hydrangea1019 thank you, congrats on your weight loss, that's awesome!!
Thank you. It's really hard some days (like when DH brings home to bags of almond M&Ms because DUH it was bogo... Grrrr). Thankfully, my friend/coworker is doing it so I'm not alone in it during the day. It's easier when you have support.
daystardreams I finally stopped bleeding. Hallelujah! I'm sorry your timing ended up being crappy. akraus2015 good luck with round 2! kayladawn91 I'm sorry you have reached this point. It's a big step to get all the testing done and for me honestly a lot of it was wrapping my head around the idea that we may not get good news. The ladies here convinced me to move forward and I'm glad we did. mosdub can you possibly talk to the OB about your concerns and see what she says? I'm thinking the molar might play into the timeline too. I remember you haven't always had the most confidence in your OB though. @irish I would definitely call the RE. I was in a similar situation in that my OB kind of blew me off when I asked for some additional testing for RPL. I ended up scheduling a consult with the RE without a referral and I'm so glad I did. hydrangea1019 congrats on the job offer! That's great news!
Post by notagoddess on Apr 27, 2016 10:58:12 GMT -5
How are you doing? Still feeling pretty down
Status (TTA, TTC, Benched): TTC
Diagnosis (if applicable): Resected uterine septum, unexplained IF
Updates/questions: I've started acupuncture hoping that will make some difference. But 3 sessions in the acupuncturist announces she will be raising prices, and I don't know if it's worth it at this point. It's a lot of money.
Debbie downer (a place to vent): Since doing the infertility testing and meeting with the RE, I've been feeling pessimistic about our chances. We can't afford IVF at all and can't afford injectable IUIs without going into debt. I'm sad that maybe that was it in terms of having children. I don't think my feelings are warranted yet, but that's where my mind has been lately.
QOTW: Favorite store to shop in for clothes? There's a really nice consignment store a few towns over from my parents' place. Last week I got a pair of perfectly fitting Ralph Lauren dress pants for $10. I love getting a good deal!
Post by notagoddess on Apr 27, 2016 11:24:30 GMT -5
ellabee, so excited that you're back in the game and feeling good! I love TJ Maxx too.
wannabmama, I am so frustrated and sad for you that this is playing out how it is. I hope things start moving along very very soon.
peaseblossom55, I'm glad you got some comfort out of the ceremony. I'm sorry you're feeling bad. I still have my fingers crossed for this cycle. I want you to get your rainbow so much.
ladytiffany24, I hope your TWW goes by quickly and you got your BFP! I also don't buy full price clothes since it's pretty easy to find a bargain.
icedtea, I'm frustrated with your doctor on your behalf. I wish they would see you sooner than mid-May! That must be so difficult to be unable to move on physically. I hope they can get you in sooner because of a cancellation or them just getting some common sense. Ugh.
pinkcat, having to get the ball rolling on testing is definitely not where you want to be. I'm sorry you're there.
doodler, maybe your body is responding that way to all of those tests? Either way that is annoying. I hope the upcoming appointment put everything into context and gives you a better idea of what to expect.
daystardreams, hugs. That's the worst when you think you have good timing, want to be extra sure but get turned down, and then it isn't so great after all. Been there and had that discussion.
akraus2015, sorry about the mood swings. I am so afraid of the emotional effects of Clomid since I already struggle with depression. I hope this cycle works better for you and makes the sacrifices worth it. About the bra, can you stuff it with those removable triangle inserts from swimwear and some sports bras? That could make it a snugger fit.
kayladawn91, I am so happy you have those suckers out and can move forward with TTC! I hope your husband gets with the program and you get some action soon
mosdub, about your question, I've been told the time technically starts again, but previous medical involvement warrants seeing someone sooner than 12 months. I set up an initial appointment with the OB after 9.5 months TTCAL, which felt right, but it's a personal decision. You should be able to see a doctor when you feel it's the right time. I hope you won't need to though
@irish, best of luck with WW and getting healthy. I think a call to the RE is absolutely warranted given what you've written.
hydrangea1019, good luck with the job! That sounds really promising. I hope the repeat SA gives you some answers and helps set a plan into place.
Timing during the FW with H seems to be to much of a nuisance to him. He doesn't want to know. He just wants it to happen without tracking or trying. This angered me before but I see his point now. I was putting to much stress on of. I am in a TWW but thinking about it too much was driving me crazy. Probably why it was driving him crazy. So I'm going to stay out of the WTO and TWW boards. In the 2WW I'm questioning oh should I be drinking ... Well I obviously have been. There's an expression drink utill pink? I guess I'm on track with that. If I live like I might be pregnant 2 weeks out of the month when I get my period I'm just going to get angry or depressed about it Whatever hits me.
Yes!! It's been an adjustment to live like I'm not pregnant and won't be anytime soon, but I think it was necessary not to become completely bitter.
Thanks notagoddess! I'm trying to see it as giving my body more time to right itself, but mostly I want to throw glitter at the receptionist. I'm sorry you've been feeling so down. That is a lot to be dealing with.
