Post by BabyStandish on Feb 6, 2015 10:18:20 GMT -5
Since it seems people are having sexy time again, I figured it's time to talk about it. I've been turning DH down and I feel bad about it. I might give in Valentine's weekend though.
Have you and SO had sex yet?
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now?
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications?
Post by laceysbryan on Feb 6, 2015 10:39:41 GMT -5
Have you and SO had sex yet? No
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? I'm 3 weeks post partum
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? I tore and got stitches. I don't know what degree, but I'm assuming it wasn't that bad because recovery has been fine. I didn't need to get my Norco prescription filled. No other complications
Any concerns about sexy time? Just that it's going to hurt, or that I'm not going to be into it. I'm not feeling sexually interested at all right now. I'm also concerned that my vag is going to be super stretched out
Have you and SO had sex yet? Not the real deal....
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? 4w5d
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? c-section
Any concerns about sexy time? I am worried about it hurting, afraid to do it before my 6w appointment due to possibility of infection. My DH can't hardly stand it and gets mad at me when I turn him down, but I hate giving bjs and I just have not been in the mood. I am pretty sure my libido is directly linked to my hormones because I used to want to all the time (years ago), then changed bc to a low dose estrogen (mom had breast cancer linked to her estrogen levels), and since then my libido has been very low, almost non existent.
Hmmm. I remember posting abg getting excited to DTD again back in my 36gh week. Now , im not sure. Lol
To answer your qs, we havent dtd yet. Just over 3w PP, RCS delivery. If DH asks by week 6 I might give in. Might being the operative word since I don't knw if I'm up to that
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? I'm 3.5 wks PP
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? I had a 2nd degree test but it hasn't bothered me any.
Any concerns about sexy time? Just that it wasn't comfortable after both of my girls for at least 2 months. May have been more like 4. Also since breastfeeding, need extra lubrication. And boobs are off limits while I'm BFing.
Have you and SO had sex yet? No, but I did things on my own last night because I've been in the mood since delivery
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? Not yet, but currently 2w4d PP.
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? A "small" 2nd degree vaginal tear; no external tearing. I had some concerning blood loss following delivery of the placenta (more than there supposedly should have been) leading to severe anemia.
Any concerns about sexy time? Nope. I just want to do it! My libido disappeared all of pregnancy and came back within hours of delivery. WTF body!
Haha not sure which thread this should go in, but is anyone's husband not freaked out by your boobs if you are nursing? This may be a TMI, but my DH hasn't been, and I haven't put them off limits... He likes them actually right now.
I am so glad you said this! My husband is in love with my boobs now and watches while I nurse. And he is constantly trying to pull them out (i wear a bra all the time because of leaking). I told him my boobs are not sexual toys anymore and he needs to leave them in my bra unless he wants to ruin the mood! (Being soaked in breast milk is not fun!)
We haven't dtd and I'll be 5 weeks PP on sunday. And we see the doctor on monday who will hopefully clear us for all activities!
Had an unplanned c-section.
I'm just worried about infection. This is my first so should I be worried about it hurting? Seems like it would only hurt if you had a vaginal delivery. But what do I know?
Post by shannjohnston on Feb 6, 2015 14:03:36 GMT -5
Have you and SO had sex yet? Not penis in vagina sex, but we've done some other stuff How many weeks PP? Four weeks tomorrow Did you tear/CS/complications? Nope. I was super lucky! Concerns? I'm still bleeding a little, so I think I want to give it at least one more week.
Post by LaBellaVida on Feb 6, 2015 14:10:52 GMT -5
No. No sex yet. I'm 2 weeks pp today. No tears, vaginal delivery. No concerns. I actually told my H a few days ago I feel like I could have sex now. I don't feel like I've had a baby. I feel really great, and I'm no longer bleeding. He said he's prefer to wait. (He follows the rules. ) which I'm OK with.
Ha! No way, I wish it was longer than 6 weeks that you had to wait. I have zero interest and I do not feel like giving up any of the minimal amount of sleep that I get.
I am 4 weeks pp
I had a 2nd degree tear and some stitches.
My concerns are mostly that I am not interested but also that I would not want to risk infection by doing it before I was cleared. I have a really low sex drive in general and this pregnancy made it even lower, it would just not be worth it at all to me to take the chance.
No sex yet. I'm 5 weeks pp. I had a second-degree tear and stitches. I'm really not in the mood at all. I'm exhausted and I feel touched out. I'm also really afraid to get pregnant again. We won't have PinV sex till after I get an IUD at 8 weeks. Fortunately, my husband isn't the kind of asshole who pressures me for sex.
