Nope, no sex yet. Hoping to be able to soon. I'm 3 weeks PP today. I think hubby wants to wait the full 6 weeks, but he's never been one to play by the rules. I did have one 1st degree tear, got stitches. They haven't dissolved yet, and aren't healing correctly. I'm afraid of bleeding, but really want to do it! It's been so long, and I'm horny!
Post by tomorrowisanotherday on Feb 7, 2015 8:37:33 GMT -5
Yes! We DTD at 3 weeks pp, couldn't wait any longer I didn't have any tearing and bleeding stopped around 2 weeks, so I figured we were okay to at least give it a try. I will say it was very successful! (No pain or problems with dryness, I pretty much felt like things were back to normal!)
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? 2.5 weeks PP.
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? I had an episiotomy and stitches so I am le scared about everything down there. (Big babies are awesome for feeding/sleeping, but suck for delivery. Oh well...I will take the 6 hour stretches of sleep as long as things heal somewhat normal down there).
Any concerns about sexy time? I told DH that I wanted to wait until after my 6 week appointment, but I'm sure we'll do something before then, but probably avoid that area. I'm still a little sore/tender.
Have you and SO had sex yet? No way...just some BJs.
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? I am around 2.5 weeks PP.
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? I had a very complicated second degree tear and 3 hours of stitching due to hemorrhaging, followed by a blood transfusion.
Any concerns about sexy time? I will quote/echo @little92 and say that I am "le scared about everything down there". I'm starting to feel more normal, but the whole delivery/repair experience was pretty traumatizing and I'm not at all ready to see what state my vagine is in yet.
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? I'm 6 weeks pp and just got the ok from my ob
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? I had a cs, a part of my incision reopened and i had to get a silver nitrate stick on it
Any concerns about sexy time? Worried about the one spot not healing but i an READY
Post by christeng87 on Feb 8, 2015 12:43:48 GMT -5
Have you and SO had sex yet? Nope
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? 6 weeks tomorrow, and I have my appointment at 8am tomorrow. DH has been asking almost daily this past week and I've been putting it off until I get the all clear from my doctor!
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? Yes-forcep delivery with an episiotomy and 3rd degree tear. Because of all the stitches (and never looking to see where they were at, so not knowing where to look to see if they are healed!) I haven't felt comfortable dtd before my appointment.
Any concerns about sexy time? Yes...I'm worried it will hurt. I was really excited about it a couple weeks ago and now I'm just not feeling sexy anymore. I'm hoping I can get in the mood and have fun tomorrow! I was not into sexy time while I was pregnant so I am really, really hoping my libido goes back to what it was pre pregnancy!
No sexy time here yet and I'm 4.5 weeks out from a RCS. I'm up to give it a go but keep having random bleeding so am waiting for that to stop.
With DD we "tried" at about 5 weeks pp and I was surprised that it hurt (wasn't expecting that with a CS) and it wouldn't fit! We tried again a week later and it wasn't good for me but we managed. Hopefully it goes better this time!
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? I'm 2 weeks and 3 days PP
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? I had a second degree tear and some stitches.
Any concerns about sexy time? I'm nervous that it will be painful and we will have to wait even longer to have sex. My sex drive disappeared during pregnancy and it's finally coming back. I can't wait to have all the sex - we need to make up for lost time!!
How many weeks PP did you dtd? Or if you haven't done it yet how many weeks PP are you now? I waited until I got the okay by my doctor, so it was 6 weeks to the day. I also bled for 5 weeks and 4 days so I couldn't have sex anyway.
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? I had a 1st degree tear, not sure how many stitches.
Any concerns about sexy time? No but my vagina is still effing sore!
Have you and SO had sex yet? Yes, I did this past Saturday
How many weeks PP did you dtd? I was 4 weeks 5 days
Did you tear during birth? Have a CS? Or have any complications? I had one stitch
Any concerns about sexy time? I was terrified, but it burned some but actually it was much better this time then it was with my daughter! Its all about that lube bout that lube
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