@samrs22, I am a big drink till it's pink person. I feel like we get to a point where it's damage control. Do what you gotta do to stay sane.
Post by kayladawn91 on Apr 27, 2016 12:22:43 GMT -5
hydrangea1019 I'm glad things seem to be going well and that's awesome about the job opportunity! I hope it works out for you.
notagoddess I am so sorry and sending you so many hugs.
@samrs22 I gave up trying to plan my life around TTC. I used to put off booking vacations and things like that because I *might* be pregnant by then. I realized that if I sit around and live that way, I'll just become more upset.
Post by kayladawn91 on Apr 27, 2016 12:29:58 GMT -5
Okay guise, I just scheduled an appointment at my OB's office for May 6. I am due for an annual anyway so I figured I would just set up a consult for that day too. DNW to be in this spot but I guess it's time.
Okay guise, I just scheduled an appointment at my OB's office for May 6. I am due for an annual anyway so I figured I would just set up a consult for that day too. DNW to be in this spot but I guess it's time.
Good job. I know it royally sucks but in the long run you won't regret trying to get more answers and help in this journey.
Post by kayladawn91 on Apr 27, 2016 12:51:41 GMT -5
So now I guess I have a question. Should I call my insurance before this appt to get an idea of my IF coverage? I doubt we have any. Or should I just wait until I see an RE?
Sorry about the bust cycle akraus2015 what type of jewelry do you make?!
@irish thank you...I'm glad I'm not alone. I felt like I did with my first loss back when my numbers weren't rising so just expected everything to move along. Not it's been so long... I'll talk to my RE next week, if not before. I'd rather my body process it naturally but am cognizant of the time pressure, so it's tough!
I wish I was creative enough to make anything but a mess!! I'm an Independent Stylist for Stella & Dot.
akraus2015, sorry about the mood swings. I am so afraid of the emotional effects of Clomid since I already struggle with depression. I hope this cycle works better for you and makes the sacrifices worth it. About the bra, can you stuff it with those removable triangle inserts from swimwear and some sports bras? That could make it a snugger fit.
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I struggle with anxiety and depression also, which is why I think the mood swings were so bad.
So...the bra. I was running around like a crazy person yesterday trying to make it to the airport before a hail storm came in. I was eating lunch and spilled salsa all over myself. Long story short, I had to run into target and buy a new tank top to go under my sweater, which required a different bra. I grabbed one of those $10 strapless bandeau tops that looks like a swimsuit, not realizing that a large might fit cup wise but definitely the band would be way too big. By the time I made it through security I was practically holding it onto my boobs. Then my flight got delayed by 2 hours and I drank 4 glasses of wine and didn't care anymore. Womp womp.
So now I guess I have a question. Should I call my insurance before this appt to get an idea of my IF coverage? I doubt we have any. Or should I just wait until I see an RE?
I would suggest going ahead and calling so you have a definitive idea if anything is covered. In our case it's nada. zip. zero. It's pretty typical, but maybe SOMETHING is covered... we have two options at my employer, if we chose the other one at open enrollment, then testing and diagnostics would've been covered... but we didn't want to wait around again for open enrollment to start up the process.
So now I guess I have a question. Should I call my insurance before this appt to get an idea of my IF coverage? I doubt we have any. Or should I just wait until I see an RE?
I would suggest going ahead and calling so you have a definitive idea if anything is covered. In our case it's nada. zip. zero. It's pretty typical, but maybe SOMETHING is covered... we have two options at my employer, if we chose the other one at open enrollment, then testing and diagnostics would've been covered... but we didn't want to wait around again for open enrollment to start up the process.
Good luck!!
I agree. Plus sometimes docs are good at being creative to help you based on your situation. It may influence the path you decide to take, etc.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
So now I guess I have a question. Should I call my insurance before this appt to get an idea of my IF coverage? I doubt we have any. Or should I just wait until I see an RE?
I would suggest going ahead and calling so you have a definitive idea if anything is covered. In our case it's nada. zip. zero. It's pretty typical, but maybe SOMETHING is covered... we have two options at my employer, if we chose the other one at open enrollment, then testing and diagnostics would've been covered... but we didn't want to wait around again for open enrollment to start up the process.
Good luck!!
Yeah I'm guessing nothing will be covered for us either. Which will leave us with no possibility of treatment since we don't have savings for anything like that.
I would suggest going ahead and calling so you have a definitive idea if anything is covered. In our case it's nada. zip. zero. It's pretty typical, but maybe SOMETHING is covered... we have two options at my employer, if we chose the other one at open enrollment, then testing and diagnostics would've been covered... but we didn't want to wait around again for open enrollment to start up the process.
Good luck!!
I agree. Plus sometimes docs are good at being creative to help you based on your situation. It may influence the path you decide to take, etc.
Yep! Our office will quote you the insurance bill rate, but when they realize we are self-pay, it's not as much. Still a pretty penny, but less than what is originally quoted. It's kind of annoying that we don't get the real price up front, but I'll gladly plan for a higher amount, and walk out with left over money to save for the next thing
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