Have you and SO had sex yet? Yes just a couple days ago
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? Just about 2 weeks pp
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? I had a very minor tear and got one stitch
Any concerns about sexy time? We weren't planning on having sex, we were just trying to be sexy and as stupid as it sounds it just slipped in. Once that happened we immediately got worried but I felt fine, no pain or anything. I haven't bled since a couple days after delivery so we dtd and it was great. Normally my DH is a boob man but is completely freaked by milk coming from my tits. So he still groped them but I had to wear a bra. It actually kind of hurts my feelings a little cause I feel like It is something that we did that I won't get back now. But that is just my hormones making me upset I'm sure
Have you and SO had sex yet? No :-( And I'm super horny!
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? We're 1 month PP as of 2/4
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? C/S
Any concerns about sexy time? FI doesn't want to have sexy time bc he's scared I'll get pregnant straight out of the gate even though I'm breastfeeding. He won't give me what I want until I finally get my IUD. What a prude :-(
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? I'm 8 days PP
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? I tore my labia and into my clitoral hood. Beyond that, I've been too scared to ask for details; even that I gleaned indirectly.
Any concerns about sexy time? I'm terrified. I think I'd be happy to never be touched again (but I'm sure that'll fade as time passes. I doubt the terror will fade, though.
@littlefoote My husband isn't freaked out by my boobs now, but he has said he looks at them differently. When I was pregnant and they were just big, he was all into them. Now they're functional so he's not really turned on by them, but not turned off, either. He's kind of indifferent
Have you and SO had sex yet? Yes. I couldn't live without it lol.
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? We did it at like 2 weeks pp. So that was like 3 days ago for the first time.
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? I had a CS.
Any concerns about sexy time? I know there's a risk of infection since it's been less than 6 weeks. And we're not being safe so hopefully I don't end up with 2 under 1 lol. But other than a little bit of dryness in the beginning things have been great
We haven't dtd yet and I'm 5w2d pp. I didn't tear, but had an episiotomy and also popped a few hemorrhoids. I'm just scared doing it will hurt. Everything still feels off down there, so I'm really in no rush.
Have you and SO had sex yet? Nope not yet. Just some hand jobs
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? I'm 5 weeks 1 day out
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? Yes, I had second degree tears, and I had a bacterial infection when I was checked at two weeks
Any concerns about sexy time? That it will hurt. I'm also worried about getting pregnant again quickly. I'd like to wait a few years so I hope the condoms hold up while my mini pill takes a month to become effective.
I was scared to death of an infection but the alcohol took over and I wanted it so bad, and I'm glad we did because holy cow. That was some good love makin'.
Post by 3littleones on Feb 6, 2015 19:55:44 GMT -5
Have you and SO had sex yet? Yes
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? Like 2 days before 6 weeks pp. It didn't feel right so we tried again a few days later. 7 weeks PP still sensitive.
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? No tearing.
Any concerns about sexy time? I'm worried it will become a pawn for back rubs again.
Post by grumpycat88 on Feb 6, 2015 20:37:32 GMT -5
No sex yet and I'll be 5 weeks pp tomorrow. I had a first degree tear kind of to the side of my vag. I was on pelvic rest since like week 21 of my pregnancy so it's been so long since we've had sex. DH is very excited for the 6 week appointment and I agree!
I stopped bleeding at 5 wks PP but we cant agree on contraceptive to use. And neither one of us wants to risk getting preg again. And since we're talking about it, my dh is a kind of afraid of my boobs. Aside from the milk leaking everywhere they are huge. I went from c cup to h. For my hubby there is such a thing as too big.
We haven't DTD. I'm 9 days pp so it'll be a while with the 2nd degree posterior tearing and right labial tear. Still have a stitch by my urethra and on my perenium (sorry tmi). I did have a dream last night DH and I 69d so he might be getting a beej this weekend... Always helps him being extra nice and doing things like chores and making me food With the northern tearing I'm afraid of utilizing that area again. I still haven't looked at the damage. Can't wait for that 6 week checkup! Come on March 12th!!!
Have you and SO had sex yet? No not yet. Been fooling around here and there though.
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? I'm only 2 weeks 3 days PP.
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? I had a small first degree tear. I still have some pain when peeing so I know I'm definitely not ready.
Any concerns about sexy time? I was thinking about this today. I am actually petrified that it's going to hurt. I was hurting before baby so I'm even more scared after.
Post by raynabobayna on Feb 7, 2015 3:28:53 GMT -5
Dtd 4 weeks pp. Had a tiny tear that required a couple of stitches. I was really only concerned with starting to bleed, during or after, but it didn't happen so yay! Now my concern is we didn't use any protection, and I might shoot myself in the foot if I'm pregnant again...
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