The clinic and the surrogate made our dream come true of having a baby. If someone is looking for some good clinics for surrogacy. You should surely go to Ukraine for it.

[rosie]

hi, Nolagirl felt really sad to know about this. I know how it feels. My best friend went through the same situation. She lives in Europe. Europe has world's best clinic indeed. Soon she got a positive hope and result. I pray that you may also bless with happiness. And get some positive news. After all this confusion. Take care of your health. It is most important. Hope for the positive things. I know it is the very difficult situation. Try to handle it calmly. Nothing is impossible. All the best wishes to you. Keep smiling. Stay bless! Lots of love.

[emmajoe303]

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[gerge12]

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[ashleyavril110]

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[amyxyz]

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[emmajoe303]

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Seats are limited, so please register for the meeting by contacting us via email surrogacy@bio_tex_com.com ignore '_' from email
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[sarahxyz]

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Seats are limited, so please register for the meeting by contacting us via email surrogacy@bio*texcom.com ignore '* from email.
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[amandakalvoska]

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[johanna12]

Hey, that was really sad to hear. I know the thread is old and it seems like it's infected with some scammers. Anyhow, if you're reading this. Stay strong. God has his ways. I am sorry you are going through this. I hope that you get more information from your doctor soon. Might have been a chemical pregnancy. Nobody can be sure. Stay positive. Stay healthy. Keep yourself busy. Much love. Take care everyone.

[emmawilson]

Hi honey. It must be shattering. It is indeed difficult to tackle such situation. I think your OB can confirm what happened. I believe this might be a chemical pregnancy which lasted for a short time. However the loss is there. But I want to ask the reason of embarrassment. Why are you being embarrassed for no reason. This is simply what not known by many of the ladies. I never knew about these things. I would be on same boat if something happened like this to me. But I have few friends who are facing issues in pregnancy. Getting pregnant is every women dream. Due to this whenever they get a slight hope they become very excited. That is why I came to know about these things. But honey stay relaxed. there is nothing to worry. I hope things get better for you very soon. Get yourself checked from a good and reliable clinic. Best of luck.

[librakatty]

Hi Nola! I feel so sorry to hear about you. Dear there are a lot of problems already we ladies are facing. I am very upset these days also as I am infertile and when I got to know about all this after my miscarriage I started to feel like to loss all the hopes of living my next whole life as I so wanted to have my own baby but unfortunately I cannot now. My husband always supported me in this situation and just because of his love and support today I am doing so normal and fine. Well he and my doctor has suggested me to go for the surrogacy as it is the only best and safe way for having baby and I was just trying to collect information related to this and I have found here that really it works because I have seen so many successful cases of surrogacy already now here. I am hoping for the good. Best wishes to all of you.

[anna88]

I hope you're doing okay. My prayers are with you. I genuinely hope things get better for you. This is a tough time. It will pass, though! Sending you my best regards and wishes. Lots of baby dust for you. Here's to hoping your luck turns